Why Second Hand Experience Is Making You Angry?

[CARDOZZO]

1 minute ago, Zen LaCroix said:

Some of these guys are so dillusional they seem to believe that most women are on onlyfans 

Sure. They do not interact with woman directly.

They spent all day on reddit/YT.

[Ramasta9]

Yes because there is no ground game online. Its all mental game, and yet when its time to walk the talk, all of a sudden you notice your disabled

 

 

[Hojo]

@CARDOZZOYou cant critically think yourself out of states you dont know you are in. You critically think yourself into states not out of them. People have opinions  and worldviews because they have critically thought about it. It would be advisable for them to do the opposite and stop critically thinking.

Edited yesterday at 08:05 AM by Hojo

[Kid A]

9 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

Yes but it never works.

And even if it works out, there's a good chance there'll be nothing more than a date, and even if by some miracle you have sex, is she good enough to be in a relationship? How long will it last?

 

You’ve got a point. You’d think she’s obviously attracted to you if she agrees to go on a date after you cold-approach her during the day, but in my experience that’s often not the case.

[Hezbollah]

5 hours ago, Ramasta9 said:

Yes because there is no ground game online. Its all mental game, and yet when its time to walk the talk, all of a sudden you notice your disabled

 

 

This is wildly accurate

[Schizophonia]

@Sugarcoat @CARDOZZO Value judgments are useless; people simply act according to their own structure, We are no different from a machine.

I have provided initial practical solutions at both an individual and collective level.

[CARDOZZO]

9 hours ago, Ramasta9 said:

Yes because there is no ground game online. Its all mental game, and yet when its time to walk the talk, all of a sudden you notice your disabled

 

 

Can you clarify it? 

[CARDOZZO]

7 hours ago, Hojo said:

@CARDOZZOYou cant critically think yourself out of states you dont know you are in. You critically think yourself into states not out of them. People have opinions  and worldviews because they have critically thought about it. It would be advisable for them to do the opposite and stop critically thinking.

These people that spend 12h/day on reddit/YT should be aware that they are chronically online. 

[CARDOZZO]

6 hours ago, Kid A said:

You’ve got a point. You’d think she’s obviously attracted to you if she agrees to go on a date after you cold-approach her during the day, but in my experience that’s often not the case.

You can't expect that a woman will fall in love on the first date. This is a movie plot. As I said, you have to put your feet on the streets, go out, talk to people or join a community to meet woman. 

[CARDOZZO]

But first, figure out what you really want to do with your life. I know plenty of guys who have sexual abundance but feel hollow inside. They do not know what they truly want out of life. The life purpose course should help with this issue.

[Hojo]

The only thing anyone wants out of life is to see GOD! Seeing God is the solution to everyones problems.

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[CARDOZZO]

31 minutes ago, Hojo said:

The only thing anyone wants out of life is to see GOD! Seeing God is the solution to everyones problems.

I don't know. There is truth to that. Reality (survival) is more practical than mystical states or direct experience of Truth. Survival problems will keep arising in your experience. 

[Hojo]

@CARDOZZOBut you will know you are okay when it happens. God will help you deal with your survival problems cause you know the creator of the entire universe is watching your life with you. And it dosent want to fuck you it wants you to be happy.

Edited 16 hours ago by Hojo

[CARDOZZO]

12 minutes ago, Hojo said:

@CARDOZZOBut you will know you are okay when it happens. God will help you deal with your survival problems cause you know the creator of the entire universe is watching your life with you. And it dosent want to fuck you it wants you to be happy.

Sure. If this approach is effective, you should follow it.

[Sugarcoat]

5 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

@Sugarcoat @CARDOZZO Value judgments are useless; people simply act according to their own structure, We are no different from a machine.

I have provided initial practical solutions at both an individual and collective level.

Yes in a way. But with strong enough value judgments it can help us change ourselves 

[CARDOZZO]

5 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

@Sugarcoat @CARDOZZO Value judgments are useless; people simply act according to their own structure, We are no different from a machine.

I have provided initial practical solutions at both an individual and collective level.

Do you really think that public institutions want to solve our deepest problems?

They want to produce slave machines.

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

Yes in a way. But with strong enough value judgments it can help us change ourselves 

Promised I'll come to whip and torment you so you become skinty faster.

Edited 14 hours ago by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

@Sugarcoat More seriously in any case it's pressure that pushes you to do something regardless of the form it takes including value judgments, but that doesn't change the fact that learned helplessness is the limiting factor.

Basically, progress = pressure/learned helplessness.

>1 = progress, <1 = no progress

 

(🤓)

Edited 14 hours ago by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, CARDOZZO said:

Do you really think that public institutions want to solve our deepest problems?

They want to produce slave machines.

I'm not saying that's the case, I'm saying it would be the ideal to have a government that allows people the conditions to socialize and even access mental health care.

In this context.

Edited 14 hours ago by Schizophonia

[CARDOZZO]

6 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I'm not saying that's the case, I'm saying it would be the ideal to have a government that allows people the conditions to socialize and even access mental health care.

In this context.

Ok, got it. 

If we do not have it, what can we do?

If I was struggling, what can I do today to go on a track to solve this issue?

Leo's 3 part series on how to get laid is a good material to start with.