You don't need a girlfriend, you need a psychiatrist

[Majed]

You don't need a girlfriend, you need a psychiatrist. That's what i should've told myself, every time i came here whining and bitching for years about being a virgin. It wasn't due to virginity or lack of sexual partners, it was due to my mental health which made me think that i need a girlfriend and sex. Now that my mental health is better i rarely think about losing my virginity, or getting a girlfriend, and i don't come here whining anymore. I am just genuinely happy and satisfied with life, and content with it, as it is, no need to change it. I focus on myself, doing the chores, going to work, school... and improving my life slowly but surely. Also realized that you cannot control everything in the future and life in general, so i just let go, and i'm enjoying my time in this life. 

Edited 3 hours ago by Majed

[No1Here2c]

Sounds like you are busy whining if you ask me.

Edited 3 hours ago by No1Here2c

[No1Here2c]

Become your own psychiatrist. ;}

[Hojo]

You only get satisfaction out if sex if you are in love with the person.

[Jirh]

Seeking intimacy and connection is a basic human need.

You're not getting away with this spiritual bypassing.