The feminine life purpose

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12 hours ago, Judy2 said:

I don’t want to start a business, become an entrepreneur, be self-employed, or anything like that. I’m not a huge "gambler" in life. I don’t want my life to be a constant hustle. I value security and thrive in environments where external structure is provided and I am given clear instructions as to what I should do. For example, I was doing well when I was still in school, I loved doing homework and that kind of stuff. And as a young adult, the most challenging aspect has been knowing what i should even do with myself. 

I feel like in terms of the hero's journey and the way that it's mythologized in the larger than life analogies of where you're going on this adventure and you're fighting these demons, achieving mastery in a craft, and eventually getting to the holy grail is not inaccurate but limitted. As a result, we put the heros journey on this pedestal and correlate it with other super asipiration things like being self-employed, being an entrepreneur, or being world class in a skill and have that grant you with money, fame, and clout.

But I think that you can still be aligned with your life purpose, go on the heros journey, and it can be something as mundane as being middle school teacher. You have gone on a journey, usually through college and certifications to get here. You continue on the journey by engaging with the regular challenges of lesson plans, dealing with kids, parents etc. And over the years, you can really master being a good teacher in the way that you impact the lives of your students even if you just stayed a middle school teacher in the same school district the whole time.

The point is that you can still honor your need and desire to have an external structure while also fulfilling your more higher and intrinsic motivations. The Hero's journey doesn't have to be a gamble, it can just be a way to frame a mundane yet immensely fulfilling life.  And honestly, that's probably a much more sustainable way of going about it because I'm sure that you get fulfillment from other areas of life as well like through your family, friends, or other hobbies and you want to honor that as opposed to working 60-80 hour weeks on a business. Nothing wrong with the later but I think most people fall in the former category, regardless of gender.