Why Are Men Chasing Women?

[eTorro]

Hi.

I notice at work that whenever a new female co-worker gets the job, most men orbit around her. They come talk to her in the hopes that she'll give them attention and go out with them.

Why are men so driven to get a woman? I seriously don't get it.

Because I see what's happening at work. The chasing and the 'desperate' attitude that men have just to get a woman.

This may not be the perfect topic, but that is what I saw: most men are desperate to get a woman. And that's not vice versa: women aren't desperate to get a man.

What are your thoughts on this?

[Schizophonia]

Testostérone 

[Puer Aeternus]

Just a stray pube, floating in the wind.

Wondering. Will she notice me?

I definitely find it true in most men. That men and women cannot be friends- And it's because most men can't set aside second head consciousness with a woman they find attractive.

Validation hungry, hungry dick. A true race to the bottom! But if you chase any female energy in the vicinity where's your respect? For other women and yourself. Means you they can't separate themselves from their urges and projections.

Manipulative women clock this easily and will play on their neediness and take whatever they want from them.

Edited June 19 by Puer Aeternus

[Schizophonia]

Btw women also and even more want a man most of the time.

It’s just less obvious because they are less offensive, more shy…

 

[Schizophonia]

3 minutes ago, Puer Aeternus said:

Just a stray pube, floating in the wind.

Wondering. Will she notice me?

I definitely find it true in most men. That men and women cannot be friends- And it's because most men can't set aside second head consciousness with a woman they find attractive.

Validation hungry, hungry dick. A true race to the bottom! But if you chase any female energy in the vicinity where's your respect? For other women and yourself. Means you they can't separate themselves from their urges and projections.

Nefarious women clock this easily and will play your neediness and take whatever they want from you.

Men and women can be friends if they already have an valuable partner or if they are non attractive.

 

[Puer Aeternus]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

Men and women can be friends if they already have an valuable partner or if they are non attractive.

 

I mean of course.

But a lot of the time, the man has ulterior motives going on 

[meta_male]

@eTorro

[Schizophonia]

6 minutes ago, Puer Aeternus said:

I mean of course.

But a lot of the time, the man has ulterior motives going on 

I would make this explicit within the first week or two depending on the frequency of contact. 🤔

And if she is not intererrested then we can being friends but i will allow more energy to find someone else.

Edited June 19 by Schizophonia

[Leo Gura]

You need us to explain to you why men chase pussy?

[Eskilon]

Because men want attention and can't be by themselves.

Edited June 19 by Eskilon

[Puer Aeternus]

11 minutes ago, meta_male said:

@eTorro

BAHAHA

It's too good. Too good.

[Puer Aeternus]

6 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I would make this explicit within the first week or two depending on the frequency of contact. 🤔

And if she is not intererrested then we can being friends but i will allow more energy to find someone else.

This sounds like the ideal! And I would do the same!

But it isn't necessarily what happens most of the time 

[Schizophonia]

5 minutes ago, Eskilon said:

Because men want attention and can't be by themselves.

I would say people and especially men are less interesting by receiving attention than having the right to give it.

Right to give love, under different forms according to your « language love » and gender.

Edited June 19 by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

8 minutes ago, Puer Aeternus said:

This sounds like the ideal! And I would do the same!

But it isn't necessarily what happens most of the time 

Normally in 2/3 days, if you see each other at work or high school as op has said, you can date a girl, I don't see why anyone would wait.

 

Edited June 19 by Schizophonia

[Eskilon]

6 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I would say people and especially men are less interesting by receiving attention than having the right to give it.

No, to give is to be selfless, and people are ugly selfish. They want to receive and give nothing or very little.

Edited June 19 by Eskilon

[Nemra]

Maybe you don't have the feeling to chase them?

[Puer Aeternus]

1 minute ago, Eskilon said:

No, to give is to be selfless, and people are ugly selfish. They want to receive and give nothing or very little.

Nah.

Giving can be selfish. You can have an inflated sense of self when giving, you can give from your motives and not what's best for the person.

[Sugarcoat]

One time in high school there was this conventionally attractive guy who joined our class in the middle of the year and a ton of girls flocked to him. So it can happen in the opposite direction. I bet it almost exclusively happens when the person is at least somewhat conventionally attractive.

 

[Eskilon]

2 minutes ago, Puer Aeternus said:

Nah.

Giving can be selfish. You can have an inflated sense of self when giving, you can give from your motives and not what's best for the person.

Yes. But what you are talking is not true giving -- it is false altruism. I am talking about true selflessness -- which exist but is very very rare.

Edited June 19 by Eskilon

[Schizophonia]

1 minute ago, Sugarcoat said:

One time in high school there was this conventionally attractive guy who joined our class in the middle of the year and a ton of girls flocked to him. So it can happen in the opposite direction. I bet it almost exclusively happens when the person is at least somewhat conventionally attractive.

 

Me at philosophy school 😎