Storytelling or Riffing?

[Butters]

How do you keep your conversations with girls going and interesting? I think there's two styles:

Riffing = improvising with the environment, Riffing, clowning. 

Storytelling = turning boring "and then I went to that place" into something with a more interesting narrative. 

I personally just jerk off to pictures of ladyboys online so this question is for the real players. 

[something_else]

There’s also asking questions. A lot of guys have this idea that we need to jump straight to riffing or storytelling, talking all the time, being alpha etc. but you need the basics of conversation locked in first, and asking good and interesting questions is a big part of that.

I’ve met a lot of girls who said their worst dates were with guys who were just talking about themselves the whole time and never giving her a chance to say anything. 

Edited 9 hours ago by something_else

[Hojo]

The way I do it is keep asking questions and let them talk.

Pay attention to what they are saying and keep relating things back to things they have said to make it sound like you were interested.

Say alot of 'wow', and 'thats interesting'

Edited 8 hours ago by Hojo

[LastThursday]

Depends on the situation. But whatever the situation you're just exchanging information through chit-chat and getting those small dopamine hits. If you're looking to pull, then both parties need to exchange just enough information to say "yes" or "no", and then escalate the situation quickly, if it's all systems go. A lot of that exchange is non-verbal, so self-confidence, energy, interest, laughter, touch, smell and a million other non-verbal things come into the mix, some of which you can control and improve on, some of which you have no control over.