In your greatest fails lies your greatest lessons

[StarStruck]

Everything is your own fault at the end. It is a real bitter pill to swallow. Because at the end it was all you. Your biggest curses are your biggest blessings but you need the brain-heart to be able to receive this knowledge by feelingly-thinking. This is what distinguishes the animal humanoid from the true human. 

Edited April 18, 2023 by StarStruck

[something_else]

8 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Everything in your own fault at the end

Is it your own fault if you get molested as a kid?

I get your point that taking responsibility for your life is a good thing, but it can be a dangerous mindset when taken to extremes. There are plenty of things about your life that are out of your control and are not your fault.

[tuku747]

1 minute ago, something_else said:

Is it your own fault if you get molested as a kid?

I get your point that taking responsibility for your life is a good thing, but it can be a dangerous mindset when taken to extremes. There are plenty of things about your life that are out of your control and are not your fault.

 

 

[Sabth]

@something_else if you take your parents as yourself then it is your fault that you get molested. 

[StarStruck]

9 minutes ago, something_else said:

Is it your own fault if you get molested as a kid?

I get your point that taking responsibility for your life is a good thing, but it can be a dangerous mindset when taken to extremes. There are plenty of things about your life that are out of your control and are not your fault.

Yes

[Thought Art]

When you learn to face truth if a thing in human domain… like developing a skill set you will see how much failure is involved. 

[Yimpa]

1 hour ago, something_else said:

I get your point that taking responsibility for your life is a good thing, but it can be a dangerous mindset when taken to extremes. There are plenty of things about your life that are out of your control and are not your fault.

Yes, but that’s only the tip of the iceberg. Simply changing the story or belief you have about a traumatic event is not going to be sufficient. It may work in the short-term, but in the long-term creates more confusion and doubts about yourself. 

This is why Awakening and Love are essential to understand why anything, including horrible things, can exist.

[DefinitelyNotARobot]

Okay playing devils advocate here, what if your "greatest fail" is suicide? Is there a lesson there?

[Yimpa]

23 minutes ago, DefinitelyNotARobot said:

Okay playing devils advocate here, what if your "greatest fail" is suicide? Is there a lesson there?

Of course there is. Love is literally the answer. 

Don’t take my statement out of context.

[DefinitelyNotARobot]

@Yimpa There probably wouldn't be a lesson for the human, because they'd be gone, but I could see how it would allow reality to understand itself more deeply from a broader point of view. So I can see that being the case. And don't worry, I don't see a reason to harm myself.

[StarStruck]

It is not always easy to understand the grand scheme of things. One needs to be humble. 

Edited April 19, 2023 by StarStruck