Rishabh R

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    10 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

    Hmm, I'm not so sure about that. The person might be real, though.

    I hate when something stinks of being AI-generated. Some degree of paranoia might be involved on my part, too.

    Are you AI? ;)

    I'm sorry but I don't know about the 1st .However, the 2nd one which watched some months ago was not ai generated .😁 Even though my wisdom might not be fully mature .By the way sorry @CARDOZZO I am wrong since I analysed all these videos as well as your posted video and found that your posted video was more accurate than video posted in my post. Also it was more accurate than Leo's video - How socialization makes you dumber .

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    1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

    In practice many people flunk out of university.

    In practice many people flunk taking life seriously as I have observed. They can't even stop smoking cigarette for a week leave apart practicing philosophy, meditation,contemplation/self questioning. Yes you were right that people won't take a person kindly who questions assumptions.

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    Dipression is not being aware that reality can surprise you.@Nick_98 What you are describing is mood swings not depression.

    Speaking of assumptions - Dipression is a feeling of hopelessness based on the assumption that nothing will change even if one takes actions. Even though that is a faulty assumption in most cases.

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    1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

    Each new challenge prepares us for the next, bigger challenge.

    Yup , and then small challenges feels trivial when compared to them. By the way can I request a feedback from you about me even though you don't know me in real life and we are just random strangers talking on the forum ?you seem to be a resilient person and have experienced in life more than me (I'm just 25 years old). 😁

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    17 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

    So the next time, it is easier to take action in the face of charged up energy.

    Yup documented as progressive desensitisation in psychology .

    Also Seneca whos'e book caught my attention and I bought it on Amazon Kindle (On Hardships and Happiness ) few months back wrote in that book that a wise person views adversities as training exercises so failure isn't bad but rather a training exercise .( Even though in the past I mistakenly thought it to be due to personal inadequacy )

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    @Ramanujan I did it by learning from the PDFs which college professors provided me ,studying consistently . Also I did it by writing the important lessons from chapters in my copy. Even though I struggled a lot to score high CGPA and was suffering in college heavily due to above average but not good CGPA and seeing people going from relationships to relationships where I was single ,bring rejected by girls.However not clearing the goal of high CGPA and being in constant tug of war weather I will get a girlfriend or not acted as a blessing for me whenever I look at that past.

    Since, with not getting 8 CGPA out of 10 in college but landing on 7.64 lead me to buying of many high quality self-improvement courses ,books (physical copy and online on Kindle ) and studying them besides my integrated M.Tech in Biotechnology. It taught me emotional regulation,resilience, doubting my beliefs and assumptions which were more valuable like skills than crossing the benchmark of 8 CGPA since they help me now as well.In fact they got me multiple placement offers(3 offers ) in college. I remember once in college that I gave my exams without eating my antidepressants for 1 weeks ,suffered from withdrawal symptoms which caused me immense distress during and after exams (Scored 15/20 in 3 subjects and 8/20,11/20 in other 2 subjects ) . Finally in the last semester I got 9/10 CGPA in my dissertation.

    As an advice I will say this that nothing beats this  - Just study consistently .You will get better as you keep going and be persistent in your studies despite getting bad marks.

    Romantic rejections acted as redirections towards better connections ,not giving a F--- or being detached and focussed on my own life made me more attractive and happier which I later realized deeply after college .I read and applied Models by Mark Manson . Multiple girls approached me. Some said I am handsome , cute,intelligent.

     

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    4 hours ago, YIDIRYIDIR said:

    i don't get how this example fits in this context, can you explain what are you trying to get across? 

    Our mind looks for familiarity based on our past experiences and scans the present circumstances to find similarity and focuses on it.For example - If you ate an apple 4 days ago,you liked it and went to a shop your your first attention or bias will be towards apple which you will be inclined to buy since you liked it's taste in the past. You will ignore all the other better tasting fruits and make sure that you buy apple .

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    What you experienced was pattern recognition. I have recognised within my own mindset. When some failure or setbacks occurs in myself and I see others succeding my emotional system immediately comes up with that old familiar feeling of being left out. When I was in school and college I was single and still am but during those stressful times people around me were getting into relationships,going on dates ,getting intimate whereas I was getting rejected ,mistreated by girls whom I interacted with . I felt it recently.

    Understanding is tracing within a system how it's parts interact with themselves and the long term as well as short term estimation of a system's interaction internally and externally.

    As per your post you can write the things you recognise in a diary creating an insight list such as a commonplace book or a journal.

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    @Majed Congratulations on your progress and you can progress further .All the best. Two days ago I had a dream of writing my story in a self-help community. Not this one. It's ironic to see someone else writing this on the first self-help forum which I joined on the internet.

     

    @MagnanimousUniversity can be tough as it has been for me in the past for my 5 years integrated masters in biotechnology engineering degree. I would say this ,no matter how tough the circumstances are they will change since they are temporary.

    I am grateful that the university chapter is over in my life and got a training placement in biotechnology manufacturing where I worked for 6 months. 

    Right now will be doing  another training.

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    @UpperMaster I have also read Models years ago and read it 3 times on Amazon Kindle . What Manson suggests by vulnerability by expressing your intentions to woman whom you are attracted to which you can decide and stop caring about the repercussions of it. As per abundance mindset quoting the line from the book - There is another one out there just as special who will be receptive to you.

    By the way apart from Models his famous book - The Subtle art of not giving a F--- in which he insists on practicing healthy indifference which is psychologically validated helped me attracting girls more. There is truth to when you generally stop caring about trivial matters like rejections ,rude behaviours you become more magnetic. I have experienced this multiple times in my life.