Flowerfaeiry

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  1. On 1/23/2022 at 10:38 PM, Kyle Gjerseth said:

    I want to know why people say these things about these substances

    Because they can show you things about your life and life as a whole that you may not be ready to see and integrate. 
     

    They can cause you to awaken before you are ready to wake up which can cause all kinds of emotional problems. Especially if you don’t already have a solid materialistic base to back you up. 
     

    They can cause you to “live in the clouds” and to poo poo material reality, like the importance of making money.

    They can also cause you to live in delusion, thinking that because the psychedelics have shown you so much that you are now wise, however without integration of psychedelic visions and teachings one only becomes full of themselves. 
     

    Watch the actualized.org video titled The Top Dangers of Using Psychedelics


  2. 6 hours ago, Vivaldo said:

    Should I try to join the forces and serve my country and live an extraordinary life of bravery and valour? Or should I choose some other career which is rather generic and doesn't involve life risk. 

    Your second choice doesn’t have to be so dull. I wouldn’t join the forces because then you are even more of a slave but that’s just me. I’m also in the US so could be different elsewhere. 


  3. 49 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

    You have to see the context here. If he had used the word against someone, then it would have been offensive. 

    However @Leo Gura wasn't using the  word in an offensive context.

    He was talking about the list of words that offend people and that people use to judge others. The N word was a part of this list of words. 

    You mean to say that a person cannot even use the N word to describe a list of generally used offensive words? 

    So to say the N word to mention that it is a racist word is racist now? 

    I think it's time to investigate your victimhood. 

    Leo wasn't hurting anyone's sentiments there. 

    Quit being such a victim. 

    You mean to say his only fault is that he is a white man who happened to use the N word without wanting to be offensive? 

    Go cry a river somewhere else 

    You’re not black. You don’t get to make claims like this. Your tone is also very disrespectful. 
     

    If a black person tells me it was disrespectful and not ok for me to use the N word in any context then I would put my pride away and listen. 


  4. 8 hours ago, ShardMare said:

    For real?

    Dont look at people who live in africa and cant eat, people who have serious diseases, homeless people etc. People who already have a hard time enjoying life

    Look at it through average persons

    In % how would you rate it? 

    I think 70% dont enjoy living 30%do but maybe im false

    Depends when you ask lol. I’d say most people like probably 80% don’t enjoy living.

    also the question is more nuanced. Because some people may think they enjoy living but deep down they are suffering


  5. 7 hours ago, Breezy said:

    t makes me sick to my stomach I’ve turned into this person who abuses others

    I noticed a recurring theme of guilt throughout this post and I want you to know that this guilt is not doing any good. Beating yourself up is only causing more pain, dear. Please try to offer yourself kindness, you deserve it no matter what <3

    Now for the hard truths...

    Most situations like this end very poorly. It doesn't sound like this one is going to end well and I'm sorry for your pain. You will learn from this, though. The bond between you is too toxic for healing. I wish for this to resolve quickly for you both. And I send you strength during this time, love. 


  6. 7 hours ago, roopepa said:

    For some reason I developed this judging mentality quite young.

    The world will always tell you you're not enough in some regard. Whether it's your body, your fashion choices, the money you make, the creations you create. 

    7 hours ago, roopepa said:

    I've always held kind of high standards about my looks and attractiveness.

    Good!! I think it's great to have high standards. It means you respect yourself and want more for yourself.