How to set up a tinder profile if you hate taking photos of yourself?

[meta_male]

1 hour ago, Something Funny said:

There should definitely be some cheesy way to get a gf with zero effort.

Absolutely! If you close your eyes real tight and believe, she will eventually knock on the door and jump on your lap.

 

 

[Something Funny]

@meta_male haha, why so cynical?

[meta_male]

@Something Funny Because someone has to balance out the fairytales.

[meta_male]

Real talk though: the easiest hack is to have something in your life more compelling than trying to get a girlfriend. But yeah, it sucks because you can’t control when it works.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Something Funny said:

Do you ask random people to take pictures of you?

No, I had friends take them 

Random people will rarely take good quality photos of you, but I guess it's better than nothing.

[Something Funny]

@something_else yeah, so now I have to have friends to travel with...

[Sugarcoat]

2 hours ago, Something Funny said:

There should definitely be some cheesy way to get a gf with zero effort.

It can take work to actualize your authentic best self but once you get there being yourself is effortless and makes you most attractive

[Schizophonia]

13 hours ago, Something Funny said:

Why not?

Because what makes me attractive is physical proximity and common interests.

When you are on a social network you are a random for the other and vice versa so you will have to "force"; Force in fact with good photos to attract trust, force the discussion... 

If I wanted to, I could find a girlfriend in 1 to 2 weeks at university or a sports club, much easier and more fun than with Tinder.

Then one would say it's because i'm quite attractive, but i've seen several time nonattractive men who even get hit on, they just get hit on by looksmatches.

The more unnatural the dating method (PUAs and dating sites), the more difficult and painful it is.

[meta_male]

14 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

The more unnatural the dating method (PUAs and dating sites), the more difficult and painful it is.

Refreshing to see someone who gets it.

@Something Funny If you wanna go the dating app route and don't have any photos or friends who take good photos: Joby GripTight One + phone + some practise is all you need.

[Something Funny]

@Schizophonia what are you studying?

[Something Funny]

@meta_male no, ok, I dont.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Something Funny said:

@something_else yeah, so now I have to have friends to travel with...

Stay in hostels and you'll make friends very quickly. If you're solo travelling and staying in hotels instead of hostels, you're doing it wrong.

Most of the best friends I have right now are all people I met in a hostel at one point or another.

Edited Monday at 12:18 PM by something_else

[Something Funny]

1 minute ago, something_else said:

Stay in hostels and you'll make friends very quickly. If you're solo travelling and staying in hotels instead of hostels, you're doing it wrong.

Most of the best friends I have right now are all people I met in a hostel at one point or another.

Wow, cool tip, thank you.

[Schizophonia]

47 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

@Schizophonia what are you studying?

Philosophy 

[Something Funny]

@Schizophonia really? Do you work and study or just study? Is this your first degree?

[Schizophonia]

8 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

@Schizophonia really? Do you work and study or just study? Is this your first degree?

I study remotely from my village; I just have to go to my university at the end of each semester for exams.
 

I work here and there for my family or on small temporary assignments, but there is very little student work where I am, I had managed to get a job as a cashier very recently but it was cancelled at the last minute by management because they no longer wanted to replace the guy who was supposed to be replaced.
 

I want to find a job in a bigger city and move out of my city.

I just past my first year, it’s a bit late but insomnia forced me put my studies asides.

 

And you ?

Edited Monday at 12:45 PM by Schizophonia

[Something Funny]

@Schizophonia I see. 22 is not that late. I am 25 and am considering either resuming my studies or going to study something from scratch. But U am not sure if it's worth it. Do you actually enjoy yours?

I have a bachelors degree in business administration. I then went on to master studies but quit during the first semester and have been working a corporate job in logistics since (I quit about 3 years ago).

Btw, I've just realised that we have the same birthday (unless you lied in your profile). Mine is 06.05.2000

[Schizophonia]

11 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

@Schizophonia I see. 22 is not that late. I am 25 and am considering either resuming my studies or going to study something from scratch. But U am not sure if it's worth it. Do you actually enjoy yours?

Yea quite.

 

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I have a bachelors degree in business administration. I then went on to master studies but quit during the first semester and have been working a corporate job in logistics since (I quit about 3 years ago).

Btw, I've just realised that we have the same birthday (unless you lied in your profile). Mine is 06.05.2000

Funny coincidence indeed eheh

At the time it was a hard heatwave, the epidural hadn't worked and I had to be artificially induced.

My mom sometimes reminds me how “I tore her” but still loves me lol

Edited Monday at 01:11 PM by Schizophonia

[Something Funny]

Just now, Schizophonia said:

My mom sometimes reminds me how “I tore her” but still loves me lol

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

I feel sorry (ok, maybe not) for anyone (who's a hetero male), who considers Tinder as an option, while not even being able to have a good Instagram. Or any kind of social life or life in general. And looks like a bag of potatoes. Like, goddamn son, what do you expect your results are going to be LMAO