Progress my first instant date

[Olaf]

Update: so today I had my first instant date, kinda, because her other friend was there also. I was with my wingmen all night and we started early at around 19:00 every set we got stronger and more frame at the end the girls were in our frame and did as we said, compliance. Anyways, much improvement and I noticed how you make split second decisions and how crucial these split second decisions are, they are the difference between approaching, self ejection, escalating etc. All of these are split second decisions. So in almost every set I tried to escalate more, I got more and more comfortable touching woman on their arms, even aggressively one girl walked, I just did my arm against hers lik 8 times in 2 mins.

Like just waiting for her to do it back, but she didn't, doesn't fucking matter, because last set of the day I opened, she looked like a girl from the future with a silver wig, cool make up and a super cool outfit like a bit of a festival type of outfit very expressive so I was completly drawn in. She loved the conversations, she was talking about awakening, being in the present moment, she even said "your vibe attracts your tribe and you are my type of people" me and my wingmen. I started to talk about eckhart tolle "the power of now"  I started to escalate with her, touching her shoulders, she started touching me, and asked for my instagram.

So I gave it to her and then she invited me to her friend who was sitting at a bar, my wingmen wasn't feeling it anymore so he said he wanted to go and asked if I wanted to come with him. Now again split second decisions, normally I would have said yes at the easiest escape of a set, but I was like, 1 second thinking and then I was like no. Lets try something different today. So I just stayed with the two girls. I did some magic and they loved it, as I am a magician, I was sometimes quiet and they talked together, but I just was like, fuck it I am just gonna stay.

They had to go and that is again such a moment where normally I would leave, but in a split second I made the decision to stay, so I kept in the set and walked in front to the next bar they went to. Having arrived there, my futuristic girl lol bought me a drink which was very kind. She is a bit older then me, but her vibe was really nice and her outfit was 10 out of 10. Also I just bought an douchebag puffer jacket and I feel it is much better then what I had before, it was my first time wearing it while approaching and I can see it went well tonight. So in the set I talk to her, I talk to her friend aswell. I am with my knee against hers the whole time, she doesn't move it away, I am hugging her "you need a hug" I said. She spilled some of her drink so it was a perfect moment to clean her hands with a tissue and be more intimate touching her, I then saw her rings and held her ring, it was a lion, so I said, Lions are the dutch symbol, that is why you live here or some bs, she is latina but lives in Amsterdam so that is why I said it, just some excuse to hold her hand longer and she was touching me the whole time too.

We could easily kiss, but her friend was there and her friend flew out from France for this ADE weekend in Amsterdam, (Amsterdam Dance Event), it is really big full of people and so much fun, I wish ADE was longer. Anyways, so we talked about tattoos and she showed her tattoo on her hip, she had something on where you could see half through her clothes and everything together just turned me on allot, I was just very horny lol. I catched her stalking my instagram lol, so that is probably a good sign. Then I asked her about her music taste and she wanted to write down some songs on my phone, so she did. She also has like 15k followers on instagram talking about meditation and spirituality like literally my vibe, I think she even is a meditation teacher or something. 

But when I went to the toilet I realised I can't let her ditch her friend, her friend has flown out for this ADE from France and I can't take them together because her friend has a kid and partner, so I decided to just leave. So when I came back from the toilet I left, I gave her a hug and she wanted another one and I told her I would text her, in her ear. I am proud of myself for staying longer and not listening to the impulsive thoughts who just wanted to leave, rather in a split second I decided to stay even if I am a bit silent at times. I didn't pull or kiss, but I don't blame myself as the circumstances were not in my favor, if she was alone or with a bigger group, I would have isolated her and moved from there. But with how much we were touching eachother it felt like I already was in bed with her, it was very intimate. I stayed for 1.5 hours and if I would have stayed longer it would have looked a bit low value.

[Zenterus]

Brooo!!! Very nicely done, man! You had an instant date, got the girl super into you from the looks of things and got a solid instagram out of it. Amazing. 

Keep going like this, man! This is real game. Better to spend more time with a girl and get 1 solid number/instagrams a day that can actually lead somewhere rather than spread yourself thin by collecting 10 phone numbers/instagrams a day that go nowhere. 

[Ulax]

[Leo Gura]

Very good. Keep focusing on quality over quantity.

1 set like above is worth 100 short, shitty sets.

Edited 39 minutes ago by Leo Gura

[Magnanimous]

31 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Very good. Keep focusing on quality over quantity.

1 set like above is worth 100 short, shitty sets.

Hey Leo I've started approaching now.

How high quality should a set be to count it towards the 10,000 set mastery mark?