Loving love too much is bad

[AION]

Loving love too much makes you brittle, weak, unhealthy, and lazy.

Just imagine a kid who gets constant love and all the stuff he wants. He gets spoiled as fuck. 

DMT is basically spoiling yourself. Fuckijg up your nervous system through bypassing. 

Back in the day you had to become a knight to get a cute girl and fell in love with and experience the meaning of life. Nowadays you can just plug it in. 

Love is not the end all be all of things. It is just a feeling.  Be careful to not turn into a cuck. Exposing yourself to hardships and challenging yourself doesn’t feel like love but it is more healthy and equally needed. Balance love with discipline. Otherwise one day you will wake up brittle and weak. 

[gettoefl]

Love is life's third chapter - the first two being peace and joy. Peace is nothing can disturb me. Joy is the full-on unabashed exhilarating euphoric excitement of leaving the house in the morning having been gifted one further peace-filled day on this planet. Love is to wordlessly impart this understanding to all you rub shoulders with.

 

 

Edited 18 hours ago by gettoefl

[Breakingthewall]

11 hours ago, AION said:

Just imagine a kid who gets constant love and all the stuff he wants. He gets spoiled as fuck

11 hours ago, AION said:

 

If a kid is loved then they will teach him how to live and how to face frustration, unless their parents are retarded and they think that he can be a kid for ever. Love doesn't mean be soft but want the best for the other. 

11 hours ago, AION said:

Exposing yourself to hardships and challenging yourself doesn’t feel like love but it is more healthy and equally needed. Balance love with discipline.

Well said. In fact discipline is love. 

[Thought Art]

Maybe we need to be strong to love. 

[iamlite]

Discipline, challenge, effort are also forms of Love

[Ziran]

Healthy love is partnered with respect.  Unhealthy love, lacking respect is obsession.

Healthy love for others includes love for oneself.   Unhealthy love for others, lacking love for oneself is fool-hardy and unsustainable.  That's why the knight in shining armor in the storybooks is always riding off into the sunset after saving the town and the damsel from whatever it is that's threatening them.

[Yimpa]

 

[Joseph Maynor]

We're not always in the mood to love everyone.  But in hindsight, we can see how we played a part in that.

[Mellowmarsh]

There is only Love holding a space for everything to be exactly as it is, unconditionally.

[Joseph Maynor]

2 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

There is only Love holding a space for everything to be exactly as it is, unconditionally.

Until we don't, right?  

[Mellowmarsh]

1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Until we don't, right?  

The royal we is conditional, it’s fake love.

[Joseph Maynor]

15 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

The royal we is conditional, it’s fake love.

What is real love in your opinion?

[Mellowmarsh]

1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:

What is real love in your opinion?

Real Love seen through the lens of the Absolute.

For example: God would say no earthly man is man enough to take my woman, simply because there is no other Love but mine.

[Joseph Maynor]

4 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

Real Love seen through the lens of the Absolute.

For example: God would say no earthly man is man enough to take my woman, simply because there is no other Love but mine.

Love comes from others too, no?

[Davino]

Feminine love has to be balanced by masculine love.

Masculine love is like a slap on your face, a slap out of love. 

[Mellowmarsh]

2 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Love comes from others too, no?

If by others you are referring to people. Then no, no person can love another person, because a person is an object of desire.

“The object of love is not an object at all, and that you’ve mistaken a person for an object is what’s wrong with love’s distortions. To feel the wretched pain of a love after a love has long ended is not just to feel the pain at losing love but feel pain at the way love turns a person into a possession that can be lost.”

Mistaking a person or a goal for an object of love often leads to clinging, demands, or fear of loss. Detaching from this object-based need allows for purer, unconditional connection.

 

[Joseph Maynor]

12 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

If by others you are referring to people. Then no, no person can love another person, because a person is an object of desire.

“The object of love is not an object at all, and that you’ve mistaken a person for an object is what’s wrong with love’s distortions. To feel the wretched pain of a love after a love has long ended is not just to feel the pain at losing love but feel pain at the way love turns a person into a possession that can be lost.”

Mistaking a person or a goal for an object of love often leads to clinging, demands, or fear of loss. Detaching from this object-based need allows for purer, unconditional connection.

 

Okay.  You seem to have strong opinions on this.

[Mellowmarsh]

1 minute ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Okay.  

Yes, everything is okay, you’re welcome.

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, Mellowmarsh said:

Yes, everything is okay, you’re welcome.

Okay teacher lol.  

[Mellowmarsh]

2 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Okay teacher lol.  

Anytime brother.