What Women Really Want:

[Lyubov]

Women do want truth. They just play a lot of games and have their own way towards it. There are dimensions of truth many men have not reached with a woman because of their lifestyle, beliefs and barriers. You obtain higher conciseness and deeper connection to spirit by choosing a partner you grow spiritually with and it’s understood to be the case by being more and more authentic with each other. This has to be one of the top values of the relationship, living authentically and growing your connection to your inherent spiritual value. Don’t blame your partner for getting in the way of this because it’s all in the mind that they are. You don’t need some stage green witch or yogi girl to do this (misconception here). In fact girls from more traditional societies are just fine. Just by resolving issues with your woman and learning to communicate with her makes it easier to speak truthfully. It clears up blocks you have and strengthens your spiritual connection where everyday life has dimensions of awakening you didn’t even know could exist in such places. These are dimensions not touched on in this forum often because so few men here have had experiences like this, they are just trying to get the attention of women for a first date. I’m telling you there are far more layers to this. Women open up a whole new realm of spirituality, like one of those old computer games where an expansion drops and you’re blown away how much more there is to explore. Be open minded and realize there is stuff you may not be able to even conceptualize that can happen in relationships just due to your beliefs in the way. 

Edited June 18 by Lyubov

[Basman]

I see that channel recommended a lot but I never click on it because it gives me a bad feeling and I now feel justified in my intuition. It feels very vindictive and the opposite of constructive. Like, how many videos can you make about dating if your priority is efficiency and integrity? Surely, you have to then acknowledge that too much theory becomes counter intuitive after a certain point. You can make endless videos essentially bitching though.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Lyubov

I think you raise some good points.

Within the scope of relationship, good strong boundaries (know thyself) are the structure you can use you facilitate more intimacy. Intimacy = truth. This is for interpersonal dynamics. It is always subject dependant for sure.

I conceptualise truth like a nuclear bomb. The 'fallout' are the emotions that result from the information. Each sex (in my experience) deals with the nuclear emotion fallout differently; men have a bit of a lead shield and can move on quicker, less sickness. Women tend to be more vulnerable to the radiation and sickness that results. I do think both sexes are just as emotional, whether aware of it or not. Men appear to me, to simply be able to compartmentalise their emotion to deal with cold hard facts in a quicker manner.

Generally speaking, of course.

Edited June 18 by Natasha Tori Maru

[TheEnigma]

We want what other women want. Nature has made men the experimented gender. For women, we want the safety of what other women want. And basically we want everything. Just that we don't have enough time to get everything we want so we have to make wise decisions.

[Lyubov]

3 hours ago, Basman said:

I see that channel recommended a lot but I never click on it because it gives me a bad feeling and I now feel justified in my intuition. It feels very vindictive and the opposite of constructive. Like, how many videos can you make about dating if your priority is efficiency and integrity? Surely, you have to then acknowledge that too much theory becomes counter intuitive after a certain point. You can make endless videos essentially bitching though.

Exactly. He is getting applause from red pill folk and people burned by their dating problems. It's a coping thing. The channel has some good ideas here and there but it's largely just red pill cope dressed up intellectually. 

[Keryo Koffa]

Edited June 19 by Keryo Koffa

[meta_male]

11 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

But in all seriousness if that is an assumption you would make, take care, as that also could be read as a defense mechanism to protect you from some truth.

Ok mommy, noted. 😏

11 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I'm very good at assuming and being wrong. Also very good at making quick decisions and conclusions, and discarding relevant information! I need to work on assessing all facts, as I make connections so quick I discard what doesn't fit 😬

I gotta admit, that trait....jumping to quick conclusions and discarding what doesn’t fit is exactly what makes me think twice about keeping a girl around. But real sharp self-awareness though. Respect.

13 hours ago, Puer Aeternus said:

But there is only one true joke underlying it all, me! 

You do sound jokey. Most people live as jokes and don't even know it!

[Puer Aeternus]

5 hours ago, meta_male said:

You do sound jokey. Most people live as jokes and don't even know it!

 

Of course!

Cosmically, my mind is no bigger than a Summer ant. Just a small little automaton with such limited understanding. 

Then one day the universe gets out a garden hose and woosh I'm swept away.

Even when I'm not horribly wrong. Every word and idea out of my mouth butchers what is real and truthful. 

The bigger I feel in my big boy britches, the more I've lost touch with true nature.

A big silly idiot.

 

[meta_male]

@Puer Aeternus I'm getting hardcore INFP vibes from you. You can join the club if you want, we have snacks.

[Puer Aeternus]

6 minutes ago, meta_male said:

@Puer Aeternus I'm getting hardcore INFP vibes from you. You can join the club if you want, we have snacks.

 

Damn it, I've been EXPOSED

Need those snacks to cope with how naked and afraid I am right now.

[Keryo Koffa]

34 minutes ago, meta_male said:

𝓟.𝓐. ꠸'ꪑ ᧁꫀꪻꪻ꠸ꪀᧁ 𝖍𝖆𝖗𝖉𝖈𝖔𝖗𝖊 𝞲𝞰𝞷𝞿 v҉i҉b҉e҉s҉ ƒɾꪮꪑ ᥡꪮᥙ. уσυ ¢αη נσιη тнє 🛸 ιϝ ყσυ ɯαɳƚ, ɯҽ ԋαʋҽ 🍪.

25 minutes ago, Puer Aeternus said:

 ᦔꪖꪑꪀ ⅈ𝕥, ⅈ'ꪜꫀ ᥇ꫀꫀꪀ ẸⓍᵖ𝐨丂ᗴ𝔡

ꪀꫀꫀᦔ 𝕥ꫝꪮડꫀ 🧇 𝕥𝕠 𝕔𝕠𝕡𝕖 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕙𝕠𝕨 🫠 ≋&≋ 😳 ⅈ ꪖꪑ 𝕣ⅈᧁꫝ𝕥 ꪀꪮ᭙.

𝓘 𝓻𝓮𝓬𝓸𝓶𝓶𝓮𝓷𝓭 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓪𝓷 𝓔𝓢𝓣𝓙 𝓪𝔀𝓪𝓴𝓮𝓷𝓲𝓷𝓰, 𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓵𝓲𝔃𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝔂𝓸𝓾'𝓻𝓮
𝓼𝓾𝓹𝓹𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓭 𝓽𝓸 𝓫𝓮 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓿𝓲𝓼𝓲𝓸𝓷𝓪𝓻𝔂 𝓮𝓷𝓮𝓻𝓰𝓲𝔃𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓲𝓻 𝓮𝔁𝓹𝓻𝓮𝓼𝓼𝓲𝓸𝓷.

𝕎𝕖𝕝𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕥𝕙𝕖 ℂ𝕝𝕦𝕓, ℙ𝕦𝕖𝕣!

[Puer Aeternus]

5 minutes ago, Keryo Koffa said:

𝓘 𝓻𝓮𝓬𝓸𝓶𝓶𝓮𝓷𝓭 𝓱𝓪𝓿𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓪𝓷 𝓔𝓢𝓣𝓙 𝓪𝔀𝓪𝓴𝓮𝓷𝓲𝓷𝓰, 𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓵𝓲𝔃𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝔂𝓸𝓾'𝓻𝓮
𝓼𝓾𝓹𝓹𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓭 𝓽𝓸 𝓫𝓮 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓿𝓲𝓼𝓲𝓸𝓷𝓪𝓻𝔂 𝓮𝓷𝓮𝓻𝓰𝓲𝔃𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓲𝓻 𝓮𝔁𝓹𝓻𝓮𝓼𝓼𝓲𝓸𝓷.

𝕎𝕖𝕝𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕥𝕙𝕖 ℂ𝕝𝕦𝕓, ℙ𝕦𝕖𝕣!

 

I am become ESTJ,

worker of offices,

creator of spreadsheets.

I kissed God at the office water cooler.

And God kissed me back.

 

[meta_male]

3 hours ago, Puer Aeternus said:

Damn it, I've been EXPOSED

Balance has been achieved. Welcome to the fellowship. Now kneel, baptism by existential tears awaits.

@Keryo Koffa You had an ESTJ awakening? Cute. I don't awaken, I disintegrate and then crawl back laughing.

 

[Puer Aeternus]

19 minutes ago, meta_male said:

Balance has been achieved. Welcome to the fellowship. Now kneel, baptism by existential tears awaits.

 

Perfect, no need for fresh ones though.

I have cupboards full of my tears stored in tupperware that we can use!