Contemplation: Why can't I get laid?

[Hafiz]

I've listened to the "comprehension has many levels" video a number of times now, and I really am intrigued at sitting with this question and seeing what comes up.

Here is a short list of responses:

I'm a pussy.

The girls have a inherent distrust in a guy that is not confident.

I'm not doing well financially.

I have nothing to offer, I can't have fun for hours on end with a girl without going for sex.

I would be a terrible father.

What do you think of my list?

 

 

[supremeyingyang]

3 hours ago, Hafiz said:

I'm a pussy.
The girls have a inherent distrust in a guy that is not confident.
I'm not doing well financially.
I have nothing to offer, I can't have fun for hours on end with a girl without going for sex.
I would be a terrible father.

What do you think of my list?

Man the fuck up, son.

[egoeimai]

Find a group of interests of yours, see if there' something available for free in your town, pick something. Then go socialize with those people, you should fine some hoes there if you're lucky. That' it!  

[Spiral]

8 hours ago, Hafiz said:

I'm not doing well financially.

Does not matter if you just want to get laid, don't believe me?  Try lying about, it's just going to make things worse.

8 hours ago, Hafiz said:

I have nothing to offer, I can't have fun for hours on end with a girl without going for sex.

You do't need to have fun with girls for hours without having end goal being sex, unless you live in super conservative country. Although it does help.

8 hours ago, Hafiz said:

I would be a terrible father.

Why do you think you would make a terrible father?

[Nahm]

@Hafiz that is some of the laziest thinking I have seen in quite a while. Love & light.