Should you share your emotions with a women?

[integral]

3 hours ago, theleelajoker said:

@integral

Mixed feelings when I read your last post.

One the one hand, it feels to me you have gained true perspective on some stuff. 

On the other hand, it seems that because of the experiences you mention with people in the past, you're filtering reality too much through a negative lense re people and relationships.

You are right, relationships are not easy, there's a lot of boundary setting non-stop, etc etc. Just the way you say it, feels a bit too negative, too biased to me, you know?

LOL your right that i didnt get the best harvest out of random chance.
 

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There's also the fun side. Getting to know each other, the shifting of boundaries, the freedom of release of inner limits, oxitocyn and all the other nice stuff you can from any kind of relationship. 

Da FUn Side, yes all depends on how stable and mature she is, the BPD side of the spectrum is she is randomly triggered and "in a mood" with no warning. The day is a rollercoaster and nothing you can do about it, they are mentally/biologically ill.

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You see leeches, I see fear. And I see fun in overcoming these fears

Well report back in 10 years, lets give that lived experience a chance  

Edited 2 hours ago by integral

[Ramasta9]

The many women i met often are afraid of my emotional depth and intensity so when i open up too much they run away.

So yes its a very beautiful and attractive trait for women, but at the same time knowing when and how much and timing is crucial.

Its an intuitive practice, to read each and everyone, how much is right, how much is too much, time and space is everything, because we have to observe how they respond and what its time to step back and not frighten them away. When i was younger i didn't have this signal as much, i just offloaded everything because i expected them to be on the same wavelength. Very rare I come across anyone who is.

I am usually full on and jump into deep psychedelic portals with people who i can connect with on a deeper level but often i end up expecting they are vibing and can handle the deeper stuff and sometimes prematurely open up too much which ends up scaring them away.

I think this is why i've always vibed with older women best, they seem more grounded and emotionally / spiritually mature to handle it.

 

[Leo Gura]

20 minutes ago, Ramasta9 said:

when i open up too much they run away.

Maybe they run away for other reasons?