Why can't I just be happy?

[Ishanga]

22 hours ago, Raphael said:

This was helpful, thank you.

[Joshe]

On 12/6/2025 at 7:22 AM, Princess Arabia said:

Yeah, where the fuck is OP. He's out enjoying life probably. Think whatever you want. Where were you when I was helping suicidals on here even started a thread making myself available to anyone who needs to talk and being the one to message some manic who asked for a friend that turned out to be a joke. Know the facts before starting judgements. One response to a post isn't enough. One just gets sick of the boy that cries wolf.

 All I'm saying is the guy asked not one question nor asked for any advice. Take these things on a case by case basis please. I would not respond like that to everyone seeking help, 

Does this seem like a cold person to you. 

I know you're not really cold. It's a defense mechanism to protect your big heart. lol

[Yimpa]

 

[ted73104]

On 2025/10/26 at 4:35 PM, Ramasta9 said:

Well antidepressants only damage and disrupt the happy chemicals in your brain even more. Think of it this way, its short term (numbness) for long term brain damage. Almost everyone I know who has taken anti-depressants, unless natural / herbal ones, is much worse now than they were back then. Sure they were sad and emotional, but now they are neurotic, angry and numb, little to no emotions about them or soul in them.
 

What you need my friend is a break from everything and your regular life and routine. Book a trip to thailand or india or somewhere new, disconnect from everyone temporarily, go camping in the woods in nature for a few days, take a break, a little mushroom may help too.

What you need is space to breathe and release all the shit that you are carrying that no longer serves you, and don't seek happiness, just be yourself, happiness naturally follows when you stop resisting who you truly are and live in alignment with your natural self.

 

 

After some thought, I think this is a really good solution. I'm going with this!

[Ramasta9]

26 minutes ago, ted73104 said:

After some thought, I think this is a really good solution. I'm going with this!

No worries I don't always post for the sake of posting or from a mental-space. Most of my comments are something I have lived, embodied and integrated myself. I speak from experience, know what works most of the time and what does not.

Glad I could help, it is my pleasure and service 🙏