Girl Power is a lie

[Natasha Tori Maru]

4 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@Natasha Tori Maru You are comparing something a fraction of men do with something all woman do.

No, not all women make decisions based only on emotions or preserving harmony.

This is just bias.

[Hojo]

@Natasha Tori Maru Never met one in my entire life that hasnt. Its brainwashed into them as well. 

Only difference I see is they encourage it while men say no thats not for me.

Men actually like to shit talk eachother because we like to destroy our egos. 

Woman have come into the space where men shit talk eachother (video games) and put censors on everything. 

It gets bad for men when you say we have feelings no we actually dont like them. We dont like to pretend there is someone inside, that can get its feelings hurt because we do not know how to navigate that space.

This is the reason men are having mental health issues now. Because we were raised by woman with no father figures and trained to be a womanly figure over manly.

Having feelings for a men is like the dark world.

 

Woman go through menstral cycle and are forced into emotional states by nature. A man will go 30 years without crying because we are only meant to cry when we feel the love of God. Which is having no emotions because there is no one there.

 

Literally spirituality is about man or woman nullifying emotions but love which comes up after all these bullshit emotions that are brainwashed into us are gone.

Theres no one theres feelings to protect.

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Hojo extrapolating a conclusion based on limited experience isn't really going to be accurate. 

I've met all types. And I work with 99% men. I have 3 brothers. 

Feel free to operate on a limited belief 

[Hojo]

@Natasha Tori Maru Just repeat what you said to me and reverse it on yourself

extrapolating a conclusion based on limited experience isn't really going to be accurate. 

I've met all types. And I work with 99% women. I have 3 sisters. 

Feel free to operate on a limited belief.

 

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[aurum]

1 hour ago, Hojo said:

Literally spirituality is about man or woman nullifying emotions but love which comes up after all these bullshit emotions that are brainwashed into us are gone.

This is not even close to what spirituality is about.

[Hojo]

@aurum Yes it is, you sit there till your brain unravels itself.

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[Sugarcoat]

2 hours ago, Hojo said:

In order for a man to not lust just over appearances the woman has to be cooler than him. Thats like .01 percent of woman.

 

By this logic , wayyy less people would be in relationships 

She’s not “cooler than you” you just think that because it’s the combo of her being a woman + cool 

If you met a woman cooler than you I bet you’d just walk past her, you wouldn’t even be able to pick up on that energy 

2 hours ago, Hojo said:

Imo men have way more diverse personalities than woman. Alot of woman are the exact same.

Have you really talked to them tho

[Monster Energy]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

If we think men aren't subject to external social norms and social layering we have bias. Both sexes capitulate. Both sexes play the game of context. 

Women often appear more likely to preserve social harmony or protect feelings in communication. Men often appear more willing to tolerate interpersonal friction in pursuit of directness. But both tendencies exist in both sexes, and determining how much of the observed difference is biological versus social remains an open question.

And if I hear men claim they are less emotional that women one more time I will scream! (Not directed at OP 😃). Men are just as emotional and make just as many emotional decisions. Look at violent crime. Look at anger. Impulsive decisions etc. The claim only works when you have crazy arse categories for what emotions are, and aren't able to understand and feel them properly.

 

I think you’re arguing against a point I never made.

I’m not saying men are robots and women are emotional. Trust me, I’ve met enough men to know that’s not true.

My point was pretty simple. When it comes to attractiveness, women tend to play a more complicated game.

And come on, if envy wasn’t part of the equation, we wouldn’t even be having this discussion.

 

[Monster Energy]

2 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

And stop plugging responses into AI to try to moderate or bring nuance to points. 

It is obvious.

I’m cursed.

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

5 minutes ago, Monster Energy said:

I think you’re arguing against a point I never made.

Maybe you don't understand the points AI is making for you 🤔🤔

[Monster Energy]

 

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[Monster Energy]

13 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Maybe you don't understand the points AI is making for you 🤔🤔

Maybe you’re right, maybe I’m right.

 

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 minutes ago, Monster Energy said:

Maybe you’re right, maybe I’m right.

 

 

I think you argue just to reply sometimes. Even when there is no disagreement 🤣

S'like the 4/5th time I've seen it happen 

[Monster Energy]

8 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I think you argue just to reply sometimes. Even when there is no disagreement 🤣

S'like the 4/5th time I've seen it happen 

You’re not wrong.

You’re actually one of the few people here who pays attention to what’s being said instead of what people imagine was said. It’s almost suspicious. Sometimes I think you’re secretly working for the FBI.

You’re a great observer and you genuinely seem to care about understanding people before responding.

But don’t.

This place isn’t built on understanding. It’s built on momentum. Half the people are arguing with ghosts, the other half are performing for an audience that doesn’t exist.

It’s a circus. A beautiful, chaotic circus.

And the show has to keep going, otherwise the whole tent collapses.

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Monster Energy

[Hojo]

@Monster Energy Im pretty sure AI has payed more attention to your opinions than you have.

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[Monster Energy]

Just now, Hojo said:

@Monster Energy Im pretty sure AI has payed more attention to your opinions than you have.

Yes! I wish I were more like you.

 

[Hojo]

@Monster Energy You forgot the em dash. Or did they upgrade your programming?

Edited 57 minutes ago by Hojo

[Monster Energy]

3 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@Monster Energy You forgot the em dash. Or did they upgrade your programming?

Updated 

[LordFall]

I think you have to be careful with sweeping generalizations. Some women operate in scarcity and just give two handed compliments and live in competition. Some others are happy for their friends doing well and just want to support other women and perhaps humans in general. 

I don't think it's healthy to be jaded about human nature. It doesn't make you a loser to believe in the goodness in people. Quite the opposite as long as it's not blind naivety. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

36 minutes ago, Monster Energy said:

You’re not wrong.

You’re actually one of the few people here who pays attention to what’s being said instead of what people imagine was said. It’s almost suspicious. Sometimes I think you’re secretly working for the FBI.

You’re a great observer and you genuinely seem to care about understanding people before responding.

But don’t.

This place isn’t built on understanding. It’s built on momentum. Half the people are arguing with ghosts, the other half are performing for an audience that doesn’t exist.

It’s a circus. A beautiful, chaotic circus.

And the show has to keep going, otherwise the whole tent collapses.

 

ROFL thanks, I HATE IT 

Need a couple more em-dashes. A sprinkle more "it's this, not that" while we quietly smuggle in how we are noticing what others miss 

You got crazy weird jukes my man