Polygamy- does it work

[Leo Gura]

23 minutes ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

What about the wealth of having a loving wife.

Why do you need the state to tell you you have a wife?

Do you need the state to tell you you have a dog?

Edited 3 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Mellowmarsh]

1 hour ago, Rishabh R said:

Life is suffering- Buddha.😂

It’s just a ride.

 

 

[BlessedLion]

10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

@Inliytened1 It has been tried and it does not work unless your repress women.

Polygamy is a form of abuse. That's why developed nations outlaw it.

It only sounds cool if you are thinking with your cock.

Ask your AI why it is outlawed in the developed world.

The reason Polygamy doesn't work is that it goes against womens biology and evolution, as "advanced" as they may try to be, women want on a deep psyhcological level to secure a partner that is stable. Polygamy works for men, unless of course the women are allowed to sleep around, in which they can do more easily so most men just end up being Cucks. 

It doesn't really work for anyone, unless your some king who has a concubine but then that's basically slavery and i doubt it very fulfilling.

[BlessedLion]

11 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Girls are annoying and stubborn everywhere. They will not give you peace.

What a stupid generalization. Women are amazing creatures and have so much to give. Id kill myself if Women didn't exist, that's not a world i'd want to live in

[AerisVahnEphelia]

9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Why do you need the state to tell you you have a wife?

Do you need the state to tell you you have a dog?

In my case, though, that’s basically the only way to get the papers to live in the US ( not that I m looking forward to it, I don't really give a shit about living there, in fact I prefer the EU vibe )

As for my current wealth... well, one thing’s for sure: gold diggers should take better courses if they’re trying to dig me.

[BlessedLion]

11 hours ago, Emerald said:

Conversely, one of the things that I've seen happen is when there's a woman who really likes a guy that she's with, and he wants to open up the relationship and start dating multiple women. So, she tolerates it and tries to be poly with him. And that's always sad.

 

This reminds me of Aubrey Marcus, his Wife clearly pushed herself beyond her boundaries to accomodate his desire to fuck a younger woman. 

 

My problem with Poly people is they make is their whole life. All they can talk about is there different relationships while constantly proccesing the jealousy, hurt, etc that's coming up in the process. 

I don't think we evolved for something like that and for most people it fucks with their foundation of security, stability, and safety. I don't really know a solution though , because men are also wired and evolved to have as many sexual partners as possible 

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, BlessedLion said:

The reason Polygamy doesn't work is that it goes against womens biology and evolution, as "advanced" as they may try to be, women want on a deep psyhcological level to secure a partner that is stable. Polygamy works for men, unless of course the women are allowed to sleep around, in which they can do more easily so most men just end up being Cucks. 

It doesn't really work for anyone, unless your some king who has a concubine but then that's basically slavery and i doubt it very fulfilling.

Yeah that's what I was saying.  Basically its the man that really desires multiple partners.  Women prefer one. Its their nature to have one.  Now..is it man's carnal instinct to have more than one? Some women are completely into the whole thing too..so you can't say it's all brainwashing.

[Leo Gura]

8 minutes ago, BlessedLion said:

Women are amazing creatures and have so much to give.

Does not contradict what I said.

There is a price to be paid.

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Does not contradict what I said.

There is a price to be paid.

A heavy one. But while the sex is good it's ok to pay. 

Edited 3 hours ago by Inliytened1

[LordFall]

3 hours ago, Inliytened1 said:

So fucking classic.  Yeah the nagging. 4 of them nagging.  I can't fathom that. Just one here in the US drives you insane.  Why can't they just walk around in panties all day.   But you're right.  Money makes the world go round.  If you have enough you can make the nagging go away too. 

Why are they nagging? It's usually because their wants and needs are not met. If you want a stable polyamorous arrangement over time then it's gonna require a lot of problem solving. Doesn't have to be a bad thing, everything in life is hard. It's up to each individual to figure out what type of hardships they are willing to endure for their dream life. 

To me having multiple high quality and supportive women in my life would be a blessing I would(and have done) a lot to achieve. Fucking 5 women at the same time is like the cherry on top but in general I think I would quite enjoy living my life with multiple close partners. 

Edited 3 hours ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

Why are they nagging? It's usually because their wants and needs are not met. If you want a stable polyamorous arrangement over time then it's gonna require a lot of problem solving. Doesn't have to be a bad thing, everything in life is hard. It's up to each individual to figure out what type of hardships they are willing to endure for their dream life. 

To me having multiple high quality and supportive in my life would be a blessing I would and have done a lot to achieve. Fucking 5 women at the same time is like the cherry on top but in general I think I would quite enjoy living my live with multiple close partners. 

That's absolutely correct.  I got nagged because I wasn't doing "my duties" around the house.  Even though I was flipping the bill for everything and she got a free ride.  She said I made her into nothing more than a hired maid.  I disagree completely.   

[PsychedelicEagle]

9 hours ago, ZenSwift said:

Meanwhile this guy exists, apparently. Makes no sense, especially for sustainability. 

 

Hahahha great find — fascinating. Didn't know about this guy.

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

That's absolutely correct.  I got nagged because I wasn't doing "my duties" around the house.  Even though I was flipping the bill for everything and she got a free ride.  She said I made her into nothing more than a hired maid.  I disagree completely.   

What was she bringing to your life that she was worth keeping around? I think some women offer a lot of value and make your life easier and some women are stuck in a resentment/victim mindset that makes them draining to be around and not valuable as partners.

You gotta vet heavily which type of people you invest a lot of time and energy into otherwise you're gonna end up miserable. 

@PsychedelicEagle There are many people that create intentional relationship structures outside the norm. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. I think it's worth trying out before one settles for conformity though and some people do end up making it work for decades. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, LordFall said:

 

You gotta vet heavily which type of people you invest a lot of time and energy into otherwise you're gonna end up miserable. 

 

That's a fucking understatement.  I learned the hard way folks. Just stuck my head in and got it nearly knocked off. Don't do that. VET VET and then VET some more.

But I'm almost convinced now that they are all crazy.

As for the value she would bring - i don't want to look at women as property or a kind of asset. I did love her and I still do.  Living together wasn't feasible though. 

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Mellowmarsh]

4 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

But I'm almost convinced now that they are all crazy.

Good lord, don’t ever stick your dick in crazy. 
 

 

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Mellowmarsh said:

Good lord, don’t ever stick your dick in crazy. 
 

 

You guys put it in front of us.  So.  We are like caged beasts. 

[LordFall]

Asset or liabilities are exactly the effect people will have on your life though. Life is rarely neutral as stability is not a common state in nature. People will bring you up or down. It's not about objectifying people it's about accurately introspecting and reflecting on the effect different people have had on your life and realizing that if you want to achieve a phenomenal life you have to let go of people that haven't fixed their shit and aren't willing to improve themselves. 

Otherwise instead of building a high quality life for yourself and others your time and energy will get bogged down into useless and petty drama. This directly loops back to social circle game but it shows the same principle in another context : throwing a party. I've noticed since I know a lot of guys if I throw a yacht party or a nice penthouse party then all the guys want to come. When it's time to film content on the street, plan a content strategy or work on our businesses then all of a sudden only about 10% of them are interested.

They don't think I notice and then I never invite them to an event again and end up with the 4-5 guys I can actually rely on and 20-30 women at my photoshoots. It's like a law of social structures, most people will end up being a drain on the environment if you aren't extremely careful about who you let into your personal life and events. 

Most humans are not looking to actually create value in their life, they take the easy way out of consuming all the value they can get their hands on and then complain and play victim when they've run out. This goes for both men and women. 

11 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

But I'm almost convinced now that they are all crazy.

How so? I don't think that's true but feel free to elaborate. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Mellowmarsh]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

You guys put it in front of us.  So.  We are like caged beasts. 

But aren’t you the guy who wants to lock them in 😂 

Did you lose your key, or something? 🤬

[Inliytened1]

5 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Asset or liabilities are exactly the effect people will have on your life though. Life is rarely neutral as stability is not a common state in nature. People will bring you up or down. It's not about objectifying people it's about accurately introspecting and reflecting on the effect different people have had on your life and realizing that if you want to achieve a phenomenal life you have to let go of people that haven't fixed their shit and aren't willing to improve themselves. 

Otherwise instead of building a high quality life for yourself and others your time and energy will get bogged down into useless and petty drama. This directy loops back to social circle game but it shows the same principle in another context : throwing a party. I've noticed since I know a lot of guys if I throw a yacht party or a nice penthouse party then all the guys want to come. When it's time to film content on the street, plan a content strategy or work on our businesses then all the sudden only about 10% of them are interested.

Most humans are not looking to actually create value in their life, they take the easy way out of consuming all the value they can get their hands on and then complain and play victim when they've run out. This goes for both men and women. 

How so? I don't think that's true but feel free to elaborate. 

There is something fundamentally wrong with this though.   It is too robotic.  I'm not saying you aren't on the right path.  Hell. I may have slept with 200 girls but what do I have to show for it? A trophy on the wall?  But it's just the way you analyze everything seems to be missing the human component somewhere.  That's what I want you to bring to mind.  If it is all a game of chess, when you win at the end,  you want to feel like you have played, otherwise none of it was worth it.

Edited 2 hours ago by Inliytened1

[LordFall]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

There is something fundamentally wrong with this though.   It is too robotic.  I'm not saying you aren't on the right path.  Hell. I may have slept with 200 girls but what do I have to show for it? A trophy on the wall?  But it's just the way you analyze everything seems to be missing the human component somewhere.  That's what I want you to bring to mind.  If it is all a game of chess, when you win at the end,  you want to feel like you have played, otherwise none of it was worth it.

I think perhaps for a lot of people sitting down and breaking down their problems is too boring. I would work on that attitude if you really want a phenomenal dating life man, otherwise you're gonna end up with a mediocre one like the rest of the population.

Look around you and the relationships and lives of the average person. That's what happens when you wing it and claim that strategically building your life is robotic lol.