Are You Aligned In Life?

[Someone here]

8 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

This is too black and white. There are plenty of intelligent women out there. And again, I don’t expect a hardcore philosopher and an intellect. I am not necessarily one myself.

Also, my own brain is wired differently. I am wired for depth. Having a ”shallow” minded relationship is not very fulfilling for me.

Plenty of spiritual female public figures out there, so it would make sense that offline there is even more. But it’s still a minority, and hard to find them, especially if you look for them in clubs lol.

I guess it just comes down to preferences. 😂 Personally I don’t need “depth” from a girlfriend .I want a certified bimbo lol. That’s way more my vibe.

If you’re looking to date a hot public intellectual  though  you’ve gotta accept you’re hunting for a unicorn. Someone who’s exceptionally smart and exceptionally attractive? That’s a pretty rare combo.

 

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[aurum]

37 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Do I sense that you want me to ask you further questions? Or am I reading you wrong?

Yes, getting a girl to fall into my ”normie” frame is easy. What’s much harder is to get her to following me in spirituality, and anyway, that would be getting close to cult practices.

No, you don't have to ask me questions. I was mostly just curious.

I am working a project right now that is focused on teaching Tier 2 masculinity & relationships. So it's useful for me to see kind of problems guys are struggling with. And I think our perspectives slightly diverge here.

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[Miguel1]

29 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I guess it just comes down to preferences. 😂 Personally I don’t need “depth” from a girlfriend .I want a certified bimbo lol. That’s way more my vibe.

If you’re looking to date a hot public intellectual  though  you’ve gotta accept you’re hunting for a unicorn. Someone who’s exceptionally smart and exceptionally attractive? That’s a pretty rare combo.

 

We are all different, eh?

And yes, after 50k approaches, I acknowledge I am looking for something super rare. Hence the internal struggle.

But they do exist. Imagine a young Teal Swan. Now, you won’t find them in clubs. That’s for sure 

[Miguel1]

23 minutes ago, aurum said:

No, you don't have to ask me questions. I was mostly just curious.

I am working a project right now that is focused on teaching Tier 2 masculinity & relationships. So it's useful for me to see kind of problems guys are struggling with. And I think our perspectives slightly diverge here.

Got it. Feel free to explore my mind and situation further. We can also hop on a call if you want.

I think we chatted once a few years ago!

[Someone here]

57 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

We are all different, eh?

And yes, after 50k approaches, I acknowledge I am looking for something super rare. Hence the internal struggle.

But they do exist. Imagine a young Teal Swan. Now, you won’t find them in clubs. That’s for sure 

Yes but after 50k approaches you must have slept with hundreds of girls from all flavors..but you are still not quite finding “the one”? I’m honestly just checking the thread now..sorry if I’m not understanding the context . You are saying you are disillusioned by this whole lifestyle and you want to rise above it ? Or do you want to lock one girl down and commit to a serious relationship with one girl but so far no one matches the quality and personality type you’re interested in ?   In any case in this field precisely you are more experienced honestly ..but I don’t think if you are a serious guy about this stuff and you actually pull girls from clubs everyday and every night and you teach it also and you have approached 50,000 girl and you are still disappointed. Maybe it’s time to rise above it . I don’t know. I’m not above it . I’m actively looking for a wife actually through social circle. So yes I difffer from you here .