Leo Gura
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I'm grateful for how good life has been to me.
Not eternally grateful though, because it's really easy to forget and take for granted. Gotta remind myself of it consciously.
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On 4/1/2016 at 9:34 PM, Hardik jain said:@Leo Gura Who are you favourite you tubers or can you give us a list of the people you follow on YouTube? & when do you sleep and wake up?
You're asking me to promote all my competitors?!
My sleep schedule can be erratic. Right now I go to sleep around 1am and wake up around 9am.
On 4/3/2016 at 1:40 PM, Gustav said:Making faces in front of a camera is pretty easy
On 4/8/2016 at 8:54 AM, Huz88 said:@Leo Gura are you planning to have kids in your life? If not, why?
Previously answered.
On 4/8/2016 at 9:11 AM, oschi said:@Leo Gura Will you visit Germany soon? Would be great to shake your hand someday as a form of appreciation for how you impacted me.
Thanks for the sentiment, but I don't know if I'll ever be in Germany. It's pretty far from Vegas and I don't really have any reason to go.
On 4/10/2016 at 9:29 AM, Wouter said:What is your biggest regret? (not sure if you still have that kind of emotions/thougts
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Not knowing about enlightenment in college.
And not meditating since I was a kid.
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@aze Do that process for another several thousand hours.
It's like you're asking "What's next?" after you traveled 1 mile towards NY from LA.
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6 hours ago, JevinR said:- @charlie2dogs Sell all your material possessions
- move to middle-eastern china/india
- live off leaves and spring water and sht
- tell the yogis your story so they know you're dead -fcking serious
- commit your entire life under their teachings, as "You are only as good as your master".
That's not really necessary.
If you want to get enlightened, you can do it without changing your environment at all. In fact, plans to make drastic environmental changes are often just a distraction of the ego.
In the end, it will all boil down to you sitting in a quite room facing the agony of not knowing yourself.
No guru can save you from that.
Muster the self-discipline to sit and look now. You'll have to no matter what. The only question is how many years you'll waste with spiritual frippery before you throw all your gurus under the bus and sit.
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That's our lot as humans.
This big brain of ours turns out to be a double-edged sword.
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You might as well ask why the squirrel has to gather acorns for winter.
Wouldn't it be nice if the squirrel was just born and was handed an infinite pile of acorns to feast on?
It would be even better if the acorns were liquefied and mixed with sugar and pumped directly into the squirrel's stomach via IV.
Then he wouldn't have to exert effort to crack those acorns with his teeth and swallow.
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Two of the most enlightened people I've met were both happily married.
You don't even understand what a relationship is until a few enlightenments in.
Sex != relationship
In fact you can be in a relationship and celibate.
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@Sofiasspecial If a girl ever has sex with me, the chances that she will ever again experience that quality of sex with another man in her life is minimal.
Most girls don't even understand how amazing sex can be when the guy knows what he's doing.
I've made girls have deeper orgasms via text messages than their boyfriends or husbands could give them in person.
It's not that I'm great. It's that most guys suck. And most girls suck too, and are defensive about it.
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If you measure "advantage" only by your lay count, then definitely your lay count will drop by being less manipulative and less egotistical.
But that's a pretty limited metric.
There are much more important things to focus on in life than lay count. What a hardcore player gains in lay count a decent human being can gain elsewhere several times over.
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@joegarland Nope, that's all I know about it.
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Yap, yap, yap...
As your monkey mind yaps away, enlightenment remains never to be found.
I suggest you cut the crap and sit down and focus on the questions: "What am I?" "Who is aware?" "What is the evidence that I am a body or a mind?"
All the myths, stories, personal problems, fears, doubts, etc -- just set those aside. They are largely irrelevant.
What are you?! << That is the primary thing you should be concerned with if you're after enlightenment.
And notice how you distract yourself from this with all sorts of stories and information-gathering expeditions. That's not an accident. The whole challenge in this journey is cutting through all the clever distractions your ego concocts, and going straight to the root.
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You don't have to look too far back into your past when it comes to lying. You've already lied 20 times today and you'll lie 20 times tomorrow. Focus on fixing the source of that.
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Make sure you don't get sucked back into the day-to-day grind. Use this time to change course in your life, or you will regret it latter.
The life purpose course will serve you well. It was designed such for these kinds of situations.
And I quit mechanical engineering myself in college. It's terribly dry.
Muster the courage to follow your passion.
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10 hours ago, Hardik jain said:@Leo Gura So what should I have done when he was super confident about his experience in stock market and he was super confident that he will give me good profit. He tricked me very good. I know I am responsible but what should I have done? Well if you tell me then I'll be careful next time.
Well... the first thing to question is your assumption that you should have done anything differently.
This is counter-intuitive, but the fact is you should have done exactly as you did, because that's exactly what happened. Going back and apply hindsight can be useful, but it's not strictly speaking true. Whatever happened, happened for a reason and couldn't have happened otherwise given your level of life experience. So first, you gotta accept what happened without telling yourself, "It should have been different."
Then you can analyze the situation for possible lessons for the FUTURE. After acceptance, this can done objectively and impassionately.
Personally, my rule for stock tips is simple: no one has good stock tips. The stock market has been proven to be unpredictable, and at best what you can get out of it long-term is a 10% return. If you expect anything more than a 10% annual return, you're kidding yourself and using stocks as a form of gambling. Now you learned this lesson the hard way. Sometimes that's how the deepest lessons are learned.
Another general rule I have in life is that no one will give me free money. If anyone even mentions free money to me, I immediately dismiss him. It's a waste of my time to even hear him out. No one is out there working to make you rich. They are working to make themselves rich. Think about it from the stockbroker's perspective: Why the hell would he be interested in making you rich? He's interested in making himself rich. You're a stranger he's cold-calling. He has no emotional attachment to you whatsoever. You're completely disposable to him.
Another general rule I follow: Don't listen to sales pitches. Cut the person off and hang up the phone immediately as soon as you know you're talking to a salesman. I don't take anything a salesman tells me seriously at all. It's all tainted by self-agenda.
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@Brian Greendahl Wow! Awesome!
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9 hours ago, Key Elements said:I hope you make clips with more "ah ha" moments, but I wish they were not so watered down.
Consider that the Ah-ha moments aren't being made by me, but by your mind. So direct your hope at your subconscious mind
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Reminds me of the Island of Doctor Moreau
The challenges of reforming society in the workable way are extremely complex and nuanced. I very rarely see people -- even very intelligent and enlightened people -- who have enough understanding of systems-thinking to know how to change society in a practical way.
If you're designing a stand-alone Utopia, that's not going to cut it. No one man can engineer something as complex as a society from the top down. You have to be much more clever and pragmatic about it. You have to understand how to work with egos on a mass-scale.
Understanding the shit out of spiral dynamics is a good place to start. Without that psychological foundation, you will create a total disaster, like most people before you.
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There's what's called a lower death drive and an upper death drive.
The lower death drive is when the ego hates itself so much it wants to put itself out of its suffering through suicide. (Not so good)
The upper death drive is when the ego is wise enough to realize that it's an illusion, and wants to end it's suffering through surrender to truth. (Very good).
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On 4/5/2016 at 11:13 PM, Brian Greendahl said:I have found that it's possible to take a year or two off while still being planted right in the mainstream of life. Still going to work everyday, maintaining a household, friendships etc. It's a mindset. It can't be adopted at once but can be worked into over 2 to 3 months. Completely detach from everything yet still be present.
That's certainly an option. An option that I'm currently executing.
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@ZenDog 3 month meditation retreats don't exist.
Even 10 days is a challenge and quite expensive to arrange.
A week-long retreat usually costs $1000-$1500. I'd hate to think was a 3 month retreat would cost.
If you want something that long, you're looking at an apprenticeship program or residency, which is quite different from a retreat.
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Yes, do BOTH!
What I find is that those times when you're really focused and "efforting" don't usually result in a breakthrough, but they lay the groundwork which then lets the breakthrough happen when you're relaxed and doing nothing. If all you did was relax all the time, you'd probably never wake up.
There's a reason why spirituality has a long tradition of hardcore asceticism and unbelievably masochistic practices. They seem to get the job done when nothing else will
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@Hengame Watch out for your cheapness attitude.
If you truly value something, you shouldn't hesitate to pay money for it.
Demanding free spiritual teachings is basically saying that spiritual teachings are worthless.
You're willing to pay $5 for a Cheeseburger, but unwilling to pay $5 for a spiritual teaching? Does that make sense?
I've paid over $10,000 for spiritual teachings in the last year, and gladly so.
I'm going to spend another $10,000 for spiritual teachings this year too.
It is worth it to me because I value spirituality.
Support those industries you wish to see flourish.
If a guy like Rupert Spira doesn't deserve to get paid, I don't know who does!
Just my thoughts on the matter.
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On 4/4/2016 at 4:50 AM, Magnifico said:But what in our human nature let us then believe that happiness come frome those "Strategies for happiness" (how you call it)? Is it because every human is taught that this excitement (which you get from these "other strategies for happiness") is happiness? That from the beginning ouf our birth we were subconsciously taught that a good marriage or a big house or sth like that makes us happy, but in fact happiness only comes from being aware in the presen(=just BEING)? Am I right with that ?
There are several layers of reasons.
Yes, modern society totally screws up your mind and your sense of perceptive. From the day you are born your parents only give you love if you act the way their egos like, and they deny love as soon as you act against their wishes. Which then trains you to seek love from outside yourself.
But more fundamentally, you seek happiness through external strategies because the ego is terrified of looking inward. If the ego ever deeply looked inward, it would discover that it doesn't exist. So the ego's entire survival depends on the pursuit of external stimulation and denial of inner reality. The ego is like a shark that must keep swimming to oxygenate its gills, or it suffocates. << That's a pretty accurate description of human egos.
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On 4/5/2016 at 10:15 PM, Hardik jain said:I opted for his service
So how are you NOT responsible?
It's a shitty situation that you lost that much money, but come one, a guy gives you stock tips and now hold him responsible for your financial success (or lack thereof)???
Can you see how lack of responsibility-taking was what created this problem in the first place?
Now, if you came here with a story about how your wife was attacked by a burglar, you'd have a stronger case, but we would still tell you that you're responsible for it. Because you're always responsible for every situation you put yourself in life, no matter how subtle.
Taking full, unconditional responsibility for your life is a very mature attitude. It takes a while for the immature ego to wrap itself around this one. The ego wants scapegoats because it's too scared and weak to take on the full weight of reality. It's just too much to admit that you're the cause of every negative emotional reaction you ever have.
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Eventually mainstream science will come around and recognize enlightenment. Because enlightenment is an empirical fact. It will just take a long time.
Science cannot avoid the objective/subjective split forever. Once neuroscience gets deep enough, fundamental dogmas of science will have to seriously be called into question, and there will be a paradigm shift in mainstream science. How long that will take, who can say?
All that being said, don't count on science as being a way towards enlightenment. All science will be able to do is to explain via better models how consciousness, brains, and matter/energy interact and interpenetrate.
Then again, maybe some day science will be able to just surgically remove the ego structures from the brain. But it will still never be able to perfectly model enlightenment because the fact remains that the model is not the territory.