Are You Aligned In Life?

[Natasha Tori Maru]

12 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

@Natasha Tori Maru Your personality type changes every 6 months 

Like a true chameleon 😎

[bazera]

24 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I consider myself an ambivert.

Like, 50/50 introvert extrovert?

Not even 60/40? 

I also have extrovesion side but the main indicator that I differenciate those and the reason I identify myself as an introvert is that I get drained and tired with socialization easily and I crave alone time. But I don't crave much socialization when I'm in solutude, maybe rarely.

It's either introversion or some trauma and fear of going out, lol. But I don't really have a fear (I had in the past which solved with lots of socializing), so that has left me with just introversion.

Also, it's a phase thing, I had a more social phase, and I will gladly have those again in the future. It's important to distinguish fear vs introversion, many introverts are just inexperienced and lack social skills and justify those fears with the idea of introversion.

[Miguel1]

6 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Like a true chameleon 😎

I remember you typed INFJ. What did you type after that?

I also remember saying you remind me of an ENFJ, like a true chameleon 

[bazera]

Oh, I'm also INFJ, done that test multiple times throughout years and doesn't change much I guess 😅

They say it's the rarest personality type 😎

Don't know if that's a good thing though, lol.

[integral]

Cognitive functions are what matters with MBTI.

What are the subconscious questions that you're asking yourself? The default thinking process.

Quote

 

Thinking

Te — "Does this work? What's the most efficient way to get the measurable result?" (external logic: efficacy, structure, metrics)

Ti — "Is this true? Does it hold together by my own standard of precision?" (internal logic: consistency, accuracy, definitions)

Feeling

Fe — "Where's the group at? What does this situation call for, and is everyone okay?" (external value: harmony, appropriateness, attunement to others)

Fi — "Is this right? Does it align with what genuinely matters to me?" (internal value: authenticity, congruence, conscience)

Intuition

Ne — "What could this become? What else might it connect to?" (divergent: possibilities, tangents, reframings)

Ni — "What does this actually mean? Where is it all heading?" (convergent: underlying pattern, trajectory, the single insight behind the noise)

Sensing

Se — "What's here right now, and what can I do with it?" (immediate present, raw data, action)

Si — "How does this compare to what I already know? Is it consistent with before?" (stored experience, familiarity, reliability)

 

INFJ has 4 states 

Sleep = Ni + Ti

Blast = Ni + Fe

Play = Fe + Se

Consume = Ti + Se

Edited 4 hours ago by integral

[Miguel1]

16 minutes ago, bazera said:

It's important to distinguish fear vs introversion, many introverts are just inexperienced and lack social skills and justify those fears with the idea of introversion.

Yep, it works with extroversion too. Are you actually an extrovert, or are you just scared of being alone, and with yourself?

[Miguel1]

@integral I’m definitely ENFJ based on this.

Ti, Fe, Ni, Se

My natural main function in any given social situation is to make sure everyone is good and the group has harmony.

[bazera]

1 minute ago, Miguel1 said:

Are you actually an extrovert, or are you just scared of being alone, and with yourself?

Yup, and that question can only be answered in solitude and reflection, not with other people. People can't tell you an answer to that question, maybe they can give directions, but responsibility it on self.

That's why it's important for introverts, extroverts and ambiverts to spend time in solitude and reflection, and ask questions like that.

But I think that reflective tendencies also come as some personality type or something (not depended on extroversion/introversion), as a separate variable, because I have some friends who don't give a shit about anything remotely similar to asking those kinds of questions, doesn't matter introvert or extrovert. And they sometimes try to ridicule me when I ask them to reflect on their life. 

[Miguel1]

16 minutes ago, bazera said:

But I think that reflective tendencies also come as some personality type or something (not depended on extroversion/introversion), as a separate variable, because I have some friends who don't give a shit about anything remotely similar to asking those kinds of questions, doesn't matter introvert or extrovert. And they sometimes try to ridicule me when I ask them to reflect on their life. 

Genes play the biggest part. Most people do not have a single care about the work that we do here, yet many of us here, view this work as more important than anything else in life, by far.

Why do some people care so much about pure understanding and truth, but most people do not?

As for whether I have reflected in solitude on my extroversion or not, I have done multiple solitude retreats in my life. I’ve done a couple 3 month retreats.

It is very clear to me that I am way more in my natural element being around people. Solitude is very beautiful too, and I want to practice it more. Just not right now.

Edited 3 hours ago by Miguel1

[integral]

 

[bazera]

@integral Yeah that makes more sense than just binary intro vs extro.

But I think most people have incline toward focusing more on internal vs external worlds, but that might be caused with all sorts of variables that those types might not account for.

It's a tricky topic, surely it's possible to limit oneself with identifiying with one or the other your whole life, but for me, introversion descriptions resonate more with my personality and lifestyle than extroversion at the moment. 

[Miguel1]

4 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

For example, if I go to the city / streets / parks to dance, to exprees, and to heal and to inspire others to heal — and as an audience gathers around me, I could give me some talks to about authenticity, empathy, and healing etc.

I think this wouod be really beautiful and would be a way more aligned lifestyle to my heart, than how I am currently living.

This way I am also way more likely to find my tribe of people too, instead of going clubbing.

This place will be my first step to my new journey to being more aligned and in touch with who I really am, and my highest values.

I feel quite ready to lose almost everything, just so I can be more genuine and authentic. And to possibly find people that I really align with.

I am so sick of living in inauthentic life. It goes directly against my highest values. And it is not sustainable, so what even is the point?

Of course I am aware that as a wage slave, I can’t completely be free to do just whatever.

Edited 2 hours ago by Miguel1

[Elliott]

2 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

This place will be my first step to my new journey to being more aligned and in touch with who I really am, and my highest values.

I feel quite ready to lose almost everything, just so I can be more genuine and authentic. And to possibly find people that I really align with.

That's even exciting to me just hearing about you planning on doing this, i think that would be awesome.

[Miguel1]

1 minute ago, Elliott said:

That's even exciting to me just hearing about you planning on doing this, i think that would be awesome.

Thank you!

I want to do and inspire something completely new in the world.

I know dance therapy has existed since the beginning of time. But I want to somehow take it up to a level / place, it has never been in before.

Here in Finland especially, it’s not a known phenomenon at all. Also, we are a very shy and reserved people. Dancing and being authentic in public like this is not something done before.

I would like to bring something transformative here, and to the world.

I have danced for 20 years. I have a completely dance unique style to myself. I have a deep history of 20 years in self-development, spirituality, healing and inner work.

I have also exhausted socializing and pickup to the point I have mastered them, and want to let them go. I do want to transfer the skills I learned from it to my next journey tho: Courage, Confidence, Bravery, Not caring about what others think, Strenght, Leadership.

It’s time for something completely new. 

[Jirh]

@Miguel1 Good luck brother 🙏🏻

[Miguel1]

9 minutes ago, Jirh said:

@Miguel1 Good luck brother 🙏🏻

Thank you brother.

It’s a beautiful experience to practice True Authenticity and Alignment.

Here are couple songs for you. I will record some dance for you guys sometimes.

Grief the past and let go:

https://on.soundcloud.com/55BY3z7Wjy2wSWEer5
 

Welcoming the new:

https://on.soundcloud.com/tbpPTPO96cfLIsao17

• What a beautiful build up to a majestic drop.

- - - - -

Honestly I’ve wanted to live this life for so long. It brings tears to my eyes.

Faking myself to the world not only fucks me inside, but also doesn’t bear the fruit I want, which is to find beautiful souls.

So might as well live Authentically, at least. Even if it doesn’t attract beautiful people.

[Jirh]

@Miguel1 Hey man, nice music you shared. I believe dancing is therapeutic for oneself and can inspire healing in others too. I'm excited to see your dance and to see you spread your message across the world. Such a beautiful vision!

And lol at your last statement. You already have enough evidence of the opposite. You are deep and beautiful. Why would you assume beauty and depth cannot coexist?

There's someone out there for you. And there's a place for you both in this world.

Live your life the way it's supposed to be lived. Those that matter don't mind, and those that mind don't matter.

✨💗

Edited 34 minutes ago by Jirh

[Miguel1]

8 minutes ago, Jirh said:

@Miguel1 Hey man, nice music you shared. I believe dancing is therapeutic for oneself and can inspire healing in others too. I'm excited to see your dance and to see you spread your message across the world. Such a beautiful vision!

And lol at your last statement. You already have enough evidence of the opposite. You are deep and beautiful. Why would you assume beauty and depth cannot coexist?

There's someone out there for you. And there's a place for you both in this world.

Live your life the way it's supposed to be lived. Those that matter don't mind, and those that mind don't matter.

✨💗

Thank you!

The last part was quite pessimistic, I admit it. Sorry. And thank you for calling it out.

It’s just after approaching 50k+ people and not seeing much depth and many beautiful souls at all, it’s hard to believe I will bump into them.

But you are right! Trying to find conscious souls in unconscious clubs and nightlife is bound to fail.

It’s time to be live more aligned, so I can also let aligned people in, when I eventually bump into them.

[Miguel1]

I want to build a more ”practical” version of spirituality. It’s hard to actualize yourself when you are so stuck in your mind, and your body is full of repressed emotions.

Nothing comes close to being more meaningful to me than to help humanity become more loving, empathetic, whole, holistic, mature, harmonious, and beautiful.

I can’t believe I have repressed this part of me for so long.

If someone has the link to Leo’s blogpost about maturity and consciousness leading to beauty and beautiful behaviour, while ego and unconsciousness leads to uglyness and ugly behaviour, please share!

It was posted 1-3 months ago.

I can’t find it by quickly googling.

Edited 7 minutes ago by Miguel1