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by not allowing them to enter my mind constantly! and haters and jealous people need love from you on a deeper level, knowing to how increase your vibration up to love is the best practice.

the problem with no fap society is that they thing every fuckin' problems and issues they run into in life is related to their constant wanking. I also am aware that sexual energy can be transmuted to another form of energy like motivation, but where's the motivation when you repress your sexual energy head-on? the no fap community don't want to take a sec to wonder to finally say: enough is enough! why am I blaming my sexual natural behavior this much and not to know otherwise? but still moderation also applies to this!

your outward hygiene reflects the way you are on the inside. if you don't respect yourself to clean and spray some perfume, why the heck would you expect another person do it for you? the more awareness, the more syntropy. the more unconsciousness, the more entropy!

throw away supplements. tell her it's just her belief and indeed a "spiritual-related limiting belief"! her situation is like a penny pincher who's constantly saves money and doesn't spend his money and wonders why he doesn't get wealthier. that also applies to the sexual energy, if you don't want to distribute it, there won't be a flow between you and universe.

that's understandable... and this kind of life situation goes to show you to be"independently happy" and if you could set this state of being for yourself, you'll see that your prospective relationships will grow stronger.

singleness period is the best time frame to fix some faulty mind patterns (just related to this matter) so if you think being single makes you feel like an inferior person, think twice and fix it, don't demand it from a girl.

@VeganAwake the lower self, dude!

Amazing! Just Amazing!

you're forcing yourself to gain money, that won't work!

do your daily tasks but consciously!

well put! EGO can sneak in and hatch in the places that nobody even give a bit of thinking towards it. and that could even be this forum. as a matter of fact, unconsciousness can manifest itself in the form of consciousness. that's why I've never liked the idea of putting the name of "self-actualized person" over me. once that's done, I'd be no longer be able to grow more in terms of consciousness. so you can log into the forum of consciousness actualized but you can find red flags of EGO in every corner of it!

it's said that the current states and circumstances of our life is the overall vibration of the past lives that we've lived so far. so if you can master this life spiritually and materially, that means the next episodes would be easy-peasy lemon squeezy

if you gain enough knowledge and let go of your current life karma and live to as higher vibration as possible, you can easily reincarnate to the next positive person's life, that's all!

to be honest, your text was so lengthy, that's why I'm just answering the title question: the word "numb" maybe carries a bit unsuitable meaning, we can change it with "mastery" > "emotional mastery" Yes, It is quite possible and it's the process of raising your kundalini level by a teacher which is called : Shaktipat afterwards you can see a major transformation in the states of the consciousness that it'd be a hard thing to be emotionally bothered.

Nope, it's impossible! if there's no EGO, it means there's no "experiencer" and the "experienced thing" if there's an experiencer, it means that first off, it should split itself off of the rest/ the one/unity and then experience it. if you had no EGO, first, you'd have no sense of self. second, there'd be no any text, visual imagery, etc.. at all. but if you want a practical guide, yes, it's possible by strengthening the power of concentration, in laser-like focus activities, even though the EGO is still on-board but it has less intervention in the process. lesser EGO activation > more Concentration that's why it's grueling and thorny to have an undivided attention when you're feeling sad, anxious and...

that's a quite dualistic question! if dual nature of your interpretation collapses, you'd be able to be a badass business man who is having fun gaining fuckin' chunk of money on a daily basis and party and bullshit in the afternoon and gets back to his night and morning lengthy meditation session afterwards. don't know why there are people still asking this, I guess it's because of the longtime complaining of Leo about the materialistic achievement in his old videos. hope you understand

by "unconditional observation" and not putting up any resistance against it! (what you resist, persists!) it's clear in some situations, it's hard but by developing yourself more and more, the range of tolerance will get larger and larger.

by an outpouring overflowing self-love!

I've felt the same towards my dad too. that can be the case for the sons who were relatively younger and crude when they were thinking their dad knew about everything and when they grow up and develop cognitively, there could be a few rude awakening to the fact that their dad was completely clueless in major aspects of life when he was seemingly knowledgeable back then. the direct communication can be better but not all the times. indirect communication is almost in all cases better! I mean showing the ways of life indirectly. do your best but remember if he doesn't change don't force him and don't waste your energy by trying to resist his characteristics and let go and focus on yourself instead.

you can learn writing anything by yourself! writing novel, academic article, blog post, IELTS/TOEFL writing, copywriting, ( ghostwriting :))) why would you even bother getting that degree? especially we're in the era of ever-growing technological development and you can buy any course and information are at your fingertips! so I suggest you to pick something which is more passion-able and practical for ya!

you can't easily compare and contrast these two things together! cognitively superior in which terms? mathematics? chemistry? solving problems? social? or finances? which one? we could even imagine a scenario which a stage blue person can gain upper hand on a stage green person in every day mundane life activities. but all in all, we could say that stage green person has more open-mindedness than the others below him/her who could break out and think outside the mind/intellectual boxes.

even blaming it all on porn isn't a good thing in all events, sometimes having the stress and fear of something from sex can ruin everything! like you just have a little petite fear towards making her pregnant! I wish you a good luck in that sex! because sex can magnify every feeling by 100% percent. your fear is also augmented and you can't focus on present moment and perform in a great way. but I don't say that porn is not a thing, because I can't stress it enough that it's the main problem of modern men who lives with high speed internet and have access to unlimited virtual women!

don't worry! that can happen to the best of us your explanation was so similar to my situation, haha. a few days before my GF and I met eachother and start to have intimacy, I watched porn a lot in order to decrease my sexual energy to last longer together (so wrong move from me!) but not only it caused me to not to be able to gain proper erections when needed but it also led me to faster ejaculation! and even I couldn't prove "US" that there's something external to my problem but gradually she lost hope on me and doubted on my abilities and we broke up, but after lots of analyzing and observing I realized something was causing that huge problem: PORN! that's the beauty of masturbating to porn! see? hahahaha porn makes your mind lazy in having sex and numb to the real women! kinda you want all the things happen spontaneously and automatically just when you were masturbating to porn, you only did watch and got the pleasure and orgasm! no extra movements, not burning energy, right?! that program/hardwire in your brain steps in the moment of your sexual intercourse and ruins everything mercilessly! LOL now at this time of writing, I'm in sexual reboot period, if you want to know about that, that's also whole new ball of game!!

the answer can be both positive and negative! it's related to the person, a person can overindulge in the spirituality that he'd forget other aspects in his/her life. but another person can harness the achieved from spirituality and gear it towards practicality and reap what he sowed! but if you want a definite answer, yes it can screw up your life if you don't have the power of meta-cognition and discernment!

embracing those two dualities together could be great. but you should swing the pendulum to the masculine part as man! when leo talks about it he means that with 70% of masculinity embrace 30% femininity!