1 Dating Coach vs 20 Manosphere (ft. Mark Manson)

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Why this fixation on criticizing women when talking about learning dating? 

When I started pickup, the idea of criticizing women for my dating problems never even entered my mind. That is so weak and counter-productive. I simply learned the techniques and insights to increase my skill at dating.

You don't have to focus on them, but it's good to be aware of what kind of women are out there, and what are some of them capable of. As far as I'm concerned I define what is weak and strong for me, I don't let others do it for me

Pick up is a pretty cringe way to go about it, lets be honest, but it is a way of course

Edited 8 hours ago by NewKidOnTheBlock

[AION]

22 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gura Real men take responsibility to fix their problems : psychological, sexual, spiritual, financial, intellectual... 

I have some friends who take full responsiblity for those things and they still can't get any gf to save their life. If responsibility got you laid, the world would have looked different. I can't believe the ignorance of this forum lmao. 

Edited 8 hours ago by AION

[Leo Gura]

21 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Pick up is a pretty cringe way to go about it

Cringe?

It is the more serious way to learn dating.

Everything else is weak-sauce.

Cringe is hating on women and then trying to get sex through online spam.

Edited 8 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Elliott]

Just now, AION said:

I have some friends who take full responsiblity for those things and they still can't get any gf to save their life. 

I'm confident that you have no idea what responsibility for those things looks like.

[AION]

Getting a gf or getting sex comes down to one and only one thing and that is game. And like with every game there are rules, skills, flow and other things required for good game. It is a very dynamic game and my friends with an uni degree can't figure it out becuase they just don't want to listen. It is their own problem though. I'm not going out my way to help thisng.

[AION]

Just now, Elliott said:

I'm confident that you have no idea what responsibility for those things looks like.

I don't have responsiblity and I get laid left and right. While my friends who have responsibility can't get laid and are semi suicidal (no joke).

[Leo Gura]

Even if you are responsible it can still be hard to get laid.

Responsibility isn't sexy.

Edited 8 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Elliott]

Just now, AION said:

I don't have responsiblity and I get laid left and right. While my friends who have responsibility can't get laid and are semi suicidal (no joke).

So what, getting laid isn't what we're talking about, go to Vegas and you see all kinds of gross dudes with cute slaves.

[AION]

2 minutes ago, Elliott said:

So what, getting laid isn't what we're talking about, go to Vegas and you see all kinds of gross dudes with cute slaves.

Getting a gf is very important for regular guys. If you have everything in material but don't have a love of your life, life doesn't have value. Those friends who have everything material are jealous on me because I'm bascially mogging them and crushing their provider mindset paradigm. And you know what?? they deserve to be ego crushed. I'm done with helping losers who don't want to listen and think they are better just because of this or that. 

[Elliott]

1 minute ago, AION said:

Getting a gf is very important for regular guys. If you have everything in material but don't have a love of your life, life doesn't have value. Those friends who have everything material are jealous on me because I'm bascially mogging them and crushing their provider mindset paradigm. And you know what?? they deserve to be ego crushed. I'm done with helping losers who don't want to listen and think they are better just because of this or that. 

You're in a committed relationship?

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Cringe?

It is the more serious way to learn dating.

Everything else is weak-sauce.

Cringe is hating on women and then trying to get sex through online spam.

It is cringe in a way that you are again giving women validation and attention for existing, it is still much better than trying anything online I agree of course. But at the end of the day it doesn't matter because women hold a massive leverage over guys today, so overall you are right and it might be the best way, but again depends on how you go about it, if you just spam approach everywhere it's gonna be cringe

[AION]

1 minute ago, Elliott said:

You're in a committed relationship?

No, but I have high quality girls probing me for relationships all the time but I don't want to settle down because I'm trying to get financially stable after some failures with investment and business.

[Majed]

@NewKidOnTheBlock Women have different survival agendas than men. You're assuming men and women are the same. Women hold the key to sex, men hold the key to marriage and a stable relationship, don't confuse the two. 

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

you are again giving women validation and attention for existing

How else could it be? Guys job is to hit on girls. No shame in that.

[Monster Energy]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

How else could it be? Guys job is to hit on girls. No shame in that.

Say that to feminism 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

People have actually bought into Gynocentrism??? Jesus 

[Leo Gura]

19 minutes ago, Monster Energy said:

Say that to feminism 

No woman I dated cares about feminism. This is such a too-online issue.

[AION]

It is so funny we have advanced tech like AI but we still can't figure out a woman. 

[Monster Energy]

15 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

No woman I dated cares about feminism. This is such a too-online issue.

Glad to hear that 

[Monster Energy]

6 minutes ago, AION said:

It is so funny we have advanced tech like AI but we still can't figure out a woman. 

Not even women understand each other.