What is the most important between inner game and outer game ?

[Ben2204]

Hi guys, 

What’s the most important between inner game & outer game ? And why ?
Because i think my outer game is more good than the average guy but my inner game is really bad, i don’t know if that can explain my bad results in this moment. 

What do you think ?

[Valach]

Inner game and it is not even close. You can get results just on focusing on outergame, without a doubt. It also depends on how you define results or success in this field.

[TheGod]

54 minutes ago, Ben2204 said:

Hi guys, 

What’s the most important between inner game & outer game ? And why ?
Because i think my outer game is more good than the average guy but my inner game is really bad, i don’t know if that can explain my bad results in this moment. 

What do you think ?

Inner game is the most important part. Why do you compare yourself to the average guy? Compare yourself only to yourself. It's also part of the inner game. If in the past you coudln't approach a woman and now you can do it easy - that is success. What results you consider bad vs good?

Edited 9 hours ago by TheGod

[LordFall]

Short term outer game, medium and long term inner game.

If you have the right process you can get laid pretty fast and consistently but if your psychology and alignment with reality aren't dialed in properly you will be depressed and not be able to bond with people properly to form long term mutually beneficial relationships. 

What makes you think you have bad inner game? Can you elaborate and we can flesh it out.

One of the fastest ways to solve inner game is to do a loving kindess meditation. I did it once and changed my life

If you love yourself, the women you engage with and overall any human you're in conflict with that will already solve 80% of your inner game from just adopting the right paradigm right off the bat. 

Edited 3 hours ago by LordFall

[aurum]

I wouldn't get hung up on a debate between which is more important.

Just work on both.

[Leo Gura]

If your inner game is bad, then definitely that.

Most important is whatever your bottleneck is.