Lack of social circle.

[Sabth]

Is it weird that I don't know anyone apart from my parents and siblings? 

I don't have any other social circle. I started to feel terrible with this. 

Back then, I do have, though I like to keep my life private. But now I am completely detached. And I don't know what to do. 

[unholy]

Go to different social events. There you can find people.

[Sabth]

22 minutes ago, unholy said:

Go to different social events. There you can find people.

I am really, new here. I can't even go anywhere without having my parents to send me anywhere. 

So, it's kind of weird. To ask them to send me, to any places. I think I should be able to go anywhere freely first. Unless if I was in a different state/city idk how to go anywhere by myself. 

And I don't think I would enjoy that. Where do I find same-aged people like during hs or university? 

I couldn't. I guess. Even if I did it will be people younger than me. 

 

[meta_male]

What are your hobbies/interests?

[Sabth]

23 minutes ago, meta_male said:

What are your hobbies/interests?

I don't hv any, currently. I just want to hv a toned body, so , working out? Idk. But I'm not able to do this. 

[Sugarcoat]

2 hours ago, Sabth said:

I don't hv any, currently. I just want to hv a toned body, so , working out? Idk. But I'm not able to do this. 

What are you able to do then?

[Yimpa]

On 9/5/2023 at 8:50 AM, Sabth said:

Back then, I do have, though I like to keep my life private. But now I am completely detached. And I don't know what to do. 

If you want to be social, you’re going to have to open up some parts of yourself; it can’t be all private. 

[Thought Art]

I’ve been working on this. I found going tree planting to be so healthy for meeting people. I’ve been in cabins in the woods with a bunch of 20 year olds for the past month. So healthy, very healing and I’ve grown a lot! 30 + people I think. Each day is a lesson. 
 

In my city I’ve been going to more social events and believe I’m in the process of building a social circle. I now see it’s value and importance of maintaining, pruning and cultivating my relationship and community.

Edited September 8, 2023 by Thought Art

[Yimpa]

2 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

In my city I’ve been going to more social events and believe I’m in the process of building a social circle. I now see it’s value and importance of maintaining, pruning and cultivating my relationship and community.

Same here.. Let’s go!

[Sabth]

I don't know.. I just felt really hopeless right now.. it's been a while since I've ever met anyone of my age. 

How can I even find someone from my country to have activities with? 

Edited September 8, 2023 by Sabth

[meta_male]

1 hour ago, Sabth said:

How can I even find someone from my country to have activities with? 

First off you should become comfortable doing activities alone, then you're in a very good place to attract like-minded people.

[Sabth]

It's precisely because I'm alone I can't do activities. I'm looking for someone who can drive me to a walk, or someone to workout together. 

Or work together, or travel together. 

@meta_male 

It seems like my family aren't into all these anymore..

 

Edited September 8, 2023 by Sabth

[Yimpa]

5 hours ago, Sabth said:

How can I even find someone from my country to have activities with? 

What country are you from?

[Sabth]

20 hours ago, Yimpa said:

What country are you from?

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Edited September 9, 2023 by Sabth