jimwell

Women Should Love Money

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You have succeeded in gaining and accumulating millions, which is a very beautiful accomplishment. Now, you have freedom, power, and security.

But you have lost something that is also very beautiful. You can buy and wear the most expensive makeup from Chanel, Dior, or Tom Ford, and carry bags from Hermès, Louis Vuitton, or Chanel. You can travel to South Korea every month and stay in the finest hotels such as Signiel Seoul, The Shilla Seoul, or Park Hyatt Seoul for lip, nose, breast, and other costly surgeries. But none of those things can give you the true essence of femininity, because it is something money alone can never buy.

I will leave you with a line of poetry:

True femininity is not stitched by surgeons nor purchased in boutiques; it is a sacred essence, untouchable by wealth, and radiant beyond price.

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4 hours ago, jimwell said:

True femininity is not stitched by surgeons nor purchased in boutiques; it is a sacred essence, untouchable by wealth, and radiant beyond price.

That goes for man also, it's a consciousness thing. Seems like you're just hating a bit, or am i wrong?

 

Being born rich is not always an advantage in a long term, because you will have less fruits to enjoy from earthly plane ones your consciousness starts rising.  Being poor might have more suffering, but there are more earthly fruits and they will be enjoyed for a longer time. 

See it as, ofcourse it depends on each individual .

Rich people: Complete 20% of earthly desires sex/cars/food/god etc.

Poor people: Completed 5% of earthly desires sex/cars/food/god etc.

But in the end be happy with what you have or being given by god, we need everything and each individual doing things they do.

 

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She is so right. Leave women alone. She's not focusing on vain things like you mentioned. One important thing you said was about what femininity is and cannot be bought with money. So if that's the case, no amount of plastic surgery will change that. Men can love money but women loving money all of a sudden is vain. Men don't care about love they end up loving the women they're attracted to. Women are tired of men's bullshit and the world's treatment towards them.


What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. 

 

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4 hours ago, jimwell said:

True femininity is not stitched by surgeons nor purchased in boutiques; it is a sacred essence, untouchable by wealth, and radiant beyond price.

Perfect, so nothing can smear or taint that. It is innate. 


What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. 

 

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15 hours ago, Jowblob said:

That goes for man also, it's a consciousness thing. Seems like you're just hating a bit, or am i wrong?

Yes, the same principle applies to masculinity, even more so because masculinity is broader and deeper than femininity. Masculinity encompasses business, science, engineering, systems, martial arts, vision and ambition, spirituality, etc. The more a man relies on money and other people to do and accomplish things for him, the more of the essence of masculinity he loses. So, no I'm not hating.

 

15 hours ago, Jowblob said:

Being born rich is not always an advantage in a long term, because you will have less fruits to enjoy from earthly plane ones your consciousness starts rising.  Being poor might have more suffering, but there are more earthly fruits and they will be enjoyed for a longer time.

It's counter-intuitive because being born rich naturally robs you of the privilege of deeply appreciating and being grateful for every dollar, making millions or billions less meaningful and fulfilling.

Musk, Bezos, and the billionaires in home country have billions and enormous power. But I just need a few millions to feel much more grateful and powerful than they could ever feel. And my life feels much more purposeful, impactful, and even spiritual than they could ever feel. It's all relative although the last sentence I said might also be objective.

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14 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

She is so right. Leave women alone.

She does make valid statements in the video. 

 

14 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

She's not focusing on vain things like you mentioned.

You don't know that. She probably does. Poor people who become rich tend to collect luxurious things. I have observed this many times. And look at that car. Isn't that a Bentley or a Ferrari?

 

15 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

One important thing you said was about what femininity is and cannot be bought with money. So if that's the case, no amount of plastic surgery will change that.

Yes

 

15 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Women are tired of men's bullshit and the world's treatment towards them.

That's valid. Girls must be treated with appreciation and respect.

 

15 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Perfect, so nothing can smear or taint that. It is innate. 

Innate, indeed.

 

36 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Everybody like different things

Then what?

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2 hours ago, jimwell said:

Poor people who become rich tend to collect luxurious things. I have observed this many times. And look at that car. Isn't that a Bentley or a Ferrari?

More power to them. I'm so happy for them. Being able to appreciate and experience the luxuries of life as well as the not so luxurious before hand. What do you think spiritual people are doing. I won't get into it here but it's pretty much the same thing; looking for a particular kind of feeling, a better experience, just using different tools. Spiritualists have managed to deceive themselves thinking one is better than the other and that they are more conscious than those who seek it materially. Then they put them down for it. The feeling is the secret, baby. That's the objective for everyone no matter the cost.


What you know leaves what you don't know and what you don't know is all there is. 

 

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Everyone should love money. Pursuing financial freedom is one of the most loving things you can do. You can help yourself and others, some forms of building wealth are more exploitative than others but that is difficult to escape in this reality. I say a lot of things about women but I don't resent them loving money, it is the least of my issues with women. 

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@Tenebroso That's a good response.

 

3 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

More power to them. I'm so happy for them. Being able to appreciate and experience the luxuries of life as well as the not so luxurious before hand.

Yes, there's nothing wrong with enjoying luxury. 

 

3 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

What do you think spiritual people are doing. I won't get into it here but it's pretty much the same thing; looking for a particular kind of feeling, a better experience, just using different tools.

Many of them engage in spiritual bypassing which is an erroneous way to engage in spirituality.

 

4 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Spiritualists have managed to deceive themselves thinking one is better than the other and that they are more conscious than those who seek it materially. Then they put them down for it.

Here's a reply that's a bit poetic:

Although spirituality may wound and weigh on survival, when embraced in balance, it blossoms into a radiant celebration of life.

 

4 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

The feeling is the secret, baby.

 It feels good to feel good. :)

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What she's saying is just great advice for women. She's not saying anything shallow like the OP suggests. She's talking about the safety of being able to escape from abuse. And given that her dad abused her mom, it makes sense that she's very attuned to and aware of these risks.

A lot of women end up in a relationship where the man is making all the money or where he makes a ton more money than she does, such that she relies on him partially or wholly for sustenance... which gives the man considerable power over her.

Or there can even be a dynamic where both the man and woman don't make a lot of money and have to live together in order to keep things afloat, and cannot support themselves off of a single income.

And in these situations financial abuse and other forms of abuse run rampant because the woman cannot escape without plunging herself and potentially her children into poverty. It's like, "Do I stay with this man who is physically/emotionally/sexually/financially abusing me? Or do I escape with my children and live out of my car and homeless shelters where the kids will be exposed to all manner of trauma?"

It's a terrible place to be that MANY women get themselves into.

Honestly, having the capacity to make enough money to support yourself and your children off of your own income alone is SOOO MUCH safer for women.

This dynamic could also happen in a dynamic where the woman is controlling a man financially. But most of the time, it happens the opposite way.

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