Should I talk philosophically with my family members?

[Princess Arabia]

10 hours ago, Someone here said:

@Princess Arabia it's not assumptions sweetie . Your entire terminology and ideas which you spout every day here is literally borrowed from those I mentioned. Not your own original "philosophy " or call it what have you .

No one owns any philosophy. Wasn't Jim and Tony babies at one time. Where did they get it from. Borrowed? What a joke. Let me see you write an entire journal for a year and a half filled with this stuff written in your own words. 

Ok, I'll start posting about life's problems just so you can feel at home and have some company. 

 

Edited October 7 by Princess Arabia

[Natasha Tori Maru]

14 hours ago, ivankiss said:

What I'm doing, is basically acting as some sort of a therapist to her. Because she refuses any kind of therapy. I ask her about her past. Her childhood. My childhood. I go on long walks with her. I bring her flowers. I compliment her cooking and remind her how strong she is. I try to suggest little, healthy things. Like stretching, meditation, massage, etc. I installed chatgpt on her phone and told her she can ask literally anything that pops up in her mind. I watch TV with her. I help her around the house a bit. I'm trying to keep myself out of the way as much as possible. The focus is entirely on her. It's all about giving her love, care and strength. Because I am healthy and strong enough to stand firmly in my truth now. I am a rock. Unshakable. Immovable. She is not. She is very, very emotionally/mentally unstable and physically weak. So I must be very careful not to harm her in any way, or speak my truth too loudly. My challenge here is not to lose my voice but also not let her get to me with her comments (which she makes on a daily basis) ...rather just really act from a place of wanting to help her heal.

This is beautiful.

From my perspective - I am not really great at talking about emotions to help soothe others. My mind jumps too quickly  into solving their problem, as my way to care. Often others feel I am being heartless as I will gut the feeling out of the equation looking for a solution for them. When what they wanted was to earnestly express and be heard. And I never mean harm, it is always with good intentions.

So to get my truth across, I will communicate in actions. I don't tell someone what will help them, I do it with them by experiencing with them. We do it together. I show the truth in actions. That is how it comes through me to assist others when words are needed for just the emotional expression. In this way I am heard because my truth speaks - just in action. And this communicates better than anything, because it is also shared time with the person where they can also emote. And in no way do I mean force - only if the recipient is happy to do the thing. The thing is to help them. Walks. Going out and buying something to solve a problem. Helping with the cooking. Instead of words 'Eat less junk, touch grass, buy some slippers for cold feet'.

I see your actions as speaking truth through the body and time spent together. A truly masculine language and way to give back to the woman who gave you life.

Just my interpretation <3

 

[meta_male]

18 hours ago, Someone here said:

In short ..why am I philosophical and people stupid ?

Actually, it's the other way round.

[UnbornTao]

Shame on you - I can be both philosophical and stupid.

[meta_male]

@UnbornTao Damnit, you got me there. Don't make me look stupid.

[Someone here]

@Hojo OK you are on a next level dude .

On 06/10/2025 at 10:57 PM, UnbornTao said:

What result do you hope to achieve by doing that? Is it really useful or necessary? What other effective options do you have at your disposal? These are not rethorical questions, by the way.

Like I said I want to help people who are close to me to improve their minds and to start thinking deeply about life like how us(actualized.org followers) do. 

It is not "necessary " but its better.

[Someone here]

20 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Let me see you write an entire journal for a year and a half filled with this stuff written in your own words. 

This makes everything clear right now .you just want to sound smart and knowledgeable by writing a long ass journal?  This is pathetic. 

[Princess Arabia]

7 minutes ago, Someone here said:

This makes everything clear right now .you just want to sound smart and knowledgeable by writing a long ass journal?  This is pathetic. 

Lol. If I had a journal documenting my fake problems, addictions and reliving trauma and rehashing memories of stuff that ain't happening, that would make for a cool journal. A journal about the Absolute in my own words even though that's also the absolute talking is pathetic. Cool. Not phased. Neurosis not that prevalent here, just a little bit. What will your next post be, how do I what? Be more advanced? Hehe

Edited October 7 by Princess Arabia

[Someone here]

 

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

What will your next post be, how do I what? Be more advanced? Hehe

my next post will be :how many angels exist on a head of needle? 

[Hojo]

Your eyes moving around are a representation of you in the 2nd dimension.

Edited October 8 by Hojo

[UnbornTao]

6 hours ago, Someone here said:

@Hojo OK you are on a next level dude .

Like I said I want to help people who are close to me to improve their minds and to start thinking deeply about life like how us(actualized.org followers) do. 

It is not "necessary " but its better.

I see. Bring to the fore assumptions you guys hold by asking specific and yet open questions and dialoguing about a particular subject. This helps you open up your minds. 

Edited October 8 by UnbornTao