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  1. Posted · Edited by Psyche_92

    3 hours ago, Viking said:

    I tried to deal with the loneliness alone for the last 3 years but it just gets worse and worse.

    Seems like your dealing with it the wrong way.

    Are you actually sitting down with this emotion ( loneliness) when it arises, and allowing it to be there, without ANY distractions?

    3 hours ago, Viking said:

    I've been on them a few months but I didn't get a 'yes' to go on a date yet. I have been close, but I feel like the women just get turned off because of me wanting it too much.

    Maybe yes, maybe no. I honestly think you shouldn't go for dating apps, even if that's the only thing you got. Most of the woman on there are approval seekers and they don't really care. Maybe you should go and travel somewhere to meet girls in real life.

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    12 hours ago, montecristo said:

    are the x legs the same thing as being knock kneed or knee valgus? because I think I have the same thing as well as some hip abnormalities called FAI.

    Yes.

    12 hours ago, montecristo said:

    I have found nothing about this online and am quite curious about others who have the same issue.

    You will find something here and there about it. I also found it's due to bad genetics.. But i'm not so sure that will be the only reason.

    12 hours ago, montecristo said:

    I have had knee pain my whole life, you too?

    No thankfully not. I don't really experience any negatives, apart from the esthetics.

     

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    12 hours ago, bejapuskas said:

    Does anyone actually drink during sex? That sounds like some crazy ancient Rome orgies

    My "dad" was drunk during sex.. Yea my relationship with him is non existent :). It's kinda odd cuz i even showed him this stuff and he kinda laughed it off. Didn't expected much else tbh, he's kinda stupid af.

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    10 hours ago, outlandish said:

    Out of curiosity, what are these anatomic deviations you mention?

    I'm not sure what it's called again, but my doctor once told me the name, can't remember. It's basically on my left hand, 2 of my fingers are a little bit deformed. I'm not able to fully stretch them, due to muscles and tendons not being fully developed. It's not a big deal though, and i can get surgery for it if i want to. I just don't think it's worth it, since my hand is "fully" functional, but it's still something i was ashamed of in my teens. At this point it's basically just the esthetic part that's bothering me a little.

    Also my elbows are not 100% straight and i have x legs, which can't directly be blamed on alcohol during sex, at least i haven't found anything about it on the internet so far, but i feel like it definitely has something to do with it, as it is again a deviation that happens before being born. This is also something that i was very ashamed about in my teens, and today i still have a little complex about it. Especially now during summer it's kinda annoying for me to wear shorts etc bcuz i feel a little paranoia that people might look at them too much 9_9.

    At last i also have a deviated septum, which basically is one small nostrill. Up to this point no real problems besides again the esthetic part of things. Overall just mainly self confidence problems that came with them.

    Might all sound bad but it's not that bad to be honest. I'm living a normal life as far as i'm concerned, but why would you simply not drink alcohol to evade stupid things like these from happening to a new born right :).

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    Whatever you do, don't drink any alcohol and don't smoke during pregnancy. Well, not during the sex either actually.

    I have some small anatomic deviations which i believe are the effect of my dad being drunk during sex with my mother. It used to bother me a lot when i was a teenager, so stuff like that brings unnecessary suffering. It doesn't obstruct living a normal life for me, but if i had been a little bit more unlucky, i think it could have been very bad.

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    20 minutes ago, Natasha said:

    You guys idealize girls too much.

    Reality check for you all - girls' breath stinks in the mornings and they can be smelly, they pee and shit like you do, they have lots of insecurities and fears, they have daddy issues, they are good at covertly control and manipulate, they are emotional freaks, and most of them hate their looks.

    Is this something you'd want to put on a pedestal and be infatuated with?

    If you do, then be my guest.

    But seeing a woman at her most humane and volnurable moments and still accept and love the unlovable parts of her (and visa versa) is what really makes or breaks a relationship.

    Wait what? Why am i tagged in here. I don't idealize girls at all.

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    38 minutes ago, Elisabeth said:

    Get some older friends/mentors from your uni and ask how they handled the transition. You can also ask about the stuff you don't know. 

    HA funny, i'm actually 26. Probably going to start when i'm 27.. So i'm actually the old one. Let's hope i'm not older than the mentor. Yea my age is holding me back a little.. Can't help it :|

    38 minutes ago, Elisabeth said:

    If your coursebooks suck, get some from USA. They tend to write in a 'for dummies' style

    Nah, can't do that. These books are hardcoded into the course, and a lot are from the same author, which is actually a professor in college from this country i'm living in. There is no way i can use any other books but these.

     

  15. Posted · Edited by Psyche_92

    Hello,

    My goal and life purpose is to become a Psychologist/Psychotherapist, and in my country i need a masters degree in Pyschology to even make a chance on getting a job in the field, which requires me to go to college for 3 years, and probably also 2 years of uni.

    Today i did some good research, and ended up with a list of books that are used in the course i'm going to attend. This caught my interest, and i ended up going to the library to have a sneakpeak of them. I also tried doing a test on the website of the university i will attend, and i came to the conclusion that it's going to be way harder than i expected. At least that's what it looks like right now. The main problems that immediately came obvious to me where the complex vocabulary, and also the complexity of the science used to explain some of the most basic Psychology concepts. As i opened some of the books, and read some paragraphs, i literally couldn't understand anything from what i had just read. This was a funny blow to my ego, as i thought i would have build up a decent vocabulary after reading a good amount of self-help books. Nevertheless this hit my confidence a little, and now i'm here thinking i'm not smart enough.

    Now i know i can expand my vocabulary and stuff if i read more of these books, but the thing that bothers me the most is that they are from the first semester, so they are actually the most basic and fundamental stuff. This together with the fact that i never really had to study, is scary to me.

    What would you advise, apart from the obvious as in reading a ton more?

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    Uff.. I've been watching porn again for 3 days in a row. Don't feel too much negative effects from it though. Been very social this weekend and went out a lot. Maybe it is in fact all in my head, or maybe my ego got very smart and was using relapsing to porn as an excuse all this time to not take any action and be lazy. Either way, i'm gonna keep taking radical action no matter what. I feel porn will fall of my shoulders sooner or later out it's own, without having to push it out of my life. It's gonna happen. I won't have any time to touch my ding dong soon anyways 9_9 .

  20. Posted · Edited by Psyche_92

    First journal ever. Got the feeling of starting one so i might aswell do it now.

    Not sure what i'm gonna write here yet, but it will probably resolve around getting rid of my addiction to porn, and my journey on becoming a Psychologist/psychotherapist. Been wanting this for way too long, putting it off waay too long, ignoring all the signs leading there too long, so it's time i start pursuing it. Just thinking about it makes me cry. I got this ^_^.

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  21. Posted · Edited by Psyche_92

    Uff.. I've been watching porn again for 3 days in a row. Don't feel too much negative effects from it though. Been very social this weekend and went out a lot. Maybe it is in fact all in my head, or maybe my ego got very smart and was using relapsing to porn as an excuse all this time to not take any action and be lazy. Either way, i'm gonna keep taking radical action no matter what. I feel porn will fall of my shoulders sooner or later out it's own without having to push it out of my life. It's gonna happen. I won't have any time to touch my ding dong soon anyways :ph34r:.