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Why I'm quitting NoFap.

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1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Can you explain exactly how that leads to erectile dysfunctions?

Read the research. 

Basically, you train your brain to get the blood flowing by watching porn videos, but when a woman is in your bed, your dick will be sloppy and fade away to oblivion.

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8 minutes ago, D2sage said:

Read the research. 

Basically, you train your brain to get the blood flowing by watching porn videos, but when a women is in your bed, your dick will be sloppy and fade away to oblivion.

Where's the proof of that? Have all of those porn watchers self reported that their dick were no longer functioning? Or did the researchers all watched the guy trying to fuck his chick and his shit not working?

How is getting arroused by a woman in porn video any different than having your dick hard in the real situation? I think unhealthy life style is much bigger culprit but porn isn't one of those factors. Seems like BS to me. Has this study accounted for lifestyle as well btw?

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1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

How is getting arroused by a woman in porn video any different than having your dick hard in the real situation?

Makes all the difference in the world.

Do you touch these women in the video? can you smell them? Can you sense their touch? 

Thought so :P

Here are 50 studies related to this:

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/porn-use-sex-addiction-studies/studies-linking-porn-use-or-porn-sex-addiction-to-sexual-dysfunctions-and-poorer-sexual-and-relationship-satisfaction/

You can find about ED from porn here.

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That seems like a much healthier relationship with masturbation than no fap.

I think there's far too much stigma and shame applied to men masturbating... in the media and in society in general.

So, when I've had male clients come to me in the past for help with better habits (with no fap often among them)... I notice that a lot of that comes from sexual shame and an attempt to control the body.

Honestly, without a partner, masturbation seems like the best option to meet those needs.

Porn can be unhealthy though, because of how it trains the mind to view sex and the meanings attached to sex. 

But moderation is key.


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9 minutes ago, D2sage said:

Makes all the difference in the world.

Do you touch these women in the video? can you smell them? Can you sense their touch? 

Yeah but that's even more stimulation. That's even more stimuli for arrousal for me, like, I'd get hard just by the smell itself. That's what makes sex much better in the first place. So that kinda goes against this erectile dysfunction stuff

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1 hour ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

So that kinda goes against this erectile dysfunction stuff

Ma ybe for you but porn is still the culprit for tons of men.

"Rates of erectile dysfunction were lowest in those [men] preferring partnered sex without pornography (22.3%) and increased significantly when pornography was preferred over partnered sex (78%)."

Scary red line. 

The red line is not what your dick will raise upon as if pornography is not cut off.

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These 78% need porn because a real woman cant make the blood flow.

The sooner guys realize porn is a bad habbit the better. Most guys cant even last a week without getting withdrawal symptoms and furiously beat the meat. Shows how addicting this shit is.

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6 hours ago, Someone here said:

No .who said porn is harmful because of "excessive arousal "? 

Porn is harmful because it's addictive by design.  It is designed to hook you and tie you . You keep jumping and clicking on the next clip and the next clip with no end in sight until you find the perfect clip to wank to . And even after you rub one out and go to take a shower you may take the phone with ya to the bathroom and rub another one out before jumping into the shower . And you won't stop until you are partially castrated . I literally masturbated to porn 15 times in one day when I was 19 yo .

Porn is also harmful because it turns you into a lust-obsessed pig . When all that's going on in your mind is asses and boobs and moaning and cumshots you can't even answer 1+1=porn🤓

Why is it addictive?

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2 hours ago, Carl-Richard said:

Why is it addictive?

Because it feels "Guuuuuuud". I mean like...REALLY FUCKING GUUUUD. 

technically when you are having an orgasm you're literally  kissing the entire existence "fuck off " And getting a temporary peak of nirvana. 

Come on Carl you are smarter than that. Such a lame question 😂. 


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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You don’t need logic to understand what an organism is.

Just beat it!

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8 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Stop using that excuse to dismiss a female's perspective. Female doctors also treat male patients' sexual issues.

It's not an excuse. I'm sorry If I'm being too clashy here with you but women gotta understand that we men are our dicks . Women's libido is like 0.00005% of men's libido . Men's testicle keep on manufacturing cum and hormones 24/7 and he NEEDS to empty his balls constantly otherwise the rape rates will rise to 1000000%× double . Go become a transgender and have some pleasure stick down your pants and then you will understand what the hell I'm talking about .

Do you see what you did right there though ?


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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4 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

organism

orgasm*.

 


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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2 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Women's libido is like 0.00005% of men's libido

You don't know that, women just have a way of hiding it and aren't willing to just flaunt their horniness around. It only seems that way to you because men find it harder to get sex so they think it's because women aren't horny fucks. Every couple I've dated in my work, the woman was the horniest.


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6 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Go become a transgender and have some pleasure stick down your pants and then you will understand what the hell I'm talking about .

Very limited mindset. A sexually aroused woman doesn't show on the outside; that's our mystique. 


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8 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Do you see what you did right there though ?

No.


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12 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

You don't know that, women just have a way of hiding it and aren't willing to just flaunt their horniness around. It only seems that way to you because men find it harder to get sex so they think it's because women aren't horny fucks. Every couple I've dated in my work, the woman was the horniest.

No I do know that . You are talking nonsense.  Just look at the physiology and anatomy of the penis and the vagina . The vagina is a hole that receives and gets wet during intercourse .so it doesnt get aroused then it releases..understand? Whereas The man just catches a glimpse of your tits and the penis literally bulges outward like a pussy magnet getting horny for your lil puss-puss ..then the intercourse happens and the woman doesn't always achieve orgasm because she is cold ..but the man makes a big mess with his sticky fuck butter .and it doesnt end there ..he will go through some temporary recovery period then he will Start thinking of dat pussy again. 

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 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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Just now, Someone here said:

No I do know that . You are talking nonsense.  Just look at the physiology and anatomy of the penis and the vagina . The vagina is a hole that receives and gets wet during intercourse .so it doesnt get aroused then it releases..understand? Whereas The man just catches a glimpse of your tits and the penis literally bulges outward like a pussy magent getting horny for your lil puss-puss ..then the intercourse happens and the woman doesn't always achieve orgasm because she is cold ..but the man makes a big mess with his sticky fuck butter .and it doesnt end there ..he will go through some temporary recovery period then he will Start thinking of dat pussy again. 

Lol. It's a good thing you've stopped watching porn (for now), it has surely ruined your already ruined brain. Haha. It's always funny when a guy tries to tell a female about her anatomy. If you notice when I speak of these things I never try to dissect a man's sexual organs and turn it into fried chicken fried in butter, I stick to the mental aspects and I've probably seen more penises than you'll ever see pussy in your whole lifetime up close. Don't even try it, it won't penetrate (pun intended), I mean with the seen more dicks comment. 


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2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

and I've probably seen more penises than you'll ever see pussy in your whole lifetime up close. 

Well If you haven't seen my penis yet then you ain't seen nothing ,girl. 


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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32 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Well If you haven't seen my penis yet then you ain't seen nothing ,girl. 

You're right about that. Two negatives in a sentence cancelled out the negative so your penis is nothing alright. 

Why do you and i always argue like husband and wife. Maybe we should just get married and forget about all this ringmaroses bullshit talk about penises and vaginas, no fap and masturbation. Just integrate them all cause you'll be no fapping and masturbating through the whole marriage. Don't mind me, I'm silly.


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7 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Maybe we should just get married

I'm gay and you are lesbian .not gonna work .

Even then ..you are not even blonde so Wtf right ?


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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4 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I'm gay and you are lesbian .not gonna work .

Even then ..you are not even blonde so Wtf right ?

Then we'll just act like a transgender couple.

That's what wigs are for. I can't believe I'm hitting on you. First time for everything. Lol it's the Cabernet Sauvignon I'm drinkin. Won't see this side too often. I'm cracking up over here. No emojis needed. Frfr...


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