Men are not allowed to be victims in the matriarchy

[Ulax]

5 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

If these guys would go there, instead of finding release through the practices they'd be looking for release through the hot yoga women

lmao

[KosmicGeng]

1 hour ago, AION said:

You have to catch her before 24. It seems 24 is the magical age for women.

For me it's not so much about age but I prefer younger women -7-10 years max and 1+2 year older then me max, but maturity, also beauty and similar interests or values that overlap, I did a course from integral and just recovered my account and I am mulling over some things, as I still have the mindmap etc. I drew right in front of me, I had close to everything what I wanted in the ex, there were just two factors that completely killed the relationship, she smoked tobacco occassionaly and had family as a value, which is more hostile to me, after a while as there is often a lack of re-investment in the family that we create and a focus only on her perspective of a family, which is just often the perspective of social reproduction or "I feel emotional about having kids, so I want them", while I see it as a way bigger risk, and many women put me into that frame, as soon as I do well, they just crave kids from me like idk wtf is wrong with them, and I never wanted children.

 I faced some serious issues with this, as imo my maturity is often misjuged, and I care and cared a lot about integrating it, otherwise I would've not worked with so many ph.d's in a row, it's not so easy to find mature humans, generally speaking. I for sure enjoy some things around video games etc. that are less mature, my largest issue have been all of the smoking cigarettes and alcohol, where I have to put a limit now on never touching these things again, never ever, eventually cannabis is fine, but I have been hijacked and let myself be hijacked about health a lot of times. 

Most women I meet or have meet online have some type of secret or deal breaker, I lost all hope in even dating a women, before I had sex, because most healthy and integrated women, benefitted way more from a conscious family, while I have to deal with a two times divorced mother, she was left after 12 years and got cheated on by some tall piece of shit, after I accepted him with loving compassion into the "family" I hold that construct very loosely, and now she has a new boyfriend at her age, and it all depended on my success, it's digusting how women cling to men for status, I hate it my entire f***ing life, but there is nothing I can do, it's beneficial in a relationship, but if women groom your emotional system your entire life, for the physical and monetary status you provide for them, you can clearly see how they treat men as a toy, and at one point you do the same to them, or you have loving-compassion for yourself, and see through the whole scenario, with "lights-eyes".

It depends most women really want to build something around that age, but are to immature and don't get enough ressources from their family, I had close to everything handed to me, but I re-invested into education, as I valued it highly, but it did not make me attract a stable partner at all, and I still yearn to go out and celebrate my own life, as I had to little of that, especially alone, but I also agree the attention and loving attention from younger women feels better, I don't know I just looked that I did the relationship courses, online-dating courses etc. but most of my results still come from photos, and intuitive insights, just my looks and career capital or opportunities, while I also attract a lot of "women wanting to be saved", I have quite a negative view about dating, even when I am hopeful, but I have to see I still require experience, a beautiful girl asked me out, but I am at wits end with the whole scenario about relationships, I put so much effort and work into preparing myself, most women have no idea about their values, just see the extrinsic value of a guy, chest muscles, car, house, socialbillity and that is fundamentally it and career and fitness. 

I would require a more loving experience from a women, meanwhile I am doing parts of loving myself more with compassion, but my compassion is very sharp and caused a white light type of state, so I don't really know my practice creates different results from what people expect, and it generally notches me or pegs me up a bit higher, I really dislike the scenario, I had to stop also a lot of intellectual work, and work on myself, as I just did not find enough people I could meet eye to eye, and I am still somewhat at the same space. 

I stop here my issues go very far, I don't know if I will ever resolve them, till now I get very little out of love and compassion out of relationships so I have to see. 

 

Edited 6 hours ago by KosmicGeng

[Schizophonia]

Illusion of separation.

Edited 1 hour ago by Schizophonia

[Basman]

Bro, you'll get over it. Give it some time. Go have some ice cream. Go for a walk. Hit up your homies.

[Elliott]

I'm convinced incels are gay, they like talking to guys, hanging out with guys, and they only associate with women to enter a hole.