Cities for dating and meeting women discussion

[Lyubov]

Where you’re located plays a big role in the most effective way go take to find a girlfriend or get laid. The culture, the climate, what people value and what is seen as an asset. Let’s make a list of cities and what they value. I’ll start us off. Let’s make a list and compare and see how this affects what you choose to shape your life when it comes to this domain of life. Ok I’ll start.

Rio de Janerio, Brazil - Probably one of the most looksmaxxed places you could go as a guy. Being physically fit and looking amazing with your shirt off is almost crucial here if you want the best looking women off the beach. You can go to some areas where there are more white Brazilians and try to pick up women at more traditional clubs but they can get pricey and there are dudes everywhere trying to get laid here because the women of this city have a reputation for giving sex quickly. You need to really cultivate an extroverted lifestyle here to pull the top girls. This is not an intellectual city. Being able to dance and go with the flow and enjoy a long night out is important in this city. Online dating is completely flooded, instagram too. 
 

Moscow, Russia - You have to be literally fucking retarded if you aren’t able to pull as a mediocre white guy from the USA or UK here. The most beautiful women on earth and you will notice the sheer volume. Girls here in general need more trust building. They do not respond well to quick moves for kissing and dirty remarks. That’s a rule of thumb, obviously they’re freaks in the bedroom but they are usually very protective of their image and I found they are very scared of being labeled as a slur. This is a great place for introverts. Intellectualism is rewarded. You can be kinda fat but if you dress well and have style you can pull a supermodel still. Money talks here too but can attract the wrong girl. 
 

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[aurum]

San Diego.

I think if anywhere here is interested in a long-term relationship, this is an underrated city. Large population, good nightlife, health conscious, family values, beautiful weather, spiritual friendly, and relatively easy access to LA, Vegas or even Mexico.

Cons: it's expensive as hell for most people.

[Lyubov]

Medellin Colombia. I think this place has easily the most beautiful women in South America and they are pretty keen on white gringos. Easy flights have completely overran the place. A lot of shady shit tourists too but the worst part is the crime, this is a very dangerous city. Lots of disingenuous women as well. I’d say you have to exercise a tremendous amount of caution wherever you go here and with whoever you meet. 

[Olaf]

@Lyubov I know a guy who went to colombia and he said he had 75% chance to get laid that day, here in Amsterdam he gets laid once every 4 nights out, he is a bit of a weirdo, but it was funny to hear. I think moving to Colombia for sex is kinda useless, anyways I am not really doing PUA to get laid, more to find a partner, so that is why I would go somewhere more close to my home. I like to go to the busiest place, closest to where I live, if you have to move countries it feels a bit much, also your not able to build a relationship from there, unless one of you wants to immigrate. So just ask yourself what place in my country (or state if you live in the USA) gets the most traffic? Or ask ChatGPT what is the best or busiest place in your country/state. Other places I heard are cities in Poland and London, London is so busy it got 9 million people or something.

[Lyubov]

2 hours ago, Olaf said:

@Lyubov I know a guy who went to colombia and he said he had 75% chance to get laid that day, here in Amsterdam he gets laid once every 4 nights out, he is a bit of a weirdo, but it was funny to hear. I think moving to Colombia for sex is kinda useless, anyways I am not really doing PUA to get laid, more to find a partner, so that is why I would go somewhere more close to my home. I like to go to the busiest place, closest to where I live, if you have to move countries it feels a bit much, also your not able to build a relationship from there, unless one of you wants to immigrate. So just ask yourself what place in my country (or state if you live in the USA) gets the most traffic? Or ask ChatGPT what is the best or busiest place in your country/state. Other places I heard are cities in Poland and London, London is so busy it got 9 million people or something.

Colombia is top tier for women, nothing useless going there for sex. It is a night and day experience going from a shitty city to a good one. But I will say going to Colombia has a lot of other problems which can make the trade of going there come with more issues. Moving is not excessive at all for getting high caliber women. If you can’t pull back home obviously you won’t pull a super model where you go but it def will give you a much better deal. 

London is kinda shit. It’s expensive and has gotten dangerous. Western  English speaking countries in general are not good unless you have an incredible lifestyle, income and look. They’re just very inefficient places for normal guys and you’ll have to settle for less beauty and choices. 

I haven’t been to Poland but I heard it’s super overrun now as a spot. All the Euro puas started flooding it precovid and apparently now from what I heard the girls there react far less warmly than they used to. I’m sure it’s still miles better than the USA or UK though.

[Olaf]

@Lyubov do you plan on moving to a place temporarily or what is your plan? For me I can understand to practice maybe some game to go there, but ultimately it would be a temporary thing for me, not really a place I would stay permanently, but I don't know what you are looking for. 

[Ulax]

London. The home of daygame.

[Lyubov]

10 hours ago, Olaf said:

@Lyubov do you plan on moving to a place temporarily or what is your plan? For me I can understand to practice maybe some game to go there, but ultimately it would be a temporary thing for me, not really a place I would stay permanently, but I don't know what you are looking for. 

My plans have changed but yeah I was emigrating to Russia until 2022, I had plans to buy a flat in Moscow and everything, had the cash, had spent 3 years there getting ready to be based out of there, was going to buy summer 2022…. Invasion happened in Feb 2022 so I pulled out. I’ve since been traveling the last 4 years doing digital nomad life since I work online. Two were spent in Brazil. I’ve gotten married in this time. I’m based out of South East Asia now. 

Edited 14 hours ago by Lyubov

[BlessedLion]

Man, Brazil is absolutely epic. I've dated and slept with the hottest girl of my life there. If Rio wasn't so dangerous I would potentially live there, hottest baddest chicks by far.

 

I am in Bali now and can say it absolutely full of beautiful women who are open to dating and sex. The only thing is a lot of them seem interested in serious dating, like long term comittment, which is kinda confusing to me. But nonetheless the ratio here is wild and the women are top tier. 

[Lyubov]

2 hours ago, BlessedLion said:

Man, Brazil is absolutely epic. I've dated and slept with the hottest girl of my life there. If Rio wasn't so dangerous I would potentially live there, hottest baddest chicks by far.

 

I am in Bali now and can say it absolutely full of beautiful women who are open to dating and sex. The only thing is a lot of them seem interested in serious dating, like long term comittment, which is kinda confusing to me. But nonetheless the ratio here is wild and the women are top tier. 

I found that Rio is very competitive and slants heavily towards a certain look and type of person. I also think the way the socializing works there and lifestyle makes it so hot girls are completely overwhelmed by horny guys. It’s not a bad city for hooking up. I also fucked a couple incredibly hot woman there, I still reminisce about one of them to this day… but the city and way dating works there has a lot of problems. Girls are flooded with horny dudes, athletic look and extroversion is crucial for building volume and it’s both dangerous and expensive. But the city is easily the most beautiful I been to and I love the beach lifestyle 

Edited 4 hours ago by Lyubov

[Olaf]

@Lyubov honestly a safer country, but with incredibly good looking woman is the European version of brazil, Spain! Spanish girls can be super attractive, even here I approach attractive girls in Netherlands and when I ask where they come from they say Spain many times, so Spain should definitely be on your list. More Eastern or central European places have beautiful woman aswell, I think Slovenia and Austria these countries have some beautiful woman. I went to Vienna for a few days, very beautiful girls. 

Edited 1 hour ago by Olaf