How long will it take to get good at game

[Ramanujan]

@Raze ok thanks

[Ramanujan]

14 hours ago, LordFall said:

What is your MBTI personality type?

INTJ, bro. i suck . INTJ has one of the lowest people skills

 

14 hours ago, LordFall said:

If you're a hard extrovert that likes to express emotion then cold approach is gonna work particularly well. 

cold appraoach ig is for sensors

 

 

14 hours ago, LordFall said:

You must socialize/go out at least 2-3 times a week to see quick results though but if you're consistent you should start to notice drastic improvements within 3-6 months. As in going on dates and sleeping with women regularly. Also depends on your baseline skill level of course. 

ok

[Ramanujan]

@Leo Gura ok thanks leo

[Rishabh R]

@Leo Gura I would disagree with you since one aspect of improving in this domain is putting something else in  more important position in your life and then women are secondary. Also acting on one's standards such as choosing the woman who treats you with decency as well as the woman whom you like as a person is of huge importance. 

[VioleGrace]

You said that ''you mastered" how to get friends, 

Do you practice ? If not ? HOW can you said that you mastered it ? 

Cause if you dont practice your social skill and your game going ou and socialising than YOU WILL NEVER EVER master it or have a good game

Go out 3 times / week and open  10 women minimum Or 3 women every day to get decent improvements (15 open by week minimum)

If you can debrief every day : 

What you did good ? 

What you should get better at next week

Never focus on sleeping with the woman but ALWAY go out WITH ONE SOCIAL SKILL you want to train 

Open more eye contact vibe be fun etc ... 

If you want to improve hella fast 

Go open 5 girls minimum every day  or go out in club bar 4 times/weeks and open every one to the club to socialise until the closing 

Edited Thursday at 11:36 PM by VioleGrace

[Ramanujan]

9 hours ago, VioleGrace said:

You said that ''you mastered" how to get friends, 

Do you practice ? If not ? HOW can you said that you mastered it ? 

Cause if you dont practice your social skill and your game going ou and socialising than YOU WILL NEVER EVER master it or have a good game

i used "making people like you" section from how to win friends and influence people on the people that i interact with for a decade. i have not used it on females. i have used it on males that i interact with

 

 

9 hours ago, VioleGrace said:

You said that ''you mastered" how to get friends, 

Do you practice ? If not ? HOW can you said that you mastered it ? 

Cause if you dont practice your social skill and your game going ou and socialising than YOU WILL NEVER EVER master it or have a good game

Go out 3 times / week and open  10 women minimum Or 3 women every day to get decent improvements (15 open by week minimum)

If you can debrief every day : 

What you did good ? 

What you should get better at next week

Never focus on sleeping with the woman but ALWAY go out WITH ONE SOCIAL SKILL you want to train 

Open more eye contact vibe be fun etc ... 

If you want to improve hella fast 

Go open 5 girls minimum every day  or go out in club bar 4 times/weeks and open every one to the club to socialise until the closing 

ok thanks

[TruthFreedom]

On 12/05/2026 at 3:21 PM, Someone here said:

@Ramanujan Brother..you are not a retard at all . Unless there is something clinical you suffer from autism or perfectionist symptoms or abnormal self consciousness. I notice you have a thing for books. You are addicted to theory . I’m introverted too and I think most people who are active on this forum are also more likely introverted. However socializing with people is REALLY not that such a nightmare . Literally just dress nice and put on some perfume or something and go to a mall or Any place in your country where there is  mixed genders having fun in a secular chill flirty way and just strike up a conversation with a person . How to do that ? Just do it . Talking is an action step ..you do the action by doing the action . It’s like asking how to drink water . You can sit there theorizing about how to drink water until you die or you can just drink . Go to a social gathering or a party or a mall and find the most attractive girl there and literally just walk straight towards her and tell her that you like her dress …guess what will happen? She will smile. She is not gonna kill you. What if any person (male or female or anything in between ) told you randomly that they find you attractive? Isn’t that gonna Make you smile? . The rest is case by case . The point isn’t to make her your girlfriend..the point is you talked to her. Even if eventually she rejected you . It’s not the end of the world . You don’t expect to get that much lucky anyways. you have set proper expectations..low ones. But you talked to her. That means you improved . Baby steps and you will gain much more experience in short time and eventually you will have a girlfriend. It is not impossible. It’s your right as a man to have a girlfriend just as it’s women’s right to have husbands or Boyfriends. There is nothing wrong or weird or cringe or anything about that. Do not say I’m a retard again .

This is a fantastic post! 🙂👍

[Rigel]

I think the whole socializing thing becomes way easier with simpler rules. There’s nothing to learn really other than to have fun around & independent of people. Be happy and they will do game on you without you asking😅

[Lucasxp64]

I think my major personal issue around game is lack of consistency. The few times I had some success (with someone that lived close enough to actually met) was because I somehow did do great and had even the balls to approach.

My bottleneck to getting better is my life in general and my inner emotional system, I still don't feel that comfortable outside in the real world. Like, I can appear confident and funny to women at times if they are also giving me good vibes, but that silence of the environment before the approach I still don't feel very confident with handling.

In person everything in real-time. Online there is a lot of asynchronicity, time to think, and you are comfortable in your zone.

Online in chat rooms with women I tend to have an edge, and that was detrimental to me due to becoming a distraction. Getting success online with women that lives all over the country for me has become trivial due to the greater volume gives better quality of woman quicker, and that gives me a dopamine boost.

At least allowed me to maximize my verbal skills and psychological understanding of them. But the personal lack of comfort I feel when approaching outside and the lack of logistics due to being completely broke right now, puts me in a very dangerous situation that I might go back to that as a cope.

I also know, that I might have some success with someone that might be a walk away from me, and get used to it, and not want to find someone that would make me more fulfilled, due to fear of going back into the zone.

So at all stages it can stagnate. Like some guys were amazing at game, gets married with some awful woman even if she looks like a 10/10, she lobotimizes him and destroys with him, and he becomes zombie-like after that. That's an example I heard.

Maybe in person if I had greater consistency and had at least some money to go out it might translate those skills and the quality of women through volume.

Getting my own place to have intimacy will be by far the most important aspect of my game. The logistical lack in my life really cripples me. It's very hollistic. 

I think I got stuck in this negative feedback cycle, where I used to get success online with woman that lives far away, then I'd waste a lot of time just chatting/sexting/being emotionally involved with them, and end up getting distracted in my personal life, which lead to further degradation of my ability to pursue my financial goals, that will ultimately unlock my logistics at the same time I'm pursuing my financial goals on my terms.

The major issue is managing the energies inside of you and your external resources. So much of it feels just getting emotionally open within the environment you're meeting her. I think Leo Gura needs to make videos on this, how to open up emotionally. That goes for everything. Women teachers tend to focus a lot on that.

Edited 23 hours ago by Lucasxp64