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3 minutes ago, ivankiss said:

@Princess Arabia That's a nice/refreshing perspective. Enjoyed reading. Sadly, most women will not think the same way. But that's just my opinion.

I think it's the guys that put the pressure on themselves to 'perform'. Women are naturally nurturing and will be more forgiving in these circumstances. It's only when it's a matter of true survival of kids and family where she'll want the guy to be more 'perfect' and fit more into her world of survival. What OP explained was more in fun and play and, remember, women love to play and have fun.....until.


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Same goes for men, of course. Not to appear as sexist or something.


 

 

 

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Just now, ivankiss said:

@Princess Arabia Depends how healthy and sane the woman is, I guess. 

Again, nice perspective, thanks.

Yes, I agree depends on the woman. You're welcome. 🫠


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I see girls as giant ice creams of different flavors and/or sizes that I potentially want to enjoy.

In this setting, there's no fear or "simping," because you don't "need" her; she imposes herself on you, just as the taste of strawberry ice cream imposes itself on you when you bite into it; you simply enjoy what's available.

The more performative, directed by ego I am, the less it works.

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44 minutes ago, theleelajoker said:

@Something Funny Wait until he falls in love ; )

@Schizophonia When was last time you have been in love?

I had a huge crush in middle school.
Then in high school, I wasn't really interested in girls, and afterward, I socially isolated myself and suffered from very severe insomnia for over three years, so I didn't fall in love or even met girls.
Some girls actually gravitated toward me when I was still present in college, but I didn't care because of my health in particular but also because I felt nothing for them.

Indeed i have no problem talking to girls and asking for their number, it's like talking to the postman.

Probably if I were in love I would be softer, but that wasn't the point.


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1 hour ago, Something Funny said:

@SchizophoniaI wish I could be like you, that would make things very simple. But I am not.

It's just conditioning.


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16 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I had a huge crush in middle school.
Then in high school, I wasn't really interested in girls, and afterward, I socially isolated myself and suffered from very severe insomnia for over three years, so I didn't fall in love or even met girls.
Some girls actually gravitated toward me when I was still present in college, but I didn't care because of my health in particular but also because I felt nothing for them.

Indeed i have no problem talking to girls and asking for their number, it's like talking to the postman.

Probably if I were in love I would be softer, but that wasn't the point.

What I am pointing to is that girls might be less like ice cream if they didn't mean nothing to you. 

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4 minutes ago, theleelajoker said:

What I am pointing to is that girls might be less like ice cream if they didn't mean nothing to you. 

Yes lol, although of course a compatible girl is better than any ice cream.

 


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44 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

It's just conditioning.

we clearly have different personality types.

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You might be too tense. Fuck it, what do you care? Just have fun! 🍾🎈

Elaboration: it is a matter of skill to fluidly enter a state of not caring and just having fun. Practice entering that state, for your own enjoyment. It’ll be good.

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21 minutes ago, Sincerity said:

You might be too tense. Fuck it, what do you care? Just have fun! 🍾🎈

Elaboration: it is a matter of skill to fluidly enter a state of not caring and just having fun. Practice entering that state, for your own enjoyment. It’ll be good.

I get what you point to. But to have fun, you need to care somehow. Imagine a game where you care zero about the outcome.


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1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

Yes lol, although of course a compatible girl is better than any ice cream.

 

You can dip your baguette in the cream..LOL


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41 minutes ago, theleelajoker said:

I get what you point to. But to have fun, you need to care somehow. Imagine a game where you care zero about the outcome.

With a woman: be detached, have fun, lead but without expectation or insistence.

An attitude of: I don’t care, let’s have fun together, you and I! Come with me, play! I will lead you! And if you don’t want to - cool, it was nice to meet you, I’m going somewhere else then, bye.

Consider that the outcome you could care about is having fun together. That you can insist on.

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34 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

@Sincerity I think I might take 0.5gr of mushrooms the next time I go out. I think it could help me.

Learn to have fun by doing what you genuinely want to do. HAVE FUN!

You don’t need to go to a boring cafe with a girl. What would you genuinely want to do? Invite her to play badminton, or ping pong, or take her to a God damn arcade, invite her to fucking bet on horses, whatever man. I went to a dancing lesson evening with my girl on our second date. I don’t dance well but I did dance, and had fun. Being loose and doing what you want is key.


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