Leo on sexual satisfaction

[CARDOZZO]

38 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

My post is even more relevant for high libido.

High libido people are scarce here, they are an exception  but I get your point.

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

High libido people are scarce here, they are an exception

That's mighty presumptuous.

Again, having lots of sex is not a cure for this issue. You will still be sexually frustrated.

[LordFall]

24 minutes ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

But the porn industry is very corrupt. How do you go about it? Does ethical porn really exist?

Plenty of regular couples film themselves having sex without the porn industry involved or just people sharing themselves masturbating. 

[Leo Gura]

Plenty of people enter the porn industry because it suits them and pays well. That is their choice. They want the easy money and they get it.

Edited 4 hours ago by Leo Gura

[cistanche_enjoyer]

6 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

High libido people are scarce here

I’m not sure. The body is literally a biological machine designed to reproduce. It takes really serious health issues for the body to shut down libido.

Think about it, for the body to decide it doesn’t want to reproduce anymore, something has to be seriously wrong with one’s health. It’s not so common imo.

[cistanche_enjoyer]

7 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Plenty of regular couples film themselves having sex without the porn industry involved or just people sharing themselves masturbating

Ah, the “amateur” category 

[CARDOZZO]

36 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

That's mighty presumptuous.

Again, having lots of sex is not a cure for this issue. You will still be sexually frustrated.

 

31 minutes ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

I’m not sure. The body is literally a biological machine designed to reproduce. It takes really serious health issues for the body to shut down libido.

Think about it, for the body to decide it doesn’t want to reproduce anymore, something has to be seriously wrong with one’s health. It’s not so common imo.

 

I get this impression that people are low libido because when a man talks about doing lots of sex or pickup, people just freak out here.

They do not know how to compute that a man with high libido wants to do sex. They try to make it shallow, predatory, strange, cringe. 

If you observe threads created on this topic, you will see the majority of people hating on "high sexual behavior".  

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

you will see the majority of people hating on "high sexual behavior".  

Yeah, cause it's a forum about development and spirituality.

Running around having sex is not serious behavior. It is the same problem as gluttony.

Lust is a sin for good reason.

Edited 4 hours ago by Leo Gura

[CARDOZZO]

31 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Yeah, cause it's a forum about development and spirituality.

Running around having sex is not serious behavior. It is the same problem as gluttony.

So, why do we have a dating section? 

Just delete it.

 

[LordFall]

I disagree with the notion. Most guys guys Leo included haven't pushed pickup far enough to even talk about exhausting the sexual satisfaction from women. I've done game for 10+ years and met hundreds of guys in the community, less than 10% ever sleep with an 8 out of 10 and I've met like 3-4 that have had a threesome with 2 women that they would themselves rate 8/10. T

If you wanna say that you don't prioritize sexual abundance and satisfaction in your life that's one thing but throwing out the baby with the bathwater is not honest imo. 

[Leo Gura]

2 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

So, why do we have a dating section? 

Just delete it.

The same reason we have grocery stores.

[CARDOZZO]

@Leo Gura

All of a sudden we have a demonization of sex.

You got results from pickup beyond your wildest dreams and now that you've stopped - it is just gluttony. 

Ok, Leo. 

Edited 3 hours ago by CARDOZZO

[Leo Gura]

2 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

@Leo Gura

All of a sudden we have a demonization of sex.

You got results from pickup beyond your wildest dreams and now that you've stopped - it is just gluttony. 

Ok, Leo. 

Dude, you took all the nuance of my post and turned it to crap.

Contemplate why gluttony is wrong.

Edited 3 hours ago by Leo Gura

[CARDOZZO]

31 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Dude, you took all the nuance of my post and turned it to crap.

Fair enough.

[Kid A]

2 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

@Leo Gura

All of a sudden we have a demonization of sex.

You got results from pickup beyond your wildest dreams and now that you've stopped - it is just gluttony. 

Ok, Leo. 

There’s something between being a PUA and being a monk, you know.

[CARDOZZO]

30 minutes ago, Kid A said:

There’s something between being a PUA and being a monk, you know.

Sure.

But if you keep denying your sexual energy for a spiritual mask, you know what can happen.

[Leo Gura]

@CARDOZZO The point is not that you will deny you sex. But women will.

Women will deny you sex. And the more you need it the worse you will feel.

I don't care how great you are at pickup, you are not so great that women will not deny you sex.

Edited 2 hours ago by Leo Gura

[bazera]

@Leo Gura

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Running around having sex is not serious behavior.

If the intention is burning through the desires, just to get more focused on more serious things later in life?

Like a strategic move.

[Leo Gura]

48 minutes ago, bazera said:

@Leo Gura

If the intention is burning through the desires, just to get more focused on more serious things later in life?

Like a strategic move.

Much of life is unserious behavior. Young people need to go through that to mature.

I am not telling you to not have sex.

Edited 2 hours ago by Leo Gura

[bazera]

@Leo Gura

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Much of life is unserious behavior.

What I mean is, at least for me personaly, I feel I need to go through phases of having relationships and sex, just to realize that, oh shit, those things don't solve my existential life issue. It's still there. But without going through that phase, I'm in a fantasy that relationships and sex will solve something deep in me. Which it hasn't yet.

I sense that seeing that over and over again is what grows me slowly. And once I get rid of fantasies like that, then my mind focuses more on things along the lines of: okay, these didn't work, what can I do now. 

But also, what I realized is that I must not look at relationships or money as some ultimate solutions to existential issues, it's clear they are not that, but they have their roles and there are some needs to be met. 

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Young people need to go through that to mature.

Yea exactly. But it helps when you have some ideas of what's beyond all this survival stuff, at least in theory and possibility. It helps to not get drown into mindless survival activities for decades like an animal. Your content really helps with that.