RendHeaven

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  10. Posted · Edited by RendHeaven

    17 hours ago, Snuitje said:

    However even the bottom one can be correct if you have good shoes with good shock absorption and foot placement skill so to speak.

    This is simply untrue.

    First of all, "if you have good shoes with good shock absorption and foot placement skill so to speak" means nothing, given that the "if" attempts to justify heel-landing.

    No serious runner or athletic coach will ever encourage (or passively allow) heel-landing.

    Heel-landing is outright biomechanically disadvantageous in terms of injury prevention & energy efficiency.

    If you insist on running flat-footed, even then the pressure emphasis is on the balls of your feet, NOT your heel.

  20. Posted · Edited by RendHeaven

    2 hours ago, integral said:

    yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

    Another discussion of people convinced they understand attraction.

    Its constructed, and you've lost the ability to rewire yourself. 

    All preferences are constructed.

    Ive never met a women i was not 100% physically attracted to and ready for. 

    Notice the feelings that arise when watching this. Maybe disgust? That's a reflection of something you've rejected within yourself. Its shadow. Withholding love from yourself

    Watch until you've re-contextualized your attraction. 

    If everyone on the planet looked like that, thats what you would be attracted to. :o;)

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    Tips:

    • Fantasies about having sex with her and loving the experience, make sure to properly manifest the emotions (physical sensation, excitement, anticipation, masculinity, her lust for you, your lust for her, she wants to be filled). Run a detailed emotional simulation. 

    I intellectually agree with you but can't seem to "get it" on a feeling level.

    Furthermore, I imagine that if by some miracle, I convince myself to find sexual attraction in all women indiscriminately, that will still all fly out the window the second someone conventionally attractive actually shows up in the flesh... even from mild states of no-self, on the level of sexuality I am biased (and this is perfectly fine).

    I also wonder, if all preferences are constructed, why stop at women? Why don't you fuck men or animals?

    And in fact, if we truly go meta, all sexual attraction at all is no different than any other desire, emotion, sensation, affinity, or inclination whatsoever. The idea of copulation dissolves into literal nothing. 

    Weirdly, I'm more willing deconstruct "all the way" rather than to stop prematurely at imagining sexual preference to be unreal while maintaining that sexual attraction itself is still real.

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    On 6/8/2021 at 0:31 PM, epickei said:

    I quit video games, stopped paying attention to trendy pop culture, and scrolling through memes. All I've been doing is dancing, play bongos, meditating, making videos, streaming, and consuming self-actualization content. I feel this makes me kind of boring because I got nothing to talk about that most people can relate to. Should I get back into video games or watch some anime, to give me something to relate to others? I do like games and shows and stuff, I've just been putting a heavy emphasis on maxing out my potential the past year. How do yall feel about this?

    As an individual, there's absolutely nothing wrong with diving deeper into "yourself' and foregoing the stupidity of mainstream shit.

    However, since you're additionally a content creator, there's definitely gonna be conflict there, as you're expected to deliver "value" to your audience.

    The good news is, your "value" proposition is up for you to decide. I'm personally thinking of becoming a content creator myself - every day I'm brainstorming ways to make this seemingly "boring" lifestyle you talk about appealing on video.

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    9 hours ago, justfortoday said:

    you will one day live the life of the woman you made love to.

    This language is misleading, as it seems to assume linear time (almost as though we're suggesting that one lifetime will give rise to another sequentially... this is nonsense).

    In some ways it's more truthful to say that you're living her right NOW, whatever that even means.

    But we're really stretching the human POV here in considering such things.

    When we realize The Cosmos, all human notions whatsoever literally vanish - i.e. sequence, perspective, etc.