RendHeaven

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  2. Posted

    11 hours ago, fopylo said:

    Bro... Yes! I ain't gonna lie he is the best in terms of reactions. Nothing fake about his reactions lol, seems pretty genuine and gives good commentaries. His content is sometimes addictive

    @fopylo Nick is the only "reactor" I will ever watch, his freedom of expression is something I look up to.

    I never thought reaction channels had genuine original input until I found Nick (as far back as his early AoT days)

    I immediately had a feeling you thought the same haha.

    8 hours ago, fopylo said:

    No. I mean, that's not true though.

    Are you sure? If you could just execute the task without hesitation (in all areas of life) I don't think you would be making this forum post here.

    From what I can tell, there is just too much time-delay between your desire for the thing, and your body moving to take action.

    And when you reflect on that fact, it brings up emotions of feeling stuck.

    8 hours ago, fopylo said:

    Pretty much the body and feelings.

    If you don't think, you can dramatically decrease this block. Most feelings (ESPECIALLY DOUBT) are fueled by thought. With a perfect "zenmind" it's impossible to doubt yourself.

    Regarding the body block, you could just be severely tired. I've noticed that no matter how perfect my mindset is, if I am physically low-energy I just won't move. There is something to be said for taking better care of your body (circadian rhythm, sunlight, eat whole foods, work out)

    8 hours ago, fopylo said:

    Failing socially and feeling 'stuck' in life.

    Me too man, you're not alone

  3. Posted

    12 minutes ago, fopylo said:

    2. To finish and be up to date with anime reaction videos (anime I've watched already on my own) of someone I am subscribed to on Patreon. He keeps releasing new videos that I just enjoy watching, but I realize that when I am excited watching him react to something that I found very cool I am basically wasting time I could have anything watched a new anime myself - which I really wanted to do and catch on already. So almost every day I check if he uploaded something. Now I'm making an effort to watch his reactions just to ONE anime.

     

    Nicholas Light? 👀

  4. Posted

    3 minutes ago, fopylo said:

    I am also thinking of planning the episodes I'll watch.

    There's your problem lol.

    you're not even watching the episodes...

    you're not even PLANNING on watching the episodes...

    you're THINKING of PLANNING on WATCHING 😭

    That's literally 3 steps removed from present moment immersion in real life tasks (watching a video is already 1 step removed)

  6. Posted

    20 hours ago, Growly said:

    @RendHeaven

    Wrong, you realize that that video has 21million views....

    That means he has some social status and that's what seperates himself from below average people. So that girlfriend only came to him because of that reason; If he didn't make a youtube channel, he  would be like the rest of the below average people which is never getting a girlfriend

    you said "wrong" and then explained to me a bulletproof escape strategy from your situation as if that wasn't more evidence for my point.

    are you a clown?

  8. Posted

    Good points all around but remember that human connection has a deep bodily/energetic aspect. Hormones play a critical unspoken role, we ping off of each other's body chemistry to feel each other's states deeply.

    She can look like a woman, speak like a woman, feel like a woman when I touch her, but then if we strip her of all hormones my lizard brain will sound alarm bells, like something is wrong no matter how much I cope and lie to myself.

    "But that's not a human!" will be a perennial objection towards AI companions, and building them to mimic humans more and more will never work. Because even if AI manages to 100% mimic humans, at that point, it'll literally BE a human, and thus no different than just going out to meet real people.

    By definition, AI is NOT humans, and can never BE humans, something will ALWAYS be "off," and if we ever manage to make an AI that has so thoroughly mimicked humans that it is truly indistinguishable, then at that point that's just a human.

    Also the point of human relations is embrace each other's flaws. That's why God put you in this dream, surrounded by fallible companions, it's a test of your capacity to love and surrender.

    A perfect companion is too sterilized and will have the flavor of vanilla ice-cream even if it visually masquerades as chocolate or strawberry by appearing brown/pink

  9. Posted

    54 minutes ago, Davino said:

    So I've been struggling with teeth health for a long time, no matter what I do my teeth give me problems.  I'm open to any advice to improve the health of my mouth.

    Thanks

    52 minutes ago, Davino said:

    I also can't understand how animals don't have teeth problems, they never brush their teeth, nor use any products. Yet humans and me personally encounter disease in this domain. It surprises me

    It's 100,000% diet/lifestyle

    I'm 5+ years fluoride free and cavity free

    Also shampoo free and deodorant free lmao

  10. Posted

    Just now, ryoko said:

    The existence of division such as 1st world, 4th world in itself, is stupid

    All divisions are stupid, but I mention 1st world to delineate a relative measurement of economic development.

    In economically developed countries, we enjoy so much freedom its actually unprecedented. The fact that I can hop in my car and drive across the country, and then go hiking a mountain with my friends who live there, and then discuss philosophy on the beach and flirt with cute girls. If that's not your cup of tea, nothing's stopping you from engaging in solitary or artistic hobbies like reading, making music, or long meditation sits. The uncapped exchange of ideas, experiences, people, resources - this all allows you to design your life to enjoy more of what you value. What more could you ask for?

    2 minutes ago, ryoko said:

    If you're not aware yet, you are restrained even more in a first world country.

    Precisely how? 

    7 minutes ago, ryoko said:

    And by passion, you automatically assume, it has something to do with economy or people, what if it have nothing to do with society at all? And that's the kind of passion being referred here.

    To be passionate about Consciousness means you are passionate about people and society. The 10 ox herding pictures ends with "return to society" for good reason.

    10 minutes ago, ryoko said:

    If you're not aware already, MahaSamadhi is had been celebrated for thousands of years. It's an awesome achievement.

    Yes but it is not for everyone and it never will be.

    What makes you so sure that human development will culminate at mass-Mahasamadhi? That sounds like a spiritual fantasy to me.

    Death will naturally come for everyone anyway. No rush.

    12 minutes ago, ryoko said:

    So far all your inputs have been of immense joy to me @RendHeaven

    I'm having fun too man, I appreciate you!

    4 minutes ago, ryoko said:

    Nature has enough for everyone, people here have just evolved to integrate it, all the infrastructure is futuristic as in Tomorrowland or StarTrek

    How would this society deal with selfish people who attempt to abuse or monopolize power?

    Do we get rid of them by force? Or do we love and embrace them?

    "We will evolve to the point that nobody is selfish anymore" is a cop-out. Let's do some difficult philosophy, not just wishful thinking!

  11. Posted

    3 minutes ago, ryoko said:

    Here survival is taken care of

    Precisely how? Give detail.

    3 minutes ago, ryoko said:

    people given immense freedom to explore their passion without restraints.

    We already have the immense freedom to explore our passions, mostly without restraints, in 1st world countries.

    The fact that you are engaging in dialogue with me on this forum is proof of that.

    Don't get too greedy to dispose of all restraints.

    With 0 restraints on anybody, people's passion will take critical damage. Restrains spark passion.

    Do not wish for an alternate reality without understanding the perfection of current reality.

    8 minutes ago, ryoko said:

    there's no forcing that anyone need to die, but this form of death(consciously leaving the body), is celebrated, and is getting more and more common.

    even after a million years of human evolution, we will never have a culture of celebrating dropping dead.

    It's in our nature to want to persist as finite (in our ignorance), and to shit bricks and cry for mommy when faced with the oblivion of void.

    I think you are underestimating the psychological power of death on most humans. Just because you fancy yourself a reclusive martyr, this is not the nature of mankind, and it certainly is not the trajectory of human development either.

    Our final form as humans will involve a brilliant synthesis of respect for survival and fear/death integration. You cannot just get rid of the former.

  12. Posted

    Incompatible with the circumstances of human life on planet earth.

    Everyone would die because necessary infrastructure for survival would not be in place (labor is necessary for infrastructure, and you specifically propose to erase labor)

    and as everyone is dying, selfishness would flare up and mass conflict would outbreak, because nobody honestly wants to die. Unless you somehow suppose that everyone will drop dead peacefully, I wonder how you will convince them to do that?

    God invented earth and humans in such a way that labor is a necessity for survival. And survival is necessary to understand Universal Love.

    Only though such struggle can survival and selfishness be slowly overcome in real-time - and the wisdom, love, and beauty gained in the process cannot be experienced by fast-forwarding to the end.

    君は日本人のようですね。このフォーラムをどのようにして見つけましたか?

  16. Posted

    On 4/4/2024 at 7:49 AM, Emotionalmosquito said:

    That’s one hell of a limiting belief if I’ve ever heard one.

    Ok, show me your girls then. Where are they?

    On 4/4/2024 at 7:49 AM, Emotionalmosquito said:

    Lastly, why do you keep saying my fucked up thoughts are coming from low iq?

    I don't actually know what your real iq is, of course.

    Just most of what you say is unintelligent.

  18. Posted

    2 hours ago, StarStruck said:

    If anything men today are too feminized. And her solution for these men is to become more feminine. 😭

    It's complicated. I see both sides.

    I personally believe men, women, and the whole world would be better off with strong sexual polarity: men being more masculine, women being more feminine. Androgyny is generally the result of unbalanced hormones (chemical warfare) and conformity (psychological warfare).

    For an honest evaluation of heterosexual dynamics in modern dating, it's not sufficient to merely categorize people in boxes of "masculine" and "feminine."

    We need to further distinguish "healthy masculine" vs "unhealthy masculine," and "healthy feminine" vs "unhealthy feminine."

    A quick rundown of each:

    1. Healthy masculine: Grounded, Certain, Driven, Unreactive, Proactive, Warm, Protective (of others), Self-Sufficient, Self-Same (Integrous)
    2. Unhealthy masculine: Selfish, Arrogant, Insensitive, Abrasive, Destructive, Cold, Defensive (of self), Isolated, Stubborn
    3. Healthy feminine: Dynamic, Spontaneous, Relaxed, Reactive, Supportive, Warm, Nurturing, Finds power and identity in community
    4. Unhealthy feminine: Uncontrolled, Hysterical, Passive, Gullible, Dependent, Needy, Leech, Feels helpless and lost in community

    Most modern men are a combination of unhealthy masculine + unhealthy feminine with almost no redeeming healthy traits. It's a total shit show, lol.

    Therefore we have guys like you and schizophonia telling men to "be more masculine" by which you guys really mean to say: "let's stop the unhealthy feminine behavior." Notice that the healthy masculine "cancels out" the unhealthy feminine behavior. So you guys have made the right call.

    Meanwhile we have people like Emerald telling men to "embrace their feminine" by which she really means to say: "let's stop the unhealthy masculine behavior" But the healthy feminine also "cancels out" the unhealthy masculine. So she too is making the right call.

    As a man who authentically feels masculine, I personally aim to be 95% healthy masculine, 5% healthy feminine, and 0% of either unhealthy side.

    This ratio is completely unique to you and nobody can answer for you how masculine or feminine you are meant to be.

    Rarely is anybody truly 50/50, remember what I said above about chemical and psychological warfare. Most humans are polarized in one direction or the other.

    But in any case, we all have the common goal of adopting healthier forms of masculinity and femininity respectively.

  19. Posted

    3 hours ago, Emerald said:

    I have to be honest that I see shame as one of the biggest driving factors of why you are focused towards life in the way that you do in general.

    Most people with a strong self-improvement focus are motivated significantly by shame as they cannot accept themselves as they are and feel they need to fix/improve themselves to become someone else.

    I think you're mostly right, but a caveat:

    It's incorrect to argue that shame is more fundamental than sexual need.

    • You frame it as if the shame came first, and then the lack of women came second. That is not correct.
    • The sexual need (more broadly, the need for physical connection with the feminine) most certainly came first, and when this was not received, a shame complex (negative emotion, overcompensation, denial) started to boil up like a scab over a wound.
    • But make no mistake, the wound itself is feeling rejected (cut off) from the feminine, a physical event.
    • The growing scab (shame) later manifests as ugly behavior: attempts to act overly masculine or to demonize inner feminine qualities.
    • But if we grew up hugged and kissed and sucked and fucked by every girl we've ever crushed on, there would be no need to harbor overcompensation/denial patterns in the form of shame. But of course, life doesn't work like that. Rejection is inherent to this human life. The problem is twofold:
      • 1) nobody ever taught us how to actually attract women.
      • 2) nobody ever taught us how to embrace and move on from rejection.
    • Notice that if I were born with 0 sexual needs, 0 desire to be close to women, women don't even cross my mind - in such an alternative world, there would be no shame complex for you to be observing from above.

    But overall you make a good point by bringing awareness to the big ugly scab. Once the scab has multiplied and crusted over, it becomes a sort of entity unto itself, and simply ripping it off and probing at the flesh wound over and over will never return the skin to normal. The scab needs attention of its own, mainly acceptance, until it naturally falls off by itself.

  21. Posted

    7 hours ago, Phil King said:

    How have the Life Purpose course and booklist been able to keep you afloat financially for close to a decade? It would seem that you would need to sell close to 1000 courses per year to be successful. Do you have other sources of income? Am I allowed to ask how many courses you have sold? Im asking cause I want to sell infoproducts and im wondering if one good product with good marketing can last for a decade+

    He has patreon donations and youtube ads on top of product sales

  24. Posted

    10 minutes ago, Bobby_2021 said:

    Technically you can, but you have to explicitly mention the years and then do the analysis.

    What you cannot do is to club together everyone as if they were conservatives simply because they are not liberal enough to fit in 2024 America where men can get pregnant. 

    If I have to prove that USSR was liberal, I just have to compare them to conservatives at the time. Which I will do shortly. :)

    Yes, the AI did all of that with ease if you read the conversation

  25. Posted

    55 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

    Yes, i mean it's a feeling of complete helplessness, and indeed it's overwhelming.

    on the other side of that is absolute serenity and true masculine stillness