Loreena

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  1. 1 minute ago, Razard86 said:

    Your enemy is more honest than your friend because your friend will often hide the truth to spare your feelings. Based on what you said comfort= truth for you. As long as this is how you find truth, you will live in delusion. 

    I don't think this is always true. Well meaning friends don't care about hurting feelings. They care about saving a friend. 

    You have a projection against friends, Vulnerability and love. 


  2. @The Monk  Your parents  are hampering  your growth  severely.  Not a good place  to be in.  If you're  in London  its  best if you find some counsellor to get in touch with  and get their support  to make your parents  to understand  the situation.  

    If they don't,  then apply anywhere nearby for a sales job,  or other  local low level  jobs and use the  money to live in shared rented apartments.  That's  your  only chance  brother.  

    Or get help  from some school /college friend who's  ready to let you stay with  him till you get financially  independent.  

    Until  you don't  have your  own money,  nothing  can be practically possible  at this moment   


  3. You don't have to choose between the two. You can have both. If you allow one to hinder the other, that's upto you. Frankly I view both sides as unhealthy - when a guy is too interested in women but not work or when a guy is too interested in work but not in women. Just shows a lack of balance imo. 

    Life is a juggling act.


  4. 4 minutes ago, Lorcan said:

    What do you mean they did it on stone tablets that "magically sprang to life"? And what do you mean they still do it in mueseums. I doubt mueseum administrators use stone or wax tablets to schedule their day or keep records.

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    And sometimes they stood in the hot sun. That gave them energy. 

    But it was mostly drinking and partying in groups that gave a boost to work next morning. 

    It was a way of life. 

    Slates are more powerful than smartphones. "

     

    Wait help? Help me understand, how is this relevent to the question.

    What do you mean slates are more powerful than smartphones???????

    For them, slates were sacred. So when did something they did it with a religious fervor and seriousness. 

    Our way of life is lazy. They were strong energetic people. And because they got their dose of entertainment every evening, they'd feel radiant and energetic every morning. 

    However we live a 24 7 life with little break. In fact entertainment is considered unhealthy and a waste of time and indeed it is a waste of time as we sit in front of TV. That actually makes us more tired. 

    But if you went with friends to a small gathering where you dance and laugh and have fun you'd actually come out feeling refreshed ready to start the new day with energy, that would save a lot of time. However the present generation is just not aware of such a lifestyle that people lived back then. 

    Standing in sun is a huge source of Vit D and energy which is underrated. 

    They would travel on foot and horses, that would make their muscles naturally strong. 

    We are far behind. We can't even imagine their level of tolerance and strength and how the present lifestyle has pretty much left us lazy and useless. 

    Their stones were sacred. So they had to follow whatever they wrote. 

    If they lived today, they'd actually achieve 100 times more than us. We're nowhere near as capable. 


  5. Just now, How to be wise said:

    Eckhart Tolle had a far deeper enlightenment than most people. He clearly has emotional mastery and unconditional love, which most enlightened people don't have. Same with Byron Katie. And probably other people who had instant enlightenments. 

    Then it could be something they're already born with. Something they have naturally in them. 

    But I personally don't believe that it comes without effort. 

    Leo even mentioned that in his latest video  - --don't believe if someone says enlightenment is easy. It takes thousands of hours of practice to reach there. At least that's what he said and that's what I believe. 

    I am not quite sure of these instant enlightenments you talk about. To me that's a mystery. 

    I'd rather invest my time in learning about enlightenment the harder way.