Night game day 3 pretty alright

[Antor8188]

@Leo Gura I approach this girl and told her hey you are lame. She asked why?  I said you are not dancing with a cool guy like me.  She said damn let's dance and grinded on me for 10 minutes before her friends took her. It didn't end up in sex but hey I liked it.  She was sober too.  Later she wanted to do shots but I refused because I was broke lol which made her a little mad. 

[Ulax]

@Antor8188 Great!

And ye dude the broke life hits hard haha. Tho to be fair how did you act and feel when you said you were broke?

Edited February 13, 2023 by Ulax

[Eternal Unity]

@Antor8188 Nice! Was she older than you by much or the other way around? or you're the same age?

[Antor8188]

She was 20 and I'm 23

[Leo Gura]

Good, good. Keep at it.

[flowboy]

Instead of telling her you're broke, probably better to get her to buy you drinks.

Brokeness is a turn-off. Having hoops for her to jump through is not.

[Eternal Unity]

6 hours ago, flowboy said:

better to get her to buy you drinks.

Too narcissistic, won't work. It's a turn-off.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Eternal Unity said:

Too narcissistic, won't work. It's a turn-off.

You're being too general. I've had girls buy me drinks and I've seen plenty of girls do it for guys.

[Eternal Unity]

13 minutes ago, something_else said:

You're being too general. I've had girls buy me drinks and I've seen plenty of girls do it for guys.

i am very happy for you.

[something_else]

2 minutes ago, Eternal Unity said:

i am very happy for you.

It wasn't about me. It was about not callously making overly general statements.

[Eternal Unity]

@something_else Okay... 

[BlessedLion]

Just say "nah I'm good on the shots but I'll come to the bar with you" then you hold space for her while she drinks and just be like cool sober guy. 

[flowboy]

13 hours ago, Eternal Unity said:

Too narcissistic, won't work. It's a turn-off.

Maybe it won't work on you but I've done it plenty of times

[flowboy]

Anything is better than saying "I'm broke" like an asshole.

That's like a girl saying "I've got crusted period blood on my pussy lips" and expecting you to take her home.

[Eternal Unity]

1 hour ago, flowboy said:

Maybe it won't work on you but I've done it plenty of times

Yeah, that's what happened. Any tips?

[flowboy]

@Eternal Unity

Yes you have to actually believe that it's normal and proper for a woman to buy you a drink.

You believe on some level that it's too narcissistic, therefore it can't work

[Eternal Unity]

@flowboy It's not a matter of belief, but of certainty. I KNOW what will happen and I CHOOSE not to do it.