Leo, why did you say that?

[jacknine119]

In dating video Leo said: "Cum inside her. Woman fall in love with you" Okay Leo I will cum and child will be yours!

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Nah I'd just yolo it bro. Everyone is chicken fucken scared about the possibility, I'd just let the catapult loose so to speak, just to say fuck u to this chicken scared society (easy for me to not give a shit tbh but that's a different story lol)

[Leo Gura]

15 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

In dating video Leo said: "Cum inside her. Woman fall in love with you" Okay Leo I will cum and child will be yours!

Lol.

Obviously only if she is on birth control and/or you are okay with kids.

I was speaking from the POV of what makes women fall in love with you. From that POV it is true. There are serious consequences to making a woman fall in love with you. If you can't handle that, don't make them fall in love with you. Love is serious business, not a cheap toy.

Edited yesterday at 08:52 AM by Leo Gura

[blankisomeone]

7 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

Okay Leo I will cum and child will be yours!

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[Zenterus]

@Leo Gura is actually right on this and if you think about it biologically it makes sense.

Sex is evolutionarily meant for the purpose of procreation. So, from a biological perspective, when a woman decides that she wants to have sex with you, its the result of her primal brain deciding that you are a strong man and that she should have your baby.

In fact, you dont even need to cum inside her. Often times just TALKING about having babies during sex can get your woman super wet and excited at the idea and eventually get her super attached to you. 

Try it with caution though.

When I first learned about this, I went fucking crazy with it and used to do it to almost every girl - just talking about babies not actually cumming in her. Very often those women would develop very deep feelings for me and would result in us separating because now they were not happy with the fwb arrangement.

But, if you're in a relationship with a woman (or want to be in one with that particular woman) then go crazy with it.

 

Edited yesterday at 10:45 AM by Zenterus

[Howtolive]

18 minutes ago, Zenterus said:

@Leo Gura is actually right on this and if you think about it biologically it makes sense.

Sex is evolutionarily meant for the purpose of procreation. So, from a biological perspective, when a woman decides that she wants to have sex with you, its the result of her primal brain deciding that you are a strong man and that she should have your baby.

In fact, you dont even need to cum inside her. Often times just TALKING about having babies during sex can get your woman super wet and excited at the idea and eventually get her super attached to you. 

Try it with caution though.

When I first learned about this, I went fucking crazy with it and used to do it to almost every girl - just talking about babies not actually cumming in her. Very often those women would develop very deep feelings for me and would result in us separating because now they were not happy with the fwb arrangement.

But, if you're in a relationship with a woman (or want to be in one with that particular woman) then go crazy with it.

 

It's because you did not see having a relationship with those girls from the start I guess ? Friends with benefits is basically the friend zone for females

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, Zenterus said:

because now they were not happy with the fwb arrangement.

Jesus! Def don't do that for FWB arrangements.

If you talk about babies with her she will expect you to put a ring on it. Lol. That's only reasonable. You fucked up there. Set clear expectations from day one. Don't pull surprise plot twists on her. Don't over-promise stuff. Don't love-bomb and such. Play it chill.

FWB require very chill and sporadic.

Edited yesterday at 12:14 PM by Leo Gura

[Zenterus]

16 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Jesus! Def don't do that for FWB arrangements.

If you talk about babies with her she will expect you to put a ring on it. Lol. That's only reasonable. You fucked up there. Set clear expectations from day one. Don't pull surprise plot twists on her. Don't over-promise stuff. Don't love-bomb and such. Play it chill.

FWB require very chill and sporadic.

I hear you, but keep in mind that this is in the context of us having sex. I wasnt talking about having babies with these women in normal conversation, just when dirty talking.

Things like:

"You love how daddy fucks you, huh? I bet you're craving to feel daddy's warm cum dripping out of you, don't you baby."

"Yes daddy, I want it!"

"You want to have daddy's babies don't you. Say it!"

"I want your babies, daddy!! I do!!"

"What a good little slut you are."

Etc etc

Obviously I wouldn't be out having coffee with them and then talking about our future and children and all that. Context matters here.

[Leo Gura]

41 minutes ago, Zenterus said:

but keep in mind that this is in the context of us having sex.

Even so, it's too heavy.

She's not just gonna forget that as mere dirty talk.

You can't do that kind of crazy intimacy and then expect to just be friends.

FWB means less intimacy. That is the tradeoff. You are too greedy, you want the crazy intimacy but none of the commitment and responsibility that comes with it.

Edited yesterday at 01:09 PM by Leo Gura

[Zenterus]

13 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You are too greedy, you want the crazy intimacy but none of the commitment and responsibility that comes with it.

Shieeet, I wont deny this lol

[Hojo]

Dont cum in a woman your bodies will develop relations beyond the sex. For literally years. It wont make her fall in love you thats BS. It might make her think about you but that dosent mean she even likes you.

Edited yesterday at 07:13 PM by Hojo

[Miguel1]

I used to have ton of FWBs and casual relationships. Mostly to feed my ego. Come to think of it, I had a huge hippie free love phase.

Now the concept has become so foreign to me. Treating a person as just a sexual release use, wow.

If I don’t like the person enough to treat them with intimacy and care, then I’ll just find one that I like enough.

I wonder how much damage we cause the women by leading them into casual relationships.

[Valach]

 @Miguel1 I had this phase as well. Eventhough I was trying to always be transparent about things being only casual and not leading woman on I had this weird feeling. Woman were okay with it and often times were even seeking these casual encounters, but I could not shake down the feeling that deep down they do not truly desire this.

[krapka]

36 minutes ago, Valach said:

 @Miguel1 I had this phase as well. Eventhough I was trying to always be transparent about things being only casual and not leading woman on I had this weird feeling. Woman were okay with it and often times were even seeking these casual encounters, but I could not shake down the feeling that deep down they do not truly desire this.

It's actually so true, I talked to a guy for about a year and we texted virtually every day for hours

Although he clearly let me know he doesn't want to date me I did have some secret hope and then having sex with him as part of fwb caused me a LOT of suffering. 

Edited yesterday at 08:47 PM by krapka

[Valach]

Well. Yeah, that happens a lot too. But I meant, these girls were not really seeking relationships with me per say. They didn't know me enough for that as it was ONS usually. But I always felt like they do not really thrive on this lifestyle. And I found out that me neither.

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

I wonder how much damage we cause the women by leading them into casual relationships.

Of course men use women for sex and this hurts women.

But women seek out casual sex too. They just hide it to not appear slutty.

Women also hurt men.

Selfishness hurts others.

Edited 23 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Oppositionless]

23 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Lol.

Obviously only if she is on birth control and/or you are okay with kids.

I was speaking from the POV of what makes women fall in love with you. From that POV it is true. There are serious consequences to making a woman fall in love with you. If you can't handle that, don't make them fall in love with you. Love is serious business, not a cheap toy.

Love is God, of course it's going to destroy the ego. The one time I truly loved a woman I ran away and destroyed my life for two years .

[Miguel1]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

But women seek out casual sex too. They just hide it to not appear slutty.

Women also hurt men.

Selfishness hurts others.

You are correct. Women are also many times horny and need it satisfied, even tho they are not in a place to look for a deeper relationship.

That being said, I might be looking at this through the lenses of a being a bigger person myself. My intuition says that men have a bigger responsibility overall in leading our society, and especially in this context, as we use women for sex far more than the other way around.

Men are the leaders. We should be leading our females and humanity to a better place.

But this is all from an idealistic place. The reality is that most people are selfish and unconscious as fuck, and incapable of leading anyone anywhere good.

Edited 21 hours ago by Miguel1

[Natasha Tori Maru]

10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Even so, it's too heavy.

She's not just gonna forget that as mere dirty talk.

You can't do that kind of crazy intimacy and then expect to just be friends.

FWB means less intimacy. That is the tradeoff. You are too greedy, you want the crazy intimacy but none of the commitment and responsibility that comes with it.

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I feel like maybe we need some more bullseyes in here, to really drive this home

The making babies talk while fucking is a one way track to make her go totally hate-mode if anything turns sour with the realisation the fling was only about sex. Babies are a deal-beaker for heaps of women. And even if this weren't the case, talking about babies is implying there is more future there than is a potential reality (if this is a FWB example).

7 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Men are the leaders. We should be leading our females and humanity to a better place.

But this is all from an idealistic place. The reality is that most people are selfish and unconscious as fuck, and incapable of leading anyone anywhere good.

Yup. Social media needs to fucking die. It just feeds men 'you are broken' and women 'you don't need men'. None of this shit is true. It is just disempowering propaganda to weaken and brainwash the younger generations into believing they need something external to themselves. It perpetuates hyper independence. The major issue the younger generations have is a PROFOUND fear of emotional intimacy. 

Men who have a firm grounding and know how to cultivate intimacy have the wisdom to lead with a balance of kindness & ruthless action.

 

[Ramasta9]

The point is to unite and "rise" in love, not to manipulate and "fall" for one another. That's self-sacrifice and sooner or late arguments arise because you don't feel happy and free anymore. You are using one another rather than growing and expanding to a more evolved form of uniting. 

its all about helping each other walk on their own two feet again, because in reality, most people are still crawling like babies.