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The Tension Before the Approach

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21 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

My natural friend can talk to any stranger. He makes a living by talking groups of people to go to strip clubs. Clubs pay him to bring people to them.

Extroverts have no problem talking to strangers. They love that shit.

An extrovert will chat with Satan about the weather.

I think it's good to be natural but also learn the basics of game. So many low hanging fruits that dudes could fix easily.

 

I def agree that most dating/pick up coaches are completely lost. They've basically made their life purpose manipulating women to validate their egos causing much harm and pain on the way. Most of them cannot hold down a relationship and the facade crumbles after a few weeks. It's like they've mastered how to present and display themselves as a high value man without actually building the foundation of BEING one. Todd especially just seems like a total psychopath and is way too heady, the amount of rules and structure he teaches it's like he's trying to teach rocket science, like jesus it's not that complex if it was we wouldn't fucking exist. People have been building attraction and fucking for hundreds of thousands of years. 

 

I think sexuality and dating and attraction are absolutely essential to life, it's something most people should learn, practice, and experience. The sexual energy is funny, there's really no option BUT to master it. Because then you either become a headless chicken chasing every pussy you see, or you become a gooning loser paying OF chicks, but if you master you sexuality you can actually build something worthwhile and have the discipline to see it through 


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21 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

My natural friend can talk to any stranger. He makes a living by talking groups of people to go to strip clubs. Clubs pay him to bring people to them.

Extroverts have no problem talking to strangers. They love that shit.

An extrovert will chat with Satan about the weather.

It's our downfall but also our biggest advantage.  Because if you are an extrovert you can communicate with people, and thus, do anything you want in life.  Being an introvert shuts you off from many opportunities.  You have to learn to do your own thing.  What are you?  Now, don't rush the answer.  Because,  I might have some opinions on this.


 

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Pick up on the vibe of the people you interface with too.  Someone might be beautiful but have a quality to their personality that is a red flag.  They might be mean or selfish.  

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Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

Pick up on the vibe of the people you interface with too.  Someone might be beautiful but have a quality to their personality that is a red flag.  They might me mean or selfish.  

You're an extrovert for sure :)

 


 

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1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

You're an extrovert for sure :)

 

I don't think so.  But nice conversion.  

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1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:

I don't think so.  But nice conversion.  

hmm...well, you might actually be the opposite in public.  But you have your own channel and such, and are very outgoing here.  I would say you are.

 

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Just now, Inliytened1 said:

hmm...well, you might actually be the opposite in public.  But you have your own channel and such, and are very outgoing here.  I would say you are.

 

Okay.  

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20 hours ago, Stick said:

@Leo Gura wtf is a natural friend

😂


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Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

Okay.  

Don't get bashful on me my friend - you're the most outgoing on the forum.  

Leo comes in second.


 

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2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Don't get bashful on me my friend - you're the most outgoing on the forum.  

Leo comes in second.

I'm not worried about who comes in first or second.  You might be, so I would look into that.  

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1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:

I'm not worried about who comes in first or second.  You might be, so I would look into that.  

Yeah when i'm here.  i tend to wander off for weeks.  


 

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Just now, Inliytened1 said:

Yeah when i'm here.  i tend to wander off for weeks.  

What is with your recent usage of the lower case i?  I enjoy you on here.  

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6 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

What is with your recent usage of the lower case i?  I enjoy you on here.  

Typing too fast probably.  Anyways, I enjoy you too.  So.  With that in mind..Podcast?  Can we get Leo perhaps? We need to boost your channel.

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Just now, Inliytened1 said:

Typing too fast probablhy.  Anyways, I enjoy you too.  So.  With that in mind..Podcast?  Can we get Leo perhaps? We need to boost your channel.

Okay.  Don't appreciate me too much.  That is not my desire.  I want people to find their own path.

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3 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Okay.  Don't appreciate me too much.  That is not my desire.  I want people to find their own path.

It's hard you're like Teddy :)

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Classic. Get the results from great pick up coaches, and then shit on those same coaches because you no longer have the same problems.


There is no failure, only feedback

One small step at a time. No one climbs a mountain in one go.

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Just now, Ulax said:

Classic. Get the results from great pick up coaches, and then shit on those same coaches because you no longer have the same problems.

Just go fuck some shit I say


 

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1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

Just go fuck some shit I say

Did you get that line from Shakespeare? :P


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3 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Did you get that line from Shakespeare? :P

Good sir, my heart doth keep thy company though many miles divide us; and every hour till we meet again seems twice as long.”


 

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