Rishabh R

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    @Miguel1 Alignment is not something that one gets through one time reflection but rather using reflection as a starting point and then acting in alignment with your priorities over and over again.

    What I have noticed is that more I align myself with my values more I have the feeling of fullness. It must be practiced day to day . You can use Ai to create an alignment tracker too.

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    @Leo Gura These quotes are gold. However I have few questions. Is critical thinking by challenging one's own assumptions a wiser path and is it part of skepticism?

    Yesterday I was feeling sadness but when I stopped resisting it but rather accepted ,embraced it I smiled. So which is better acceptance or observation of your negative emotions and reminding yourself that it's hallucination ? I mean since both approaches are path to embracing pain but which is the better catalyst for transformation?

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    7 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

    Insisting our view is the correct one, putting others down when they do not align. Pretending this is done for others own good. That there is virtue behind the actions. To teach.

    Leo does this. 

    And so are others in this thread. Interesting.

     

    But that assumes that Leo is guiding us by challenging us healthily. I came across his behaviour on the forum as hurtful ,egotistical .I was surprised to know years ago that he was not the same person on YouTube who taught basic self -help or even philosophy for that matter. His response on this forum contradicted to the YouTuber Leo Gura. Since then I learned the hard way multiple times on the forum and real life that people are not what they portray themselves online .

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    3 hours ago, LordFall said:

    Most things are fixable in life apart from like dead loved ones. 

    Also weed in the immediate short term. 

    Yup I agree 100% with the 1st statement . 

    Concerning second one I never even touched weed cigerette ,alcohol since I was born. 😂 

    4 hours ago, Elliott said:

    Make friends, enjoy life. 

    I already have few friends .

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    21 hours ago, Asia P said:

    In this case, yes, i feel like i can’t attract what i want. 

    I felt that too in the past for a long time as a male. 

    Quoting Mark Manson here which really helped me and helps me now - If you're sitting day by day miserable then you are already wrong about something major in your life.For any change to happen in your life you must be wrong about something.

    Try reading Subtle Art of not giving a F---.(A great recommendation)

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    @Majed I get you I felt this when I was in college that I won't get a girlfriend. It's pretty miserable place once you take that beleif seriously (speaking from experience) .Either question that beleif or stop buying into it since it can lead you to emotional turmoil,suffering ,sadness - all of which I went through in college by believing this thought .Fast forward today , I have graduated and I rarely think of that beleif as well as I have replaced it with better ones - I can get a someone if I continue putting myself out there. 

    Secondly , you can replace it with I don't know weather I would get laid ot not . 

    Now a these days whenever guys tell me I won't get a girlfriend it feels little hurt for a while but eventually it bounces off my chest .