Should I Leave a Loving Relationship for Growth and Intellectual Compatibility?

[Jordan of the Shire]

@LordFall

My priority shifted from a committed relationship to addressing my distorted views about the world, the deficiencies and excesses in my philosophy, and to dealing with what gets in the way of presence and kindness. I walked away from relationships for awhile while i sorted some things out within myself. 

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Jordan of the Shire said:

@LordFall

My priority shifted from a committed relationship to addressing my distorted views about the world, the deficiencies and excesses in my philosophy, and to dealing with what gets in the way of presence and kindness. I walked away from relationships for awhile while i sorted some things out within myself. 

Makes sense. Have you tried dating since then? I'd be curious how your new re-centering affected that process 

[Elliott]

3 hours ago, Asayake said:

It seems you haven't read any of my comments then, I've been having a long discussion with LordFall and I've been engaging with most of his points. On the contrary, many of the things I've said have just been straight up ignored. You're not exactly making yourself look better by continuing to behave in the way you are "it was better than yours" sounds like a child.

Again, you're just wasting peoples time on here preaching like you're at a pulpit

[Asayake]

4 hours ago, Elliott said:

Again, you're just wasting peoples time on here preaching like you're at a pulpit

Well I guess if Im preaching that would make you my disciple.

[Jirh]

Well, then.

Good luck.

Hope you don't get stuck in the eternal chasing loop.