Women are attracted to relativity

[Miguel1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

Your hot corporate girl is gonna be charmed and positively surprised that you already have all the answers to her existential questions because you've been studying spiral dynamics and non-duality and think that she's dating a super human and love you even more. 

Hahaha what in the world am I reading. You talk like it’s your first week on actualized.org.

[Valach]

27 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I totally disagree. Your non-hot girlfriend is gonna say you don't find me attractive? Be offended and be right that you're trying to change her.

Your hot corporate girl is gonna be charmed and positively surprised that you already have all the answers to her existential questions because you've been studying spiral dynamics and non-duality and think that she's dating a super human and love you even more. 

I don't even know how to respond to that man. Your hot corporate girl is gonna be deeply in stage orange.

Edited 3 hours ago by Valach

[Leo Gura]

Your hot corporate girlfriend is gonna cut your dick off while you sleep after you show her that her whole corporate life is a lie

[LordFall]

22 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Your hot corporate girlfriend is gonna cut your dick off while you sleep after you show her that her whole corporate life is a lie

Not if you have a way better plan for her

1 hour ago, Valach said:

I don't even know how to respond to that man. Your hot corporate girl is gonna be deeply in stage orange.

So what? People are not in one stage they are multifaceted beings. Because you're a stage yellow leader(hopefully) you'll have a greater purpose than whatever corporate job she's working. Because she's a corporate girl she's gonna have a skillset that she can use on your life purpose. Because you have an integrated stage orange you are successful at business and know how to bring a vision to life and monetize it. Once that's underway you can help her also work on her life purpose away from yours. You can then change the world together and live a great life instead of her wasting away in a 9-5 that doesn't accomplish much.

This only works if you're actually the man with his life setup properly. If you're coping on having integrated stage orange and being in stage yellow then you'd be lucky to attracted a hot corporate girl and if you do she's probably gonna have the the frame in the relationship and slowly lose attraction to you because you don't bring much to the table.

 

 

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[Valach]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

So what? People are not in one stage they are multifaceted beings. Because you're a stage yellow leader(hopefully) you'll have a greater purpose than whatever corporate job she's working. Because she's a corporate girl she's gonna have a skillset that she can use on your life purpose. Because you have an integrated stage orange you are successful at business and know how to bring a vision to life and monetize it. Once that's underway you can help her also work on her life purpose away from yours. You can then change the world together and live a great life instead of her wasting away in a 9-5 that doesn't accomplish much.

This only works if you're actually the man with his life setup properly. If you're coping on having integrated stage orange and being in stage yellow then you'd be lucky to attracted a hot corporate girl and if you do she's probably gonna have the the frame in the relationship and slowly lose attraction to you because you don't bring much to the table.

 

 

Stage yellow person would not be interested in dating someone stage orange person. That's the thing you are not getting the whole time we lead these discussions.

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[LordFall]

Why not? A stage yellow person does not judge people for where they are at, they understand how human beings develop and the different mental blocks and limitations that each stage has and how to help those people transcend them and thus raise their consciousness. Perhaps that's going into Turquoise which identifies with each human. 

 

[Valach]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Why not? A stage yellow person does not judge people for where they are at, they understand how human beings develop and the different mental blocks and limitations that each stage has and how to help those people transcend them and thus raise their consciousness. Perhaps that's going into Turquoise which identifies with each human. 

 

Not judging does not mean you want to surround yourself by these people. I am not judging a heroin addict on the street for I understand that it was not his choice really to end up in that situation. Yet I do not choose to make him my friend or spend time around him.

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

Hahaha what in the world am I reading. You talk like it’s your first week on actualized.org.

In what way do you disagree with what I'm saying?

5 minutes ago, Valach said:

Not judging does not mean you want to surround yourself by these people. I am not judging a heroin addict on the street for I understand that it was not his choice really to end up in that situation. Yet I do not choose to make him my friend or spend time around him.

Do you talk to corporate women often? That's vast umbrella but for example but I've met a few that are product managers and have worked at fortune 500 companies. They are very smart and interesting women who are fascinating to talk with. They understand how to handle the pressures of life and manage teams of people to bring projects/products and turn ideas and concepts into real things that affect the lives of a lot of people. If you find a hot one that's into you that would make a great girlfriend.

Be careful judging someone that's perhaps ahead of you in life in a key area. Comparing them to a heroin addict is a wild statement. 

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[Valach]

4 minutes ago, LordFall said:

In what way do you disagree with what I'm saying?

Do you talk to corporate women often? That's vast umbrella but for example but I've met a few that are product managers and have worked at fortune 500 companies. They are very smart and interesting women who are fascinating to talk with. They understand how to handle the pressures of life and manage teams of people to bring projects/products and turn ideas and concepts into real things that affect the lives of a lot of people. If you find a hot one that's into you that would make a great girlfriend.

Be careful judging someone that's perhaps ahead of you in life in a key area. Comparing them to a heroin addict is a wild statement. 

Sure, i work in a corporate so meet them reasonably often. Do not conflate however intelligence or competence with consciousness. Those are not related. You can be succesfull, competent and inteligent and yet deeply unconscious. Actually, being unconscious will help getting you "traditional" success more than being conscious.

[LordFall]

I never said the corporate women are super conscious, I said they have a high level skillset that can be used towards your cause and life purpose. I don't know if I agree I think a lot of "high consciousness" is spiritual bypassing since your consciousness exists only in your head and not in the real world. If someone was truly a master at stage yellow they could actualize their ideas from understanding which parts of society is gonna give them friction and they would have the skillset from stage orange to produce real tangible value that other people value. 

[Valach]

2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I never said the corporate women are super conscious, I said they have a high level skillset that can be used towards your cause and life purpose. I don't know if I agree I think a lot of "high consciousness" is spiritual bypassing since your consciousness exists only in your head and not in the real world. If someone was truly a master at stage yellow they could actualize their ideas from understanding which parts of society is gonna give them friction and they would have the skillset from stage orange to produce real tangible value that other people value. 

That value might not be monetary though. And you were comparing stages regarding your dating a corporate woman example.

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Valach said:

That value might not be monetary though. And you were comparing stages regarding your dating a corporate woman example.

Yes I said a corporate hottie would make a great partner. Value basically always has to be monetary, it's a universal medium of exchange. If other people don't value what you think or what you have to offer them then it's not valuable by definition. Usually stage green people bypass this entirely like for example the girl that said she hates marketing. Marketing is connecting with the hearts and minds of others and getting them to see the value behind your ideas/products/services and giving you their hard earned money for it.

Of course unintegrated stage oranges despise money, business and marketing, it's the only mechanisms that proves that your ideas are valuable. It's like the boss battle of the dungeon to pass the level. 

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[Valach]

2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Yes I said a corporate hottie would make a great partner. Value basically always has to be monetary, it's a universal medium of exchange. If other people don't value what you think or what you have to offer them then it's not valuable by definition. Usually stage green people bypass this entirely like for example the girl that said she hates marketing. Marketing is connecting with the hearts and minds of others and getting them to see the value behind your ideas/products/services and giving you their hard earned money for it.

Of course unintegrated stage oranges despise money, business and marketing, it's the only mechanisms that proves that your ideas are valuable. It's like the boss battle of the dungeon to pass the level. 

I do not despise money. Stop putting words in my mouth. I never said that. But there are other ways to be valuable to people besides providing monetary value - and people above orange would simply not be motivated by "getting money". Yes they will to some extent utilize money but it will not be the driving force for them.

[LordFall]

I didn't say you said that I said in general that's what people with a stage orange shadow say.

I mean kind of but being financially independent can completely free someone from wage slavery and empower them to work on their own passions without the anxiety of the market. As a man there aren't many better gifts you can give a woman. A lot of women today would love to be stay at home moms but it's impossible for 90% of men because they just don't make enough money. Let alone on the fun sides of it like travelling the world, having a beautiful property in a nice place like on a body of water, being able to educate your children well, etc.

Much easier to say money doesn't matter! Than to figure out how to free yourself from the confines of it. 

[Valach]

Maybe, but that is completely besides the original discussion of bringing up a corporate hot girl up in stages. 

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Valach said:

Maybe, but that is completely besides the original discussion of bringing up a corporate hot girl up in stages. 

Right and then I explained how you would do that and then you pushed back and here we are. Idk bro I like having these discussions I think it helps us a lot to figure out what makes sense and what is a nice sounding theory that doesn't hold up to reality.

Transcending stages is hard I've been Yellow intellectually for years and have slowly but surely been bringing my own systems to life. It's starting to work, it's exciting. I believe that in 3-5 years my business will be at the point where I can operate globally and help people en masse also achieve their goals and free themselves from wage slavery. 

It goes back full circle to your passion. A lot of the people I work with are hot models. Funny enough they struggle with being stuck at stage orange too. If I can transcend it I can help them transcend it as well. It's beautiful how reality is interconnected. If I didn't love women as much as I do this life purpose would not appeal to me much. 

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[Valach]

Just now, LordFall said:

Right and then I explained how you would do that and then you pushed back and here we are. Idk bro I like having these discussions I think it helps us a lot to figure out what makes sense and what is a nice sounding theory that doesn't hold up to reality.

Transcending stages is hard I've been Yellow intellectually for years and have slowly but surely been bringing my own systems to life. It's starting to work, it's exciting. I believe that in 3-5 years my business will be at the point where I can operate globally and help people en masse also achieve their goals and free themselves from wage slavery. 

It goes back full circle to your passion. A lot of the people I work with are hot models. Funny enough they struggle with being stuck at stage orange too. If I can transcend it I can help them transcend it as well. It's beautiful how reality is interconnected. If I didn't love women as much as I do this life purpose would not appeal to me much. 

I am sorry to break it to you but you are nowhere near stage yellow. And neither am I.

[LordFall]

28 minutes ago, Valach said:

I am sorry to break it to you but you are nowhere near stage yellow. And neither am I.

I'm sorry to break it to you my friend your perspective seems to be so limited that I don't honestly and genuinely think you understand the stages of the spiral enough conceptually to comment on them with any kind of credibility. Not even to describe the stages let alone to assess other people. 

You should read the book it's pretty good. I read it half a decade ago. 

 

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[Yimpa]

8 hours ago, LordFall said:

You're not into black queens? Bro... I didn't expect this from you 

7 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

More for me 😏

*Mow

 

 

[LordFall]

8 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

*Mow

 

 

 This is a low elo queen 

This is a true queen