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I approached more then 100 woman this weekend

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@Zenterus yes I have changed my game a bit more towards first getting into state by just approaching a bunch of girls that I am not per say interested in and when I feel I am in state going for the girls I am actually want to talk longer with and are interested in. Basically what owen teaches, which is, at the beginning of the night/day approach all at the end burn it to the ground. So that is what I am changing. Also I am no longer counting how many woman I speak to as it is a waste of energy and a distraction, also it is not fun and not focused on the goal. The goal isn't a certain amount of girls approached, but how many girls you closed. Maybe I should get a tattoo like gary vee - "always be closing" lol. 

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@ZenSwift yes you will have days that you are more social, right now the beginning of the weekend I am the least in state and at the end I am the most in state. So even when you don't feel social, it helps to push through, because the next day you will be social as the momentum carries over through the days. Adding value is basically being generous; generosity is a selfless act and such a strong frame to come from, because you are only there to truely give, not to get. Or as Leo would say something like God gets the most pussy. The only problem is that a nice guy will hear this and then what he will do is buy her drinks and help her carry bags, which is something else as saying "this is cool, you should go there" which is basically implying no need for outcome, you buying a drink is like asking her to fuck with you for 5 euro's, that is how she sees it. I asked a pretty girl if she liked to be approached, she said "no, because they are all trying to fuck with me" that is the problem with nice guys, they do generous stuff for a selfish agenda to have sex and she instantly picks up on this. Or in other words have no need for outcome. The paradox is that you should still be closing even without a need for outcome. 

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8 hours ago, Ulax said:

I disagree. Approaching 100 girls in a weekend whilst a beginner is definitely real work

How did you manage to literally read through and ignore what I said, then come up with a counter argument that goes against nothing I said.


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8 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

How did you manage to literally read through and ignore what I said, then come up with a counter argument that goes against nothing I said.

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