I think Marriage and kids are essential to happiness

[Someone here]

I don't think there Is any bigger joy in life than a cute little boy or cute little girl calling you dad or mom ..  Arguable but that's something I came to appreciate and proitize in my life ever since I became an uncle . I'm totally focusing on getting my stuff handled in life so that I can get married and have kids . If you'd ask me as little as two years ago I would say fuck wedlock and fuck kids ..I just want to be a player and sleep around with hunders of girls ..Don Jon lifestyle . But it is true that your priorities and your interests in life can and do change as you grow up and age and gain some actual life experience. I started to appreciate the distinction between sex and intimacy. Sex is not enough .and sex is not that difficult to get to be honest with you ..all you need is some money basically. But you can't buy things like intimacy..love..connection ..caring ..etc with money alone.  

I do think that these things like marriage and raising a family and kids is one of the most important aspects of life.  I didn't realize that when I was younger because of obvious teenage immaturity and because I have no frame of reference of this..until my sister got married and I became an uncle . And that's actually my number one goal right now in life. I will put philosophical and figuring existence out on hold and focus more on that goal I just mentioned. After all I'm not going to ever reach any levels of understanding existence deeper than what Leo have reached and have shared in his channel for free .I'm forever grateful to Leo and I have all of his profound videos saved .but for now I need to shift into more down to earth stuff.

[bazera]

@Someone here When I became an uncle, I had an exact opposite feeling, like I didn't want that hustle of having a kid and orienting my whole life and priorities towards that one thing. Not sure why, but I think the main reason is that I have some things to do first, some karma to burn, and I think family / kids lifestyle won't suit me. 

Don't you have some feelings of that "karma" that you need to burn before commiting like that or you already burned through enough that it was enough.

And before when you didn't want kids, how did you envision your life? like what did you image you'd do instead of having kids and family?

Btw, how old are you?