Women are attracted to emotional guys

[Valach]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

The uninspected idea behind this "I am the one to decide what someone deserves" is the insidious root to the arrogant, judgemental ego that needs to be removed. 

Stunted in growth until it is attended.

Precisely. That's the danger of going down the path of just playing into woman's shadows/desires.

[Joseph Maynor]

22 hours ago, Someone here said:

 She is super attracted to Witt and sense of humor.

This is true, and I don't like it because although I like to create humor, I don't find wit or wordplay particularly fun to engage in terms of creating humor.

[Leo Gura]

Contemplate this: If I was a hot girl, what kind of guy would I crave?

[Monster Energy]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Contemplate this: If I was a hot girl, what kind of guy would I crave?

Usama bin Ladin

[Joseph Maynor]

13 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Contemplate this: If I was a hot girl, what kind of guy would I crave?

First and foremost a guy who talks to you.  

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Joseph Maynor

[Natasha Tori Maru]

21 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Contemplate this: If I was a hot girl, what kind of guy would I crave?

Clive Owen. In Sin City.

My uturus is empty, Clive 

[Monster Energy]

Just now, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Sin City. My uturus is empty 

Sounds dangerous 

[Monster Energy]

This post is the reason you’ll never be a girl’s first choice, or why she won’t look at you for more than two seconds. It’s also why your friend’s mom would never fantasize about sleeping with you.

You don’t understand what attraction actually is.

And no, women don’t want a man who is constantly emotional and has no control over himself. They can appreciate a man who has emotions, but attraction often comes from confidence, stability, and the ability to handle yourself.

People are often drawn to things they feel they don’t already have. That’s why confidence and decisiveness are attractive.

This entire post is so painfully wrong that it shouldn’t even be allowed to exist.

You understand nothing about attraction. And for that matter, nothing about God either.

 

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Monster Energy

[Joseph Maynor]

I don't think women are generally attracted to emotional guys.  I think they are attracted to confident kind of stoic guys.  

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

I don't think women are generally attracted to emotional guys.

By emotional we mean charismatic vs crybaby.

Charisma, yes!

Crybaby, no!

Edited 55 minutes ago by Leo Gura

[Joseph Maynor]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

By emotional we mean charismatic vs crybabies.

Charisma, yes!

Crybaby, no!

Yes.  I agree.  There has to be a polarity.  That creates the chemistry and interest.  

[Leo Gura]

What repels women is men who are psychologically weaker than her. A man who is more afraid of life than a woman. A weak man who is easily defeated by life.

An overly emotional man is actually the sign of a weak man. It should be hard to get a man to cry because the man has been through much tougher shit. A man should not be easily uncentered because he deals with tough things regularly. A man needs to be strong enough to weather a storm.

Edited 40 minutes ago by Leo Gura

[Monster Energy]

6 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

What repels women is men who are psychologically weaker than her. A man who is more afraid of life than a woman. A weak man who is easily defeated by life.

An overly emotional man is actually the sign of a weak man. It should be hard to get a man to cry because the man has been through much tougher shit. A man should not be easily uncentered because he deals with tough things regularly.

You confused emotional control with emotional emptiness. They’re not the same thing.

A man who never feels anything isn’t strong. He’s just disconnected. Real strength is being able to walk through hell, feel every bit of it, and still choose who you become afterward.

Weak men are controlled by their emotions. Strong men understand them.

 

[Joseph Maynor]

I notice people who are good at relationship talk to everyone around them.  And they can talk to anyone with no agenda.  And this opens doors to talking to more people around them.  It is just a willingness to communicate safely with anyone almost.  It is very impressive actually.

[Leo Gura]

Being good at relationships is not what makes a woman crave a man. The craving is independent of relationship skills.

The hottest guys are rarely boyfriend material.

Women crave masculine strength.

Edited 29 minutes ago by Leo Gura

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 minutes ago, AION said:

Dating is business. Not therapy. Especially in the beginning phases I don´t expect the woman to be my therapist and she shouldn´t expect me to be her therapist. Relationships are always about giving and getting and trying to be somebody´s therapist while dating that person is kind of unhealthy imo. So if a girl has a huge shadow aka daddy issues, it is not my job to psychoanalyze her and help her out. It won´t be appreciated anyway although I´m capable of doing it.

Has zero to do with what I raised.

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, Leo Gura said:

Being good at relationships is not what makes a woman crave a man. The craving is indepedent of relationship skills.

The hottest guys are rare boyfriend material.

The problem is the guy plays her that he is boyfriend material -- even if that is furthest from the truth on either end.

[Leo Gura]

1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:

The problem is the guy plays her that he is boyfriend material -- even if that is furthest from the truth on either end.

Sometimes. But I think most girls know that the hottest guys they crave are not boyfriend material. But they crave them anyway.

It is like a guily pleasure, a bucket of ice cream. You know you shouldn't but you want to anyway.

Edited 27 minutes ago by Leo Gura

[AION]

 

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Contemplate this: If I was a hot girl, what kind of guy would I crave?

Loyal guy. I wouldn´t date around because of the emotional baggage that is associated with it.

[Joseph Maynor]

2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Sometimes. But I think most girls know that the hottest guys they crave are not boyfriend material. But they crave them anyway.

It is like a guily pleasure, a bucket of ice cream. You know you shouldn't but you want to anyway.

 Masculinity and Femininity can be thought of as energies.  People emit these energies which don't necessarily have to do with something else.