the real value of a men

[Olaf]

I was thinking today about the real value of a men and I came with these things:

1. Grounded, being grounded makes the woman feel like she can relax and feel safe

2. Fun, lets be for real, we men can be super fun and do stupid shit, this is very valuable to woman as they are simply bored, I mean who isn't

3. Vunerability, if you are able to be vunerable, she can be vunerable with you, at the end what is intimacy without vunerability?

4. Congruence, biggest thing Zenterus taught me, to drop the front and just be as you are

5. Presence, kind of similar to congruence, just being there, present, available, this isn't boring, it is energy

6. self worth, feeling worthy instead of trying to seek approval (not begging but attracting)

These are the biggest 6 things I am certain about, there is probably much more, but I only wanted to write down the ones that I am very certain about to be valuable in men to woman, but even in general. 

Edited 8 hours ago by Olaf

[Ulax]

There is no general sense of value, only value relative to things/ organisms

[Olaf]

@Ulax I probably should have phrased it better "character traits that are valuable" 

[enchanted]

Their love of power. Power has many benefits.

Their love of knowledge. Knowledge is power after all. 

Another one is male disobedience. There are a lot benefits of breaking the rules.

Women of course love this in men and they benefit from the greed and risk-taking that their counterparts do. So do the offspring.

Edited 26 minutes ago by enchanted

[enchanted]

4 hours ago, Ulax said:

There is no general sense of value, only value relative to things/ organisms

Yeah but you're a thing/organism right? 

[Olaf]

@enchanted don't objectify him 

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, enchanted said:

Yeah but you're a thing/organism right? 

Correct

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, Olaf said:

@enchanted don't objectify him