being invited to clubs

[Ulax]

1 minute ago, Valach said:

He just knows you need some attention since mommy's been busy lately.

Lordfall is a very generous man 

[Valach]

Just now, LordFall said:

Yes I was replying to your comment. I personally enjoy building an intentional social life on my terms. Going clubbing with random chicks is not part of my ideal lifestyle. If it is for you then more power to you but conflating strategy with neediness is a strange idea.

I think perhaps you're judging yourself for desiring high quality women and great results and projecting that shame unto others? To me hosting events feels like things clicking into place and is much more fun than trolling clubs without intentionality ever was. 

Maybe you're just projecting your own sense of shame and unworthiness onto others, and genuinely can't imagine that there are people who aren't trying to complete themselves through success, women, money, status, power, or whatever else they can accumulate externally.

[Valach]

3 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Lordfall is a very generous man 

You ought to treat him well. He's your daddy after all.

[Ulax]

7 minutes ago, Valach said:

You ought to treat him well. He's your daddy after all.

I got 3 forum daddy's now  #Pimpin'

[Valach]

1 minute ago, Ulax said:

I got 3 forum daddy's now  #Pimpin'

At least somewhere you are getting it.

[Ulax]

1 minute ago, Valach said:

At least somewhere you are getting it.

Thank you

[LordFall]

17 minutes ago, Valach said:

Maybe you're just projecting your own sense of shame and unworthiness onto others, and genuinely can't imagine that there are people who aren't trying to complete themselves through success, women, money, status, power, or whatever else they can accumulate externally.

I mean if your philosophy is producing the results that you want more power to you. It sounds like you failed at getting what you want out of building your social life and are not jaded and isolated and trying to make your situation a high moral ground. 

I feel quite fulfilled and excited to build a life that appeals to me and of course that includes beautiful women and achievements in my business outside life. You saying that having goals and strategy is needy sounds like massive spiritual bypassing to me. I shared some of the results I've been getting in my own life, feel free to do the same if you think your philosophy is genuinely valuable and not simply coping against failure. 

[Valach]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I mean if your philosophy is producing the results that you want more power to you. It sounds like you failed at getting what you want out of building your social life and are not jaded and isolated and trying to make your situation a high moral ground. 

I feel quite fulfilled and excited to build a life that appeals to me and of course that includes beautiful women and achievements in my business outside life. You saying that having goals and strategy is needy sounds like massive spiritual bypassing to me. I shared some of the results I've been getting in my own life, feel free to do the same if you think your philosophy is genuinely valuable and not simply coping against failure. 

There it is

Someone disagrees with LordFall -> LordFall immediately discovers the deep psychological wound that explains why they disagree with LordFall.

Never change, brother.

Your mom warned me you'd do this.

Edited 1 hour ago by Valach

[Leo Gura]

Unless they are paid girls, then join them. No girl will invite you to the club unless she is 1) paid or 2) finds you likeable.

You need to quickly ask the girl questions to see if she is working or genuinely going to the club for fun. Avoid working girls, promoters, hostesses, escorts, etc.

Ask the girl, "Are you working tonight or out for fun?" This screens out all the hookers, etc. with offending them.

Edited 1 hour ago by Leo Gura

[Olaf]

@Leo Gura oh yeah good, I don't think that is so much the issue here, but I can see how in Las Vegas that could be the case. In Amsterdam the only hookers we have are behind windows in the red light district.

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Valach said:

There it is

Someone disagrees with LordFall -> LordFall immediately discovers the deep psychological wound that explains why they disagree with LordFall.

Never change, brother.

Your mom warned me you'd do this.

I’m giving you the benefit of the doubt to elaborate on how your strategy is yielding the results you want. 

You seem to always default to defense mechanisms and invalidating people working on their social life. That’s where my impressed of you being jaded and isolated comes from. 

There is no need to take offense to my comments. A self development forum is meant to push us away from our mental blocks and dysfunctional coping mechanisms towards having the courage to take action to build our dream life.

[Inliytened1]

10 hours ago, Olaf said:

I have had many times with my wingmen that we got invited to go to clubs by girls that we approached. I wonder if this is a good thing or not, one time they wanted to kidnap my wingmen into the club hahaha. But I see this many times even in a few seconds. But then I wonder, is that because they want free drinks or truely attracted? 

They want you to buy them drinks.

However that doesn't mean they won't go home with you either. You hold the cards

 

Edited 31 minutes ago by Inliytened1

[Inliytened1]

40 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Unless they are paid girls, then join them. No girl will invite you to the club unless she is 1) paid or 2) finds you likeable.

You need to quickly ask the girl questions to see if she is working or genuinely going to the club for fun. Avoid working girls, promoters, hostesses, escorts, etc.

Ask the girl, "Are you working tonight or out for fun?" This screens out all the hookers, etc. with offending them.

That's not true.  A lot of times they want a free ride. But as I was telling him that doesn't mean they have decided about you either way. If you play your cards right you have the power to still land her.  Often they'll leave it to you to be able to appeal them proper

 

Edited 29 minutes ago by Inliytened1

[Leo Gura]

@Inliytened1 Fair enough. Still worth the warmup set. Obviously don't buy drinks for girls who demand it.

[Inliytened1]

Don't be an absolute fool.  But there are some girls you can tell right away they are interested and others are harder to read. If they don't offer to even buy a round that might be a red flag.  Don't stay in there getting suckered if you feel it going south.  Otherwise you're gonna end up with a bunch of laughs and pictures but your hand on your balls with a pounding headache.

 

Edited 1 minute ago by Inliytened1