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Maybe this isn’t the best answer as I’m in a commited relationship so not actively gaming any more but I always let the women come to me when it came to physical escalation. I flirt with my words and eyes in the beginning. She’ll give you the signs when she’s ready to be touched That said good job actually taking action and pushing the physical escalation. Now that you have the feedback it’s as simple as dialing it back a little

Pro tip when interacting with women… Minimize the use of logic lol You’ll never win an argument with a woman. Rather, relate to them on an emotional level. They think that’s real strong & sexy

Boxing is cool and all but Brazilian jui jitsus is where it’s at And no repeated bashing to the head

Ugh… healthy women don’t lol. Women like socially calibrated men that can state their authentic feelings & desires wether it fits in with the status quo or not

@Danioover9000 ahhh I see what you’re saying now. Yes it’s an interesting mix between (for lack of better terms) talent and skill. There are certain abilities/talents one is inclined towards and naturally strong in. Yet everyone can develop themselves and improve the technical skills they have. I’ve experienced this personally with kinesthetic intelligence. The connection I naturally have with the physical body is much deeper than most. I never realized that until I became a personal trainer and starter to help others connect to their body as well. And I saw it in my clients how some just “get it” easily and other it’s takes long hours of practice to tap into.

You’re throwing a Hail Mary to a coworker who’s obviously not interested in you (because your game sucks) You need more experience with women. Stop trying to squirm around that. What’s the population of this small city? I call bullshit that there is no place to meet new women. I used to live in a small town of 3,000 people and had multiple sexual partners there. Your excuses are invalid. And I get it, it certainly is harder to game in a smaller city but that doesn’t make it impossible. Besides, if it is truly important to you then you can always move to a more populated area. (Which might be necessary if you fuck things up with this work gal) I make these comments because I don’t want your next 2 years to look like your last two years… you sitting alone in your room masturbating to porn. Yea fuck that. You’re capable of making big changes in your life. Best of luck bro.

Very stage organe perspective. I used to think like this too. An obsession with growth & pragmatism. Now I actually enjoy the more sensual things in life like cuddling with my girlfriend, dancing, creating art, watching movies, etc. Which btw, counterintuitively lead to even more personal growth than just grinding all the time

Don’t shit where you eat bro. Start dating other women outside of the workplace because with your lack of experience you’re bound to fuck up any relationship you do get… especially one at work

No. Whats unnatural is the years you’ve spent alone in your room jerking off to porn and playing video games. Human beings are social by nature, even those of us who are highly introverted. You’re upset because you have to work hard to get women. Let’s be honest man, that standard of working hard to achieve something worth having applies to everything in life. Your entire perspective around socializing and dating is toxic. Realize that and change before it’s too late.

I’m not following what you mean by this. Would you mind elaborating?

Yea it didn’t feel off brand to me at all. I found it interesting that he talked more about Trump than the queen considering the question but it’s obvious he’s continuing to lean into his conservative values. Typical JP. I enjoyed the talk.

@StarStruck I stopped being able to interact with them after a traumatic experience around age 13 Recently found inspiration to start redeveloping my paranormal abilities. We will see where it goes

I’ve lived all over the US and each state has its unique pros and cons. My favorite state is Washington. There’s lots of job opportunities, beautiful nature, mild weather and it’s the most progressive area of the country. Cons are winters are rough, lots of homeless people, high cost of living and lots of people.

@AtheisticNonduality yea I just started doing fire kasina meditations with a candle a couple weeks ago (shoutout Daniel Ingram). I’m really enjoying that technique so far. I get scared sometimes sitting in dark rooms late at night by myself because I start to feel things… like I can tell that there’s a doorway to alternative level of perception but it’s scary asf so I always shut the door before I see anything?

This post was inspired by @BartekD’s similar thread. Thanks for the inspiration!

@BartekD I don’t doubt it happened. I used to interact with ghosts all the time when I was a child

@Rainy Sparkle damn, 5 hours is impressive. Congrats. My accomplishments for today was my kickass gym session, 30 minutes of meditation and a few hours of packing up my apartment (I’m moving next week). Oh also finished Leo’s newest video about socializing. Was certainly thought provoking.

Yeaaa I’ve def written things while high then read then while sober and though “thank god nobody else saw this” However I’ve also taken insights from trips and then eloquently articulated them while sober and provided solid value through their sharing I think the real variable to be considered here is the degree of refinement that your post has to it. No one wants to ready some gibberish that only makes sense to the high guy

@Dryas yea the religious hypocrisy is particularly egregious When I was growing up most Christians in my area would condemn others to hell for certain sins like being gay or smoking weed while other sins like premarital sex or drinking alcohol were completely fine.

Bro if you’re putting down 25K that’s YOUR house (assuming she isn’t putting down the same amount). I’d be very hesitant to sign any joint contract if you’re the primary monetary provider. I never mix relationships and money. That has so much potential to become toxic and tear a relationship apart.

I feel like you’re putting waaaaay too much pressure on yourself man. Let’s be honest here, you’re probably not going to pull. So drop that expectation now. Feel a little lighter now? Good. from there focus on simply having a good time with your buddies and enjoy the opportunity to meet some new people. That’s it. P.S. To answer your question, the best chance for you to increase your odds of getting laid is by socializing more. Which by reading what you shared I’m given the impression that you don’t do that often. So you’re moving in the right direction… just being too hard on yourself

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Yes, that is exactly why I am for it. Free the titty

Glad to hear that changed in perspective helped you. I believe it’s a challenge for most of us guys to look past those we’re attracted to as sexual objects. Definitely something I’m still working on.