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i quit porn when i found that my imagination gives me way better masturbation sessions than porn however - the visualization needs to be vivid and powerful

I'm takin lions mane but I dont feel shit

I played league of 3, wow for 5 and 3 for runescape. Do I regret? Yes it birthed a very unselfaware, depressed person. But it brought me to Leo & PD so that's the equivalent trade off

if AI does get super super powerful, it doesn't matter how turquoise our world will be all it takes is ONE low conscious person to get a hold of it! my god we are in danger

Leo's life is a maze vid

give to organizations that you truly truly believe in maybe neurofeedback centers. these guys are doing some great fucking work for mental health ?

@purerogue ?

i've found that i've been craving relationships for a very long-time as well to the point where it's challenging on my psyche. only recently i've been doing something about the need, and my life satisfaction has shot through the roof i don't have direct experience of anything you've mentioned though, but in my experience i've found human connection incredibly important. maybe those things can replace or make it so relationships are not needed, but not for me at this point in my life i can make a definite fact though - for many people, connected relationships are extremely necessary in many scenarios. honestly - i feel like actualized community places very little emphasis on relationships. relationships can be huge for your happiness and personal development. i'm assuming this because Leo's particular style is not relationship heavy at all. he rarely gleans over it and is very solitude-like.

Whenever I'm at home it's really hard for me to work hard and self actualize. My home has also been the place where I have been depressed and lazy for like a decade. If I leave my home and go to a library it becomes a lot easier.

@Shadowraix sorta curbed with the "featured" tag and best of thread (though not updated)

Theres Nothing wrong. normal. Just your reaction to what's normal Is hurting you

Thanks for this post! Forum needs more inspiring posts like this

btw i'm in the process of solving this equation: I've noticed that green girls are great human beings. in the sense that they are very loving, kind and not superficial. they don't care if I'm unemployed, don't have a great body or not super good looking. they care more about kindness, love, empathy. they don't care if i'm super alpha or not. Instead, she cares about me for me, including all of my flaws and all my sticking points. even regardless if i have social proof. it's so WEIRD. i can be super weak, super feminine, super unattractive, and i'm STILL desired?? I'm transitioning to being more independent and focusing on my life. i'm 100% open to a girl and focused on having a girl but being depressed about it isn't working. so instead, i'm focusing moreso on my priorities and working on lots of self-love. i know that self-love will help me attract a girl much more naturally. every night i am doing a self-love meditation that i found on youtube. i think this is the transition from codependent into independent in 7 habits of highly effective people. i want a girl, but i no longer NEED a girl.

im stage 14 enlightenment. get on my level nerds

Sometimes I hate people. Sometimes I love them. Really it has to do with how I'm being treated. If I feel loved, I love you. If I dont, i hate you. Nice summary of my life ? I hate this one girl in my life. She is using me as a dump. But. I can never blame anyone for anything. I can CHOOSE to be treated like this or to not. I will take steps to move away. Move to someone who respects me for me. Who loves me for me. Who talks to me for me. Somebody that doesnt talk to me just because they're lonely. I have shit to do. I'm not here to play GAMES. I'm not here to get lied to. ?

this is so heartwarming ! to see everyone come care for this man acutalized.org community to the rescue!!

@Freakyboo watch her scandal vid

watch the guides on kickstarter on youtube

seems she is turquoise but not enlightened. just my guess

My question is are girls more insecure than men? I have this belief somewhere in me that girls are all amazing and confident and I'm not. But I'm starting to realize girls are just as insecure, if not more?? Girls are physically weaker, this makes me think that girls are more fearful due to not being able to fend for themselves like men. Men also have a lot more privilege than girls. Men can get jobs easier, get more pay. I also hear horror stories of females all the time. However, whenever I hear stories about genders, I always hear: men are so bad, we are cheaters, rapists and assholes. Girls can get lots of guys. I have a friend that's a girl, she has no self esteem but has several dudes that are in love with her. I dont have girls in my life so it makes me think that girls are the choosers and we men have to get lucky. What do you think?

Stage green is beautiful as fuck. Ur dumb Green women are the LITERAL BEST

nah fuck that bro. Teal Swan says it's the #1 thing for happiness for a human being is human connection Now that is obviously debatable. But it definitely means it's extremely significant. She's a smart lady She argues that belonging needs are more important than physiological needs sometimes. because some people when they don't have belonging needs met, can't even eat or sleep

I have a deep desire to be authentic to how I'm feeling right now, but how I'm feeling right now will repulse the girl I think? honestly i hate not being able to be myself and "fake" who i am. like fake that i'm so alpha or fake that i'm cool. i just want to be me, but "me" is so far away from confidence. i'm currently very insecure. Do I just have to wait until I gain confidence and finances before girls will be attracted to me and in the meantime, express myself and be okay with girls not being attracted to me? I feel like if i talked about my insecurities and my weaknesses, she will get turned off immediately. Because I'm not this super confident guy? So what do I do? Is there any high conscious ways of going about game/attracting women/relationships? Anyone know of books or courses?

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this forum is so kind, helpful and inspiring thank you leo and everyone who's helped me over the past year. i truly am grateful and i dont know what id do without listening, reading and conversating with you guys. i feel like im part of this community where we are all in this together trying to become our best version. thank you i just come to this forum and then feel inspired, leaving better than when id come to it. i read about everyone's progress and sticking points and seeing that it's all just part of this one big journey.