What would you do differently?

[QVx]

If you were to have a fresh start, what would you do differently? 

[trenton]

1 hour ago, QVx said:

If you were to have a fresh start, what would you do differently? 

Do you mean from birth in the same life situation, or from a position with nothing holding me back? That gives very different answers.

[QVx]

It can both, or either, whatever feels appropriate to you.

[trenton]

1 minute ago, QVx said:

It can both, or either, whatever feels appropriate to you.

If I were starting over from birth in the same situation I would mostly be screwed because I had little power to begin with. One difference I would make is that I would give up even more easily because I know that I cannot be good enough to get my parents to change. Mostly I would resort to more inaction and avoiding mistakes which triggered them and therefore led to severe trauma. I would realistically speak even less knowing how much can backfire. I have analyzed my life through my mind looking for things I could have done differently, but the reality is that I had very limited power. 

If I were given an entirely new situation with no restraints, then the possibilities become super open. The first thing I could reasonably think to do would be to try psychedelics. The reason being that if God consciousness is seriously real then it's not something I can ignore. The truth would matter far too much to simply be overlooked as insignificant. If I were given the opportunity to seek the truth with no restraints, then I would choose God realization without a doubt.

[Hojo]

What I have learned about God is you dont know if you are doing something right or not. You cant know so theres no reason to think to have done something differently. You can think you are seriously fucking up when you arent fucking up. You can think you are doing great when you are actually fucking up.

You can have regrets that are actually crucial to growth that dont show up ever or till way later.

The only way to live is to know you are somehow governed by some higher intelligence that is doing something you cannot understand and then let your body move without judging it.

If I could change world I want to live in a FF8 world.

Edited 22 hours ago by Hojo

[YIDIRYIDIR]

3 hours ago, QVx said:

If you were to have a fresh start, what would you do differently? 

Nothing major. but if i could go back to 4 years ago, i would quit renting with my old university roommates. that's probably the biggest mistake i made. people you're surrounded with will negatively/positively change you. but i was too unwise to believe they won't. and i was making money challenges as an excuse for staying with them since we split rent. 

what's wrong with them? they were basically losers. fucking absolute losers. 

[hyruga]

It's the hard truth. Even if I were to relive my life, I probably still can't be a CEO of a top global company. I probably cannot close sales like top sales agent and earn like $200k per month/$2 million a year (not going to be greedy).

I would be less interested in studying even if I were to restart life so becoming an A+ scholar in engineering or medicine would be extremely hard.

Stuff I can do would be to invest in Bitcoin and Amazon much earlier so that I can reap rewards. I can invent products like facebook if it is not yet invented haha. 😂

Honestly though, I still have my reservations on what is truly fun and meaningful to do in this world even if I get a restart.

 

Edited 19 hours ago by hyruga

[Basman]

Socialize and date more. Have more experiences. Be more on top of career stuff.

In short, less fearfull and conservative.

[Heaven]

Spend more time working out, develop a fit and healthy body. Become aware of my health issues before. Not starting to smoke. Focus on my sleep more. Less toxic food. 
Having stronger bonds. Focus on my Spanish and English. Read more books and less time on social media. Spending less time on unhealthy relationships. Focus more on engineering and my career. Probably finding spirituality before. Buying a house when it was more affordable.