Roy

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  1. - Your free time. Less time for hobbies, working overtime, being alone, exploring. etc. Anytime you're with your partner you have to be doing things you both want to do. - Can't flirt or be sexual with other people. Obviously. - Can't make big financial decisions without considering them. Changing jobs, moving, etc. - You might have to change the way you socialize and who you spend time with. Deleting social media etc. I could go on those are just some big ones, it all depends on the person you are and are with. Relationships are difficult things. You are sacrificing and compromising certain things for other benefits.
  2. A relationship is where you're committed to helping and improving each others lives. If you just stay in the early dating phase and don't go further you are basically just spending time together and fucking, but have no real investment in the other persons live besides maybe hearing about it. The pros are you can actually build something together and have someone (hopefully) reliable in your life. The cons are you lose a lot of your freedom.
  3. Stop making excuses. I've spent most of my life living in towns and small cities barely over 25K people and led a great dating life. I'm not a special person and could make it work, so why can't you?
  4. No problem. Just remember you are going to have negative and awkward experiences, but they don't matter. Don't hold onto them and let go to focus on the next thing. I talked to probably hundreds of girls throughout my life before getting my first few girlfriends. I can't even remember most of them at this point. Once you get something good that you worked for you will easily forget all the hardships and realized it was all worth it.
  5. @BlessedLion Take care of yourself man, I always enjoyed reading your posts!
  6. The fact you are even doing this is amazing for growth, and sets you easily ahead of half of guys, so good for you! As discouraging as it may be sometimes based on their reactions, you need to have the mindset that how they feel and react isn't really that important. Why you may ask? Because you should already be moving onto the next one. There are literally billions of them out there. Who gives a shit what one of them thinks? As long as you aren't deliberately trying to hurt anyone physically or emotionally, there is no problem. Keep going.
  7. Leo might not deliver the most "energy" or motivation compared to a lot of popular speakers, but the depth and richness of his content is practically unrivaled. I've listened to a lot of people speak and not many people provide a wiser framework for reality and points you in intelligent directions so you don't piss your precious life away chasing things. All for FREE on YouTube by the way. His only product is an 8 year old course that is pennies on the dollar for what you get. Just going through his catalog of episodes in 2019 (up to that point) probably saved me a decade of my life alone with all the traps he pointed out for me to avoid. Time is one of the only things you can never get back.
  8. Do you have any hobbies or communities you are apart of in real life? You can find belonging from joining tribes.
  9. It's hard to say if we don't know how egregious or not it is. Why not share? This isn't a judgmental place.
  10. I should have specified my post was about women you see (semi) regularly in your day to day life. Not random women you will only see once and will only have 1 chance to talk to. And no I've never read or studied any pick-up material in my life, I've never needed it personally.
  11. Yea honestly it's annoying af. Ironically you will get results with women when you stop treating them as important and trying so hard. They end up coming to you because it's attractive when someone doesn't give a fuck. "This guy must be busy and important since he barely spares any attention for me." That is what they are subconsciously thinking.
  12. When you have such an insane amount of exposure of course you are going to become well socially calibrated, especially in comparison to those who don't get those "automatic" opportunities. If you bushwhacked for many hours every single day, you are going to acquire a high pain tolerance and tougher skin. I don't think you are aware of just how much the average girl socializes lol. I'm sure if you had access to their phone and records of who they talked to every day it would be 4x as much as male counterparts on average.
  13. Build me a luxury spaceship that rotates and can create it's own gravity. Bring on a handful of hotties and some interesting people and launch me as far away from this planet as possible. Leave the launch codes for all nukes as the winning numbers on some big lottery ticket, then watch the fireworks from my window lmao.
  14. Is that bottom left image @electroBeam who used to post on this forum years ago lmao? Edit: Oh I thought that was a graduation picture of him or something
  15. It's just your mind playing nonsense on you. Learn to accept who you are and develop yourself. Don't let yourself get distracted with identity bullshit and confusion. You have to face your fears head on, eventually. You can run by transitioning if you want, but you can't hide.
  16. Online dating is a total waste of time and just another social media further degenerating our culture into materialism. It's like putting nitrous oxide into hypergamy as well. For every normal girl, there are 10 delusional/toxic ones make the dating pool not so fun to swim in. They are like little kids who pee in it. A few years ago I had a 33 year old woman call me a rape culture advocate because I asked her on a 2nd date lmao , Good times! Modern blogger feminism has destroyed the dating market and is like a brain rotting virus that turns even full grown adults back into children. The best thing to do is just not be a pussy. Walk up to people in real life and ask them out. They'll be more likely to say yes because it shows confidence and authenticity in a day and age of narcissism and fakeness.
  17. It's no guarantee to be socially successful, or get ANY woman you want. But you will get enough results from those things to be content that's for sure. I've never met or seen a jacked dude that is even in the ballpark of being an incel.
  18. Most rejection can't be personal, if they don't know you personally.
  19. It all depends on the woman, what boundaries you can set with her (that are fair), what her career and temperament is etc. Some women can be very demanding and needy, while others will back off and give you the space and time you need. It's up to you to attract and build a relationship with one that fits into your life. DO NOT force your partner to adapt too much to your life and goals. If you have to change them too much you have chosen the wrong person to be with.
  20. Everyone is a liberal and critical of the police until it happens in THEIR neck of the woods. They talk the talk, but the second they get the money you can bet your bottom dollar they'll use it to live in some gated community away from the "undesirables".
  21. Don't ask questions you don't want to know the answers to lol.
  22. There is a dangerous lie that I see repeated over and over that I find relevant to this discussion. The lie of You Can Have It All! This is simply not the case. Unless you are some sort of combination of incredibly lucky, wealthy, top genetics, environment, hard-working, great opportunities, etc. Most of life is an incredible struggle where you are going to have to sacrifice, make bold choices, and compromise to accomplish what you want. There is a limited amount of resources and time you have to manage that are fluctuating constantly as well. The uncomfortable truth is that most people (including the ones reading this) are not particularly remarkable and won't be able to create the life where you are excelling (by conventional societal standards) in all possible domains. By definition only a small percentage of people end up doing this. It doesn't mean it's not worth striving for, but a healthy dose of realism is important. As a man you are really going to have to discover and clearly define your ambitions and what you want, and set your principles around defending and serving those ambitions, because the female narrative and goal in life for most women is to find a man to utilize his resources and protection to make a family with. It all depends on what you want to do and how much freedom you need to accomplish it. You have to find a balance for yourself what freedoms you are willing to sacrifice in exchange for companionship and a potential family. Don't accept the "You Can Have It All!" bullshit that people like to blow smoke with. Be very careful and particular about what you want to do with your finite life, and don't apologize for it.
  23. It's not explicitly black and white. but assholes and bad boys certainly get laid and have more success than women than the other side of the personality spectrum. When I say "disrespect women" I am being intentionally facetious to encourage overly shy and meek men that need help, to get that radical push they need to get out of the deep rut they are in. I am NOT saying spit in their faces, make them feel bad, or be generally horrible to them for no reason. I mean stop treating women as your equal in the interpersonal social game by giving them so much unearned respect. Women are generally only attracted to men if they perceive them as "better" than them. Actual value is hard to pin down and not totally relevant. So you need to put yourself forward as better than them a lot of the time, and that they should even be lucky to get your attention. When you give your attention away like a horny dog, their perception of you is poor and your chances are as doomed to sink as OceanGate was. Disagree all you like, but this is my overwhelming experience with women that's gotten me all my results, and what I've seen work from all my successful male peers who have access to the best women. Just like @StarStruck has said which rings so much truth. They don't want to know how the sausage is made, or what it's contents are, they want to shop and pick the one they like Women get pissed off and defensive when men try to help each other and reveal the mechanics of the game. It's a reaction of their collective ego to stamp it out, because it literally threatens their survival strategy.
  24. Would you like me to go back to my awesome selfie? Did you miss it? I'm flattered babe
  25. Nice assumption. But I've got a great, developed woman as a partner. You know, I can still think the game is fucking stupid, even when I am winning at it Buddy, if anybody has brain inflammation, it's you. What kind of mouth breathing stance is this? Women deliberately seeking out hookups, connection, attention, etc - getting exactly what they want and are looking for almost all the time. Yet they aren't satisfied or enjoying themselves fully, so it's an issue? How about taking some responsibility and looking for good men in the right places instead of loud, crowded places where people are intoxicated? You must be a simp. Only a simp could take such a low self esteem, schizo stance.